Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

There she goes again. I have spend 8 yrs of my life trying to deal with the greatest antagonist of my life. She makes stories abt me that I have another man, coz my husband works overseas. I live in a separate house just one ride from her, she even contracted my neighbors to see if some guys visited me.

She wants to destroy my marriage maybe bcoz he wants his son to send money straight to her. She's making my life miserable. I tried to be a good daughter in law for her but she's making stories to people around me even in my own relatives that I'm the baddest girl of all.

My husband who's working years now overseas knows his mother and gives symphathy on me but can't control how his mother treats me. Sometimes I want to SEPARATE with him to get her fuc**** mother out of my life & I begin to fall out of love w/ him bcoz of his mother although he's the nicest man and seems so much inlove w/ me.

What will I do?I feel like I have to deal w/ his mom 4ever as long as I'm married.tnx.

2007-12-04 08:33:12 · 17 answers · asked by GirL next door 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 And When Ever I Get sent out of lesson or sumin the teachers asks me whta i dun it tell her den half way frew she will but in and go so yuh was bein rude or thats not wat yuh teacher sed. or maybe yuh sister broke a glass and yuh get blamed and yur mom will strt havin a go at yuh den yuh wud say it wasnt me den shed say yer well yur sister wudnt lie its soo anoyin !!!.. yuh parents always say were so moody and cheeky. but i fink yur the 1 wit the problem we cant speak to yuh or we get shouted it and then sayin dnt be so cheeky or w.e all i want to no is why yuh cant jus let us speak and here our sides the story be4 jumpin 2 conclusions ????

2007-12-04 08:32:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend and I are both freshmen at separate colleges who see eachother a few days every 3 weeks as well as during vacations.
We recently had a conversation in which she said that she 'isn't a horny person' and that she's never been horny in the sense of wanting sexual gratification at random times. According to her, we'll start fooling around because I want to and then a 'little lightbulb' will switch on, usually after I've touched her hoo-ha. When ever we mess around, she clearly has fun, and it's not difficult to get her to orgasm, but I can't help feeling like it's a favor to me, and that all I'm doing is tickling her nerve endings without anything really occurring in the sense of an actual sort of feeling. She's never masturbated a day in her life and it seems like she just isn't horny at all unless there's a hand already down her pants.
Is she really not horny, or is she just not assertive? And does that situation generally change with age/time? Is there anything I can do?

2007-12-04 08:32:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine is completely happy with my Missy in it
is yours happy How ???

2007-12-04 08:31:43 · 17 answers · asked by NIFman 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

A married woman wants to have an affair with me (I'm single). I know that she is very unhappy in her marriage. She's very attractive and sexy. What should I do?

2007-12-04 08:31:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work at zales and were both full time students and part time workers, Im going to ask her sometime soon and I dnt know which diamond to get her either the one thats 1ct about $2000 but really isnt that nice but the price isn t bad or the beautiful 1ct sI2 for $3200. Keep in mind full time students I have some good money coming in I just like being good with my money. I just want to give her the perfect one because she is kind of sentimental girl. Plz serious answers thank you all.

2007-12-04 08:31:08 · 20 answers · asked by corey b 2 in Weddings

Sources would be great...Thank You!

2007-12-04 08:28:05 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As stated in my last question. Which is she has a fantasy of being with more than one man at a time and even gang b***. Anyways what is are possibilities of acting on it? What might come of it? Serious only and women only pls

2007-12-04 08:23:59 · 20 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a TEENAGER that have to have my own room and closet....
which means that i'm now is sharing romm and closet with my younger sister...how can i convince my mom to give me a room for myself?

p.s,before this,i want to share room..until i was scolded for it...but now,i want it the other way around...hmm..

2007-12-04 08:22:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

IS it best to give them space and let them come to you whne they're ready? he says i'm his rock and all and then he pulls away and shuts me out. should i let him come to me when hes READY? AM I JUST BEING STUPID. he says he has more respect for me and that if there was someone else he would tell me and i really have no reason to think otherwise. he is not a dog and i have never been given a reason not to trust him. could he just need space and he's pulling away like guys sometimes do? we go through this occasionally and it ***** me up every time. i call it the fishing game and its when i get to o close he casts me back out to sea again and when i get too far away...thats when he realizes i might just leave and he reels me back in. wht do i do? is this **** normal?

2007-12-04 08:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by LMD 4 in Singles & Dating

think to yourself why is it that I am even trying to figure this out?

2007-12-04 08:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5 in Singles & Dating

Would you prefer your new bride to be a woman who has had sex with alot of other men, only 1-2 other men, or be a virgin? Why is this?

I'd prefer a woman who's had sex with a few other men. That way, she'd know what she is doing. She would be able to communicate the things she likes and dislikes. And there is the added bonus that she won't be in agonizing pain on our wedding night. IMO, women who have safe sex with men they truly love with are the most mature and best lovers.

Nobody wants to marry a slut, I think.

But I think it would be pretty bad to marry a virgin. The girls I know who are virgins are very ashamed of their sexuality, and have very low sex drives. Some of them don't like ANY kind of physical touch from a guy! Many virgins tend to be prudish and unknowledgeable about sex, and what they like. They don't want to try new things, because they think sex is a gross thing. One virgin I know doesn't even like to think about having sex. It would also hurt her the first time.

2007-12-04 08:15:33 · 4 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think this is wierd!!!! Rate my housemate Yes or No?
He is 32 and still rents a roon in a shared house

he goes on the sunbeds more than any female i know and asked me if I thought he was naturally that brown..when i said i didnt really think about him that often he went quiet.

He called me a witch both when he was drunk and sober..he walked in from work and he said to the pet rabbit whilst i was stood there "did the witch not feed you"

He broke up with his girlfriend and has taked over 2 weeks off work he said he has a bug but was well enough to go to the gym and for a sunbed- and then moaned that he would get in trouble when he goes back to work???

what do you think!!

2007-12-04 08:14:42 · 1 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

Fill in the blanks folks.

2007-12-04 08:14:19 · 6 answers · asked by kharilli 5 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy that I like and he told me he liked me too but, his best friend likes me too. He says he dosent want to hurt his friend. What can I do? I mean Should I talk to his friend or should I try to get over him? I don't really know what to do.

2007-12-04 08:12:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 8 years and I am coming to realize that my husband doesn't like me. He would never say it but he hates me. He hates my clothes, my hair, even my pajamas and makeup. Basically anything that isn't tshisrt, jeans and ponytail. He looks at me with disgust and I am not even comfortable around him because I feel like I am constantly being judged. It's humiliating and I am embaressed around him because I can tell he just thinks I look stupid. He says he likes certain things, like a sweater and then later when I put it back on, he looks at me with that look, and it goes into the closet forever. He has told me before that I am not the best looking person he's dated so I feel a need for his approval, but I can't ever get it. Why is he with me if he doesn't like the way I look or dress? I don't want to be the wife who embaresses her husband but I feel like I do.

2007-12-04 08:11:20 · 42 answers · asked by suitablepenname 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know all of you are gonna say yes of course he likes you but I want to know what you think anyway. Just mature answers.

I have known this guy for many months since the end of April. We have only been friends. But just the past couple months we have started making out and all that. We have not had sex though. So what do you all think? Should I just ask him? because I am confused right now.

Thanks.

2007-12-04 08:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by hev_1985 4 in Singles & Dating

This guy I know is a very kind person but he doesn't look all that great. I mean it's not his body, just his face. I mean it's alright but he's just not that goodlooking. But his voice is hot and deep. What should I do? :'( He really means a lot to me and I keep escaping from him and making all these excuses and he's not buying it. I don't know why I'm running away. =(

2007-12-04 08:10:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there any men that are 16-18 yrs. old out there? I've had some boyfriends but they all turned out to be jerks. Please answer if you are NOT a jerk and if you are cute. Thanks SO much!

2007-12-04 08:08:29 · 17 answers · asked by Oda Mea 1 in Singles & Dating

When I think about my wife and I seperating, my stomach hurts. When I think about my wife and I staying together, my stomach hurts.

To answer your questions, search on "In Need of Honest Advice"

2007-12-04 08:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I are not having sex as much as I would like

I would love it everyday but limit myslef to every other day

SO if you have a woman like this why would you deny her sex but go to internet porn sites while she is at work?

No I am not ugly either and he says the sex is awesome so what gives?

2007-12-04 08:07:30 · 5 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5 in Singles & Dating

My wife confided in me that she has a fantasy of being with more than one man at a time and also of gang b***. Do a lot of married women hav this fantasy?

2007-12-04 08:07:07 · 17 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So my brother is getting married sometimes in 2008/09.
He proposed with this ring:
http://www.tiffany.com/Engagement/Item.aspx?subCategoryid=1005

So I want to get her a necklace and earrings for her weding day as sort of a "welcome to the family" gift.

What do you guys think of these:
http://www.tiffany.com/Shopping/Item.aspx?sku=17006452&mcat=148204&cid=287465&search_params=s+5-p+6-c+287465-r+101323341+101323351-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+


http://www.tiffany.com/Shopping/Item.aspx?sku=22415964&mcat=&cid=&search_params=s+3-p+2-c+-r+101287464-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+Drop&search=1

2007-12-04 08:05:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It's just that I really thought I'd found "the one" in Crispy (after the 3,000 or so no-hopers) - but over the past few days he's told everyone that I:

Have big, hairy feet
Smell
Can't cook
Cheat on him with the neighbours dog (okay, that's true, but he didn't have to TELL everyone).

I don't think he loves me at all. Do you?

2007-12-04 08:04:25 · 20 answers · asked by Ms Minger 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 08:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i meet this girl last week at a party. had a really good time with her. went back to her place hung out till like 530am so we werent drunk. We eventually hooked up that night and she told me during that she had a good time hanging out with me, i told her i did too. sunday i txted her because i forgot to give her my number after she gave me hers. and was just like we should hang out. and she was like ya. and then i said i had a really good time with her that night. but i never got a response from her about that was wondring if that means back off or she is tryign to play hard to get, which i doubt, or she just was busy. Im probably over think this bc thats what i tend to do and i think of the worst possible cenario. I dont want to hang out with her again just to hook up with her again, i ligitimally had a good time hangin out.

2007-12-04 08:03:02 · 3 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

I just am so confused by this. One minute me and my parents are laughing and joking around and then the next I feel ganged up on and I did something wrong again. why do teens and parents generally don't get along?

2007-12-04 08:01:36 · 41 answers · asked by brighteyesjfk 2 in Family

2007-12-04 08:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by dezpurahdo 1 in Singles & Dating

Hot mommy (or mama).
or
"Shorty" (which never made *any* sense to me).
or
Baby girl.

So, do girls *really* like being referred to like this, or is it just something I hear on the radio and see on television.

2007-12-04 08:00:24 · 71 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5 in Singles & Dating

She is 35 and I am 22, she gave me her number awhile back and when I made a move she rejected me( I asked for a kiss, after she told me she likes guys that take control) Now, when I see her she asks if I still have her number? Why would she ask me, after she rejected me? I don't understand. Does she want a friend or a boy toy? Please give your advice. Do I have a chance or is she just testing to see if she can still get a younger man?

2007-12-04 08:00:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating