A question for men about lovers. Would you prefer a virgin or a woman who had had sex before?

Question

Would you prefer your new bride to be a woman who has had sex with alot of other men, only 1-2 other men, or be a virgin? Why is this?

I'd prefer a woman who's had sex with a few other men. That way, she'd know what she is doing. She would be able to communicate the things she likes and dislikes. And there is the added bonus that she won't be in agonizing pain on our wedding night. IMO, women who have safe sex with men they truly love with are the most mature and best lovers.

Nobody wants to marry a slut, I think.

But I think it would be pretty bad to marry a virgin. The girls I know who are virgins are very ashamed of their sexuality, and have very low sex drives. Some of them don't like ANY kind of physical touch from a guy! Many virgins tend to be prudish and unknowledgeable about sex, and what they like. They don't want to try new things, because they think sex is a gross thing. One virgin I know doesn't even like to think about having sex. It would also hurt her the first time.

Answer 1

If I had to choose, I would want a lady that's interested in and curious about sex. Wouldn't matter whether she's a virgin or not.

There are plenty of sexually active people out there with all sorts of hangups and discomforts about sex.

Someone who's interested will be more likely to have fun at it. And someone who's curious will have studied about it even though she might never have tried it.

Answer 2

Virgin maybe if I was 18 but why there boring and inexperience after 1 time there not a Virgin>Experience is more fun>Just my thought>If a virgin stay 1 be safe>

Answer 3

An experienced lady for me, but not wh**e. Someone who knows what she likes to feel and do. She can still be very much a lady, Experience do not make a female a wh**e

Answer 4

well obviously you pick up chicks at church b/c most virgins are not like that! marry a slut, who cares