Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

i got married at 19 and move to texas for my wifes job promotion..before we moved to texas i was in computer school and didnt finish do to the move..so i have an outstanding loan of 7grand and now i finished truck drivers school and have another tuition of 7 grand..the company i worked for screwed my bills and my families comfort so i found a local job that pays the same..i dont wanna go drive cross country now on top of the fact that they screwed me once so y go back..my wifes mad sayin im changing the plans because now i found a local job paying the same amount and ill be home but they dont do tuition reimbersment..i still need my cdl to work at this place so its not going to waste..she says im changen the plans am i wrong? im just trying to provide for whats going on now and fix our bills

2007-12-04 10:08:23 · 18 answers · asked by b.moretee24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend overheard my crush bringing my name up to his friends? she was in the halls walking right in front of them and she said he said " Hey you know that girl Jackie?" his friends- "with the dark hair, freshman?" he replied yes they said "Yeah, why do u like her?" he was like "uh no idk.." and then my friend said she turned around and his face was red?

He brought me up..was it on purpose cause my friend was there and does he not like me or what cause he denied liking me..

2007-12-04 10:08:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want new eye glasses soon but its like i can wait but id be happy if i got them on christmas. Is there anything i can say to convince them in a way that shows that im not being ungrateful for everything i have but still demandnig for new glasses all in a nice way?

2007-12-04 10:07:17 · 9 answers · asked by lileze93 1 in Family

2007-12-04 10:06:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im kind of talking to this guy yesterday me and my friend went to his house to pick up a puppy he gave me, he introduced us to his dad etc. we were playing with the dogs it was fun. After when we were about to go home he introduced me to his older sister and she gave me and my friend a dirty look but still said hi. what does mean? does she not like me? but she doesnt know me! should i even worry about this?

2007-12-04 10:04:40 · 21 answers · asked by JACKIELOVE3 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are dateing and we were talking on msn one day and he said when are u going to marry??
and i said when i am maybe 20-30
and then he is like "who do u think u are gonna get married too?'
a i said "i dunno ?"
and he said i know who i am gonna get married...to u!?
and i was shoked there 4 ever.
and i love him and all but i am not one of those girls who love him to wanna get maried to him .....?
i just dunnno what to do or sayyyy
plz help....and my heart is telling me that it has NO NO NO NO idea!!!!????

2007-12-04 10:04:26 · 16 answers · asked by hjlkjh 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering

2007-12-04 10:03:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so this is what I am getting my boyfriend for Christmas.

4 bandanas, Blue, red, white, black

A chain

A hat (That says LA on it)

And cologne

Well today my best friend came up to me and said that she was getting my boyfriend cologne and an expensive watch. (Her sister works at a pawn shop and her mom will buy her anything.) So she gave me this cologne sample called Usher and said it was what she was going to get him. It smells SO good. I dont want to copy her so I need advice on a good cologne that smells REALLY good that isnt THAT strong. Its for a 14 year old. Then I need help finding a cheap real chain (silver or gold) that is pretty cheap. Then I need help finding a hat that I think that he will like that says LA on it. Can any of you help? Links are appreciated. Also, if you have any other advice on anything else affordable to buy it would be appreciated. Thankyou!

2007-12-04 10:02:27 · 41 answers · asked by *Natalie.* :P 5 in Friends

How many of you actually married your high school sweetheart.

2007-12-04 10:01:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

guys that wear designer brands, low hanging pants, thuggish,

2007-12-04 09:58:45 · 29 answers · asked by Daman11 2 in Singles & Dating

ok dont ask why i did any of this but i did and i need help. i told a former teacher of mine (who calls me her daughter) all this stuff about my best friend (who the teacher also calls her daughter) and it is getting way out of hand. at first i told her that the girl was hiding from her and said that she was going 2 kill herself and stuff and now i told the teacher that the girl said she hated her and me and stuff and the teacher has been calling this girl's parents and stuff and i cant tell the teacher that i lied 2 her. please help me get out of this and dont say that its my fault because i know that. help! p.s. the teacher has threatened 2 call the police and stuff of what i said the girl said and because of harrassment. (with the girl, the teacher loves me right now)

2007-12-04 09:58:44 · 18 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Friends

I started hearing strange noises coming from his room, so I very quietly opened the door, and there he is, masturbating at porn.I threw the door opened and screamed "WHAT ARE YOU DOING!?".He threw his hands up on the keyboard, trying to shut the porn off, but it was too late.I've taken his computer away and beat him with my belt.Anything else I can do?

2007-12-04 09:47:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-04 09:45:58 · 33 answers · asked by Kate V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 09:45:43 · 13 answers · asked by Kate V 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard that women are unable to walk after having sex, or the morning after. Is this true? if so, what causes it?

2007-12-04 09:43:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My step-dad is one of the greatest guys I know. I may be an adult now, but he has always treated me like his daughter. He got me a job when I needed one, and has helped me out when I couldn't afford to fix my car, and taken me and my boyfriend on trips. Now he and my mom are taking my boyfriend and I to Tahoe to celibrate his birthday, we don't even have to pay for the room. Now that I can afford it, I want to do something really special for him while we are up there. What can I do for him?

2007-12-04 09:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by RedRabbit 7 in Family

website & was thrilled with classic bag, an asstment of 45 truffles of 3 types for abt $13. If I gave everyone one of each type in a little bag, the total cost per each would be about $2 ( assume the bags cost abt $1 each).

I was all set to start to search for bags in a wine or burgandy color that I could get for cheap. I started on my online search, got the mail & got an invitations by dawn catalog. I went through the whole catalog & while I didn't find any bags, I did find some boxes.

I also found some cookie bags. which brought me back to my first thought of doing cookies with a heart cookie cutter at the tables.

That got changed to at the end maybe with coffee "to go". But wedding in May.

Then thought since we are doing a donation & having bud vases as centerpieces/take aways, don't want too much.

But still want something edible.
So, what would you prefer as favor:

three bagged lindt lindor truffles at beginning

or

cookies at end with bottle of water?

2007-12-04 09:37:53 · 9 answers · asked by Relationship_issues 1 in Weddings

I have like 2 days to figure out what to get. I've only known the bride for about 6 months, but hardly spend any time with her.(She's a teacher and is usually grading papers everytime the group gets together.) She's "registered" as Victoria's Secret, but that doesn't fit within my budget. HELP!

2007-12-04 09:37:06 · 14 answers · asked by persons_17 1 in Weddings

2007-12-04 09:36:18 · 28 answers · asked by marlana 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 09:35:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just names or mean stuff to insult them wen they make fun of you i really need it plz

2007-12-04 09:34:45 · 23 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a really jealous and possessive boyfriend, and I would never think about cheating on him, ever. But lately he's been doing things that get under my skin and irritate me. And I notice when he does this I'm more prone to flirt with this guy I know who has a crush on me, and even though I know it's going nowhere, that for me at least, it's just safe flirting- I feel bad. I have a naturally flirty personality so I don't say things I wouldn't normally say but I do go out of my way to strike up a conversation with guy B, or any other guy than my boyfriend, when the boyfriend pisses me off. Is that flirting still innocent or do I cross a line. Can one innocently flirt?

2007-12-04 09:33:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 09:32:40 · 17 answers · asked by Sourpatch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay well theere is this guy and i wasn't in school on monday and he was all like "Why isn't she here AGAIN!!" and then he looked down at his paper with a slight sad face and said "She should be here everyday" (He said this to my best friend and she told me)

but today i came into school and he didn't ask why i was gone or he didn't act like he noticed i was gone

also i was absent two weeks ago and he acted worried and asked her "where i was"

2007-12-04 09:31:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have all the vendors booked we gave everyone a deposit. the only problem is I haven't decided on my dress yet. what do i do in the mean time to take my mind of the wedding. I feel like i dream about it every night but theres nothing else to plan. How do i make the days go by faster. help?

2007-12-04 09:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by Ethan's Mama 5 in Weddings

2007-12-04 09:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do if 6 of your guy friends like you and you like like 4 of them????? Their names r John Jordan Jacob Caleb Charlie and Ryan

2007-12-04 09:29:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have finals next week
I just purchased a new laptop and intended to sell my other one online....

I was in the middle of studying for exams when all of a sudden my mother called telling me i was giving her the wrong password for the computer....that I'm trying to sell

I got in a HUGE ARGUMENT with her and begged her to wait until i got home so i could fix it. I told her i was studying for finals and VERY STRESSED

she must have called me 30 times in the course of a half hour...at one point she wanted me to stop what i was doing drive 2 hours to come home tonight and fix the computer then drive back up to school....so tomorrow she could bring it to the computer store and get all the memory cleared.

I lost it I just started screaming every single curse word in the book at her so loud i think my entire dorm heard me...it was not intentional i just lost it....I must have said the F word to my mother about 30-40 times in one sentence.

I've never acted like this EVER!!!

2007-12-04 09:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Nnay 1 in Family

well i really love my boyfriend and i want to kiss him so bad and i want to french but how exactly do you do that?? what if we mess up?

2007-12-04 09:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Singles & Dating

well i was with this guy for 10 months, so it was serious, well i live in a small town and there is a lot of gossip that goes on, well alot of jealousy was going around and me and my boyfriend broke up, its been 6 months since we were together and i still talk as a friend, and he's a really nice guy, well i found out that he likes me and wants to try us out again. i don't know what i should do because i still love him , he was me first love and he's not a bad guy, but for some reason im confused because sometimes he acts like he doesn't like me like that and at other times he acts like he does! it's confusing so i tried to talk to him about it to find out the truth but a couldn't b cuz i chicken out and there was a lot of people around. i still have feelings fo r him but im so afraid that our love may not be strong enough to pull through this! i don't know what to do??!!

P.S.- there has been a lot of girls that have tried to get with him and he tells them no...idk what to do??

2007-12-04 09:24:55 · 12 answers · asked by megan g 2 in Singles & Dating