A married woman wants to have an affair with me (I'm single). I know that she is very unhappy in her marriage. She's very attractive and sexy. What should I do?
2007-12-04 08:31:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should respect yourself and leave her alone.
She's in a marriage whether it's good or bad....and until she's free she should be off limits.
2007-12-04 08:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't religious and you just want some fun go for it. But don't EVEN THINK on having something serious with that person in the future - which is why she likes you and needs a safety net (which later she will realize doesn't really need it and you will be on your own). Also, keep things as "friends" and keep the distance and the limits VERY strictly, there is just one part you can enjoy and protect yourself. This will help you to expand your horizons and learn more about women, I would actually recommend it if you are planning on being single for a long time, because it will also make you trust less in women in the future, because you will see how they lie and probably you will see how she will rip the guy off from his belongings (most likely) and you will see a guy go down really fast financially and emotionally (you will just hear).
If you don't do anything and you let her go she will do it with someone else almost right away, because you are just an object for her at this time, she has other things to worry about like: her, her, her, her, her.
This is just way too crazy, ideally for you will be to find someone single, you wont really have a good time. Plus, if she sees you leaving later it will freak out and you will do everything she can to get you in troubles - don't even try anything if you see this person daily.
It's all up to you, you can learn a lot from this experience and have a good time in somehow exploring the world where you live.
2007-12-04 17:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that if she is unhappy in her marriage she needs to do something about it...but you are not going to lower your moral standards to sleeping with a married woman. That is horrible...regardless of how 'unhappy' her marriage is...there is still someone else involved and that is enough to say "No way. That is not right." Plus, I would not be getting involved with her...considering she is ready to skip around on her husband, it likely means she will be skipping around on you at some point too (with more than just her husband!) That is like asking for some diseases!
2007-12-04 16:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jules, E, and Liam :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone assumes that you want a relationship from this, or assumes that her husband will find out, or assumes that karma will get you. Married women need more hot, sexy, young guys to take out their frustrations on. A married woman has a lot offer.. experience wise. As long as she knows straight up that it's simply a fwb situation and she doesn't make the mistake of falling in love with you, and she doesn't get bitter when it's over, then idk. Make her fantasies come true..
2007-12-04 19:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, that is homewrecking. There are perfectly good single people in this world to sleep with. How would you like it if you were her husband and found out later on in the run. You wouldn't it's hurtful and very painful. If she isn't happy tell her to get a divorce then sleep with her. You can't ruin some-one's life like that. Wake up to your self it's very selfish and in time she will regret it too.
2007-12-04 16:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those types of relationships aren't good for you, and certainly aren't good for him. If she has made a commitment to her husband, s he should honor that or get out if she doesn't want to be married to him. Don't let someone place you in the position of being second. She won;'t leave her husband for you, and that alone puts you in second place. All wmen and womes should come first in the relationships they are in!
2007-12-04 18:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have, and it wasn't worth the trouble. Leave her alone. It's not worth the trouble of helping her wreck her marriage. Besides, she could decide to go back to her husband at any time, leaving you out in the cold.
Find a woman who is emotionally available to you 24/7, not someone who is giving you crumbs. Good luck.
2007-12-04 16:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your call if he finds out and you end up in some court battle Or he pounds knots on you or worse>Besides she has issues> With no morals>Find a single 1 there safer>
2007-12-04 16:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did several years ago, before I was married. Even though I felt it was wrong I did it anyway, and to be honest with you no one ever found out about it.
2007-12-04 16:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do?
1) hope her husband isn't violent, jealous, or dangerous
2) hope she isn't using you to make her husband jealous
3) hope you don't get her pregnant
4) hope your friends and family never find out
5) hope a single girl who is attractive and sexy has the time and patience to wait for you to get your act together and ask her out
2007-12-04 17:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her husband what he thinks about this idea.
Also ask yourself "How would I feel if I was married or with someone and they cheated on me?" If you don't like that idea, then don't follow through. What goes around comes around.
If you have no morals and it doesn't bother you...then you are going to do what you choose to do.
2007-12-04 16:36:35 · answer #11 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋