Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

Hey!

I gonna buy a ticket for the ‘Winter Ball’ tomorrow, after my lecture.
But I think it is better if we meet there, for the case that you go.
If you think that I am distance myself from you, you might be right. Because now I feel, I need time on my own to think about certain things.

Thx!


i asked her to go to the winter ball with me a few weeks ago, and she said yes and she got her dress sent over.

2007-12-04 11:19:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going out for lunch with a girl from work today. we are really really good friends at work but i have never socialized with her outside of work.

is it going to be weird?

2007-12-04 11:18:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok well obviously i dislike my mom's boyfriend, actually..... i HATE him. at first he was ok, but now he's like an evil parasite that won't go away and is ruining my sister and mines life!!! my mom is always going over to his house, and he's hurt her (tried to leave/end it) like five times and she gets so upset. i feel really bad for her but she won't listen to what me and my sister have to say. we try telling her about how its not a healthy relationship and how its hurting me and my sister too, but she always starts bantering about how all relationships are work and none are perfect. but she JUST DOESN'T GET IT!!! he's rude to her and our family, he insults my mothers parenting abilities (which are perfectly fine by the way) and UGH! i want to be like one of those evil step children who puts frogs in their step parents coffee to try and get them to leave. I've been extremely patient with her and her boyfriend, but i've come to the end of my rope. If you have any suggestions, do tell!!

2007-12-04 11:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-04 11:16:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

other than tv, or computer and school, my mom is gone till saturday and i miss her, i have bad seperation anxiety.

2007-12-04 11:16:34 · 34 answers · asked by Rosa 1 in Family

I know many of you out there are upstanding gentlemen and this question is not aimed at you.

I am so frustrated that there is still so much Domestic Violence out there, that I would like HONEST answers, from those who think it is ok to hit, call them ugly horrible names, tell them they are worthless, etc...

What gives you the right to think that once you marry a women, that means you own them, and can treat them anyway you want to, including beating them? I would also like answers from the boyfriends.

I want the man's perspective on this, and no, I won't turn anybody in. I just want to know.

2007-12-04 11:15:34 · 37 answers · asked by CSmom 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a relationship many years ago where this girl I dated was always angry. Although it never really hurt that bad to get me upset she would hit me a lot. It really wasn't the physical stuff that got to me so much of the mental things she did. She stole my drivers license and got a cop friend of hers to put a bunch of speeding tickets on. I was arrested for driving under a suspended license 3 years ago and still to this day haven't gotten it fixed. She would tell me all the time that no other girl would have me and that I was a 2 out of 10. What sucks is she was right. I never found anyone after her. I never told anyone but one close friend of mine. She not thinking I haven't told anyone else told her friend and now all the girls I know make fun of me. I don't really find it that funny. I feel sorry for my ex more than anyone. I did some research and found out that half of spousal murders are committed by wives? How can girls find this funny?

2007-12-04 11:15:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandma and step grandfather were in a car accident with a younger woman. The younger woman has already been in 4 accidents this year. She didn't even say sorry or ask if my grandparents were okay. My step grandfather's son's son knows the younger woman and she went up to him and said in a very casual tone. "i think i hurt one of your people." I think she should get her liscense revoked or something but what's your opinion on this?

2007-12-04 11:14:45 · 5 answers · asked by Jessi [♥] 3 in Family

2007-12-04 11:14:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 and half months. I told her I love her and I am in love with her. Last night she told me she loves me but is not in love with me. She doesnt know what it is. I am totally in love with her... have the feeling of butterflies and all but she said she doesnt have that butterfly feeling. She says she likes seeing me, being with me, and misses me when we are apart but their are times when she doesnt miss me and doesnt have the need or want to see me. She said shes trying but doesnt know what it is. she doesnt want to leave me but she doesnt want to hold onto me if she cant give me more. what should i do? what would u do? i dont want to walk away. I keep saying its only 7 months and for some people it takes them longer to fall in love.

2007-12-04 11:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by Siempre07 1 in Singles & Dating

*Sigh* I have a loving boyfriend named Jake and we both love each other so much, but I'm starting to like my ex again. I know that Jake hates him so much since he called some rude stuff and won't leave me alone. I know that I shouldn't like my ex anymore, but I still like him! I'm so confused right now. I can't think about this! I love Jake, but I'm starting to like my ex again! What do you think I should do about this? Please be honest! I need help here! I'm stuck between 2 guys here! Thanks so much for answering this!

-SadAndDepressedGirl (Denise N)

2007-12-04 11:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Singles & Dating

please i need a answer here, my loving gurl asked me that 40 people went to wedding @ air flight then 20 people were out from the airflight, then what happen to other?

2007-12-04 11:10:19 · 5 answers · asked by Shedrack 1 in Weddings

I am in love with this one guy... we never went out and I wouldn't say that we even have any kind of relationship, but I still love him and he said that he doesn't even like me... What should I do? Should I first try to become friends with him? Or just let go completly?

2007-12-04 11:10:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 12 and she if fifteen. She is skinny with bloned hair and is not stuck up or snobby. She likes to be around me and has nevver done anything mean to me.. We are friends at dance classes and she want me to do a dance show with her
I really want to be her good friend because shes really nice
But how should I take another step because i am 12 and she is 15 and sometimes I worry she just hangs out with me cuz I am the only one there to hangout with she likes..... and I want her to like me as a real friend. u worry that because i am 12 and she is 15 she might not treat me the same or be my bff!

please answer!

2007-12-04 11:09:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is leaving town tomorrow and I have so many projects coming up. My mom has a rule that states I cannot "go out" when she is out of town. I have two projects worth about half of my grade coming up and they both require going to my partners' houses.

For my photography project, I have to use her camera to shoot and to develop in the dark room at her house tomorrow, which is the only day available because she has sports almost 24/7.

For my science project, I have to do a science expo board at my friend's house and develop the experiment there. The experiment involved 10 kids taking tests and they all made plans to go to her house on Saturday for our experiment. I asked my mother politely and she responded with an irritated and angry 'no'. She said "No, and that's final! Don't ask again!" Even if it is for school.

I care deeply about my education, how do I convince her?? All of my projects are due next week!

2007-12-04 11:07:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know this is kind of random, not a big problem or nothing. But my boyfriend (who i love) he is real big on music, he's in college and music is his major. He sings, plays piano, drums, produces beats. he's always askin me 2 sing or play him sumthin on the piano and i kno how(actually i love singing) i even do around others but for some reason i dont for him? does anyone kno why? and it's not because i dont want 2 i think i get nervous but i dont kno y?

2007-12-04 11:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i say that i want to use it she has her own computer but it isn't the best one. i said that i was 5 minutes and she said fine then 5 seconds later she came down and said it's been 5 minutes then i said use your computer but she said it idn't working but i fixed it for her. what can i do to solve this? she is always stalking me to see what ia'm doing she said she will be a bit but she always be's like 4 hours which really ****'s me off!

2007-12-04 11:02:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-12-04 11:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't decide if I should hurt him, or the girl that has rocked my world. So, do I stay with the man who provides for me, and has been good to me, and be grateful and confident about the longevity of our relationship, or do I go with the wonderful girl who made me stray away? It's not right for me to have these feelings about someone else; so that must mean I'm not in love with him anymore, right?

2007-12-04 11:00:28 · 19 answers · asked by Pandacat 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes,there are some things that I want to do for myself yet my husband says that he suppotrs me yet I can feel his negative vibes . What should I do stay and live my life being unhappy? Should I leave and try and say at least I tried. What ever I do I know that I will suceed. I am 31 years old.

2007-12-04 10:57:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone a few weeks ago face - face who i met on the internet playing pool. We talked on and off for the past few years through email, and phone just as friends. I was alittle worried about people meeting on the net face-face, but i got along awesome with this guy, and felt comfortable.
So we finally decided to meet!
When i seen him for the first time, this feeling came over me that i cannot describe, it might sound stupid to other people , cause i used to be one of those people...but it was the best i have ever felt, ever!. Whenever we looked at eachother it was like heaven. Hard to explain...
Im wondering, what do you all think about love at first site? Im not sure what to think...

2007-12-04 10:54:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a shy person.... i have been with my bf for 4 1/2 years but he has always been the one that would get everything started.

but now i want to start too but i am really shy.... i know exactly what he likes and what turns him on and what to say... i just need to do it and i'm really shy...

2007-12-04 10:49:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A. Nothing. Just another night at the Castle.

B. Get nervous and wonder why you let her stay so long at the mall with your credit card...

C. Know you're about to be set up for the play of your life...and how to politely extract yourself from buying her that budget-busting Cadillac she's been eyeing on all this year's Christmas commercials, without looking like a total CRUMB;

D. Rise up and play Centaur Pegasus to take your Angel to the Paradise she desires; or

E. Realize this is totally FREAK behavior, your time has come, you are ABOUT TO DIE and meet the other winged accomplice, Saint Peter at the Golden Gate, so you say nothing and jump out the window as fast as your mortal little buns can speed you.

Multiple Answers allowed. Bonus points for your story if any surprises like this ever happened to you.

2007-12-04 10:49:47 · 7 answers · asked by John S. 5 in Singles & Dating

I told the guy i like that i liekd him like in Semptember. He was pretty shocked and wouldn't believe it at first but then he got used to the idea and now believes it. And then like 3 or 2weeks ago i asked him if he like wanted to han-out and he said sure but he's usually busy and all that. But then i asked him if he knew i meant like go out and then he never wrote back(i said this on the computer) and then my friend asked him if i asked him to hang-out like in the park or something like that what would he say and he said maybe... is he interested? or does he like me jsut as friends? he also stares at me and sometimes he seems like he wants to be next to me and sometimes he doesn't. Then, he also sometimes show-offs in front of me. and whenever i'm around(he's the annyoing type) he acts all nice and to me expecially. Like, one time my friends were tlaking about how i was singing on the phone and he was trying hard no to laugh for some reason.

2007-12-04 10:47:05 · 18 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Singles & Dating

He told me once that am so dear to him but after that he changed and he acting so wierd sometimes i feel that he likes me and sometimes i feel he doesn't even care, i took his email and i talked to him but he always busy and on talking to him I feel that he doesn't wanna talk to me and I told him that and he denied shall i talk to him again or not? just ican't stop thinking,dreaming and talking about him what am I supposed to do?please guys help me

2007-12-04 10:44:14 · 8 answers · asked by gulity soul 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been getting our Sh-- together as far as house ,kids finance, and relationship. She got a cc and got one for me and I ran it up so she cut it up. Well since then she applied for me to get my own, as well as I recieved one she deosn't know about, should include her on this or just keep it to myself ? Or just tell her and let her know this is all ME? Help.

2007-12-04 10:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by maccddus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

omg she is so mean and i am like freaking out over here!!!!!!

2007-12-04 10:42:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Women, if you could pick your boob size, which size would you want to be, and men which size do you prefer in a woman?

My best friend always says she would kill for my chest size, and that I get more male attention because of it. But personally I feel very subconscious most of the time, and I would trade with her in a heart beat, I would want a perky full B or small C cup. So just out of curiosity, what size would you prefer?

2007-12-04 10:40:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i brake my belt on accident cuz its already torn at one end kuz i went skateboarding i fell then it snaps and tears apart i have no other belts so i ask my mom to bu me a another belt because like all my clothes dont fit me . so she tells me i bet you broke it on purpose. i tell her mom it was already torn before and it snaped she doesnt listen she keeps telling me . i bet you broke it on purpose
she gets me pissed and i yell i didnt brake it on purpose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she gets up and punches me in my chest and slams me into the wall and grabs my shirt and pushes me upstairs im nearly out of breath
then she tells me im grounded and i have no christmas

2007-12-04 10:37:46 · 27 answers · asked by *KEVIN* 2 in Singles & Dating

OMG im obsessing over nothing i met this lad on wednesday and he seemed really keen and i was playing it cool acting like i didnt want to know, any way i ended up giving him me number and he txt me thurs saying how was my night etc..anyway he asked me if i was going out at the weekend i said i wasn't sure, he said that he was going out on the sunday and did i want to meet up with him? told him that i would prefer to go out sat as all me mates were going out then. he said oh i get the point you just don't want to meet up. told him that i did want to meet up but on sat.he said let me know if your going out sat and i might meet up with you. so txt him sat and said that im going out and what is he doing? and he still hasn't txt back and its now TUES! why didn't he text me back, hes the one who mentioned meeting up i just dnt understand it! should i text him back or ring him? and if so what do i say to him?? need advice ha

2007-12-04 10:36:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating