I have finals next week
I just purchased a new laptop and intended to sell my other one online....
I was in the middle of studying for exams when all of a sudden my mother called telling me i was giving her the wrong password for the computer....that I'm trying to sell
I got in a HUGE ARGUMENT with her and begged her to wait until i got home so i could fix it. I told her i was studying for finals and VERY STRESSED
she must have called me 30 times in the course of a half hour...at one point she wanted me to stop what i was doing drive 2 hours to come home tonight and fix the computer then drive back up to school....so tomorrow she could bring it to the computer store and get all the memory cleared.
I lost it I just started screaming every single curse word in the book at her so loud i think my entire dorm heard me...it was not intentional i just lost it....I must have said the F word to my mother about 30-40 times in one sentence.
I've never acted like this EVER!!!
2007-12-04 09:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Nnay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Then she finally put my dad on the phone he typed in the password and ta da the computer turned on WOW.....that was so difficult!!
Now I'm extremely angry and in tears and can't even study anymore!!!
what should I do??
2007-12-04 09:28:15 · update #1
There is no excuse for your actions. I'm sure you would never talk to a 'friend' in this manner why would you talk to your mother this way? You should have simply turned off your phone....if you were studying that intensely you don't need it on any way right? All you can do is apologize and hope she forgives you.
2007-12-04 09:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check urself, my friend... that's ur mother. U had a fit of rage, u should learn how to control ur anger and channel it in the right manner...... U might want to try anger management or not answering the phone so many times when u know its going to upset u even more. U need to apologize to ur mother, tell her ur sorry and u'll never do it again. Man up and do the right thing, u were not only wrong but out of control on that one. Peace!
2007-12-04 17:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, she could of taken it in locked and they would clean it up anyway. But, you were very disrespectful...just like u were stresses over exams she was stressed over the computer. Call and apologize for disrespecting her! You'll both feel better
2007-12-04 17:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Carol (Yeah I said it!) G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your mom get to you
breathe.
pull the car over and talk slowly to her
your mom has a life too, she has needs and a schedule, too
try to be more understanding of her.
try to do better at school so you aren't stressed out already and can deal with your mom.
2007-12-04 17:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just call back and say i'm sorry I exploded. I'm just stressed with finals but I love and hang up...
Good Luck, remember you're both human.
2007-12-04 17:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Xena77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could call your mom and apologize for yelling, but at the same time let her know that you felt stressed because she seemed to be pressuring you at a bad time.
that's my best answer... sometimes we "go off"... sorry you are so upset, hon. i hope things work out.
2007-12-04 17:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize. Tell your Mom that you did not mean it.
2007-12-04 17:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by married & still inlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should just let it go their is really no reason to be sorry just move on and act like it didnt happen
2007-12-04 17:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah Lagerback 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋