Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

some guy told me he wanted to "toss my salad" what does that even mean and should i be offended?

2007-12-04 13:01:44 · 23 answers · asked by ♥ineversaidiwasperfect 4 in Singles & Dating

im always like AHHH TALKKK
and hes just like..
ahh idk im tired theres nothing to talk about idk what to say
hes pretty quiet and we rarely talk on the phone because of this buut i just wish he would be more outgoing..

anything you think i could do to make him less shy or something? =/

2007-12-04 13:00:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't seen or heard from my kiwi ex for over a decade, and a lot of water has gone 'under the bridge' since then. I have married, had children, settled down, but a part of me always wonders what he is doing, and how he is doing, and sometimes i just wish i could contact him and say hi. We shared a lot of big stuff together, and i'd love to catch up for old times sake.

Is it inappropriate to do this, even though my intentions are purely innocent? Maybe you should never contact an ex if you are married, even if you know you just want to say hi?

Any thoughts would be great.

2007-12-04 13:00:28 · 12 answers · asked by harttattoo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A workman once sreamed at me wiping my hands on a utility pole, said "Don't wipe it on the goddamn cord!" I thought that was realy funny so I repeated what he said all the time.
I think it might be OK, nobody really cares, but some parents get uptight about it. They tell me, "I know your Dad talks like that, but I don't want you talking like that, around here"... Oh well.

2007-12-04 12:59:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-04 12:59:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance and I just had a major falling out. I smashed the car today (my car) and after explaining to him it was my fault, he felt like playing video games and said he didn't want to deal with this right now. I asked for a hug, and he didn't want to give me one. So of course, i got upset... yeh, I sound needy but I really needed a hug, after all I was so upset and angry with myself, I didn't need him to be angry at me too. I said he should be supporting me and that he is not being there for me and he got REALLY angry to that. Who is in the right here?

2007-12-04 12:58:55 · 11 answers · asked by cometthegrommit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 12:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by A friendly Jihad 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I prefer to date older men of different races just a thing I have. Is it wrong to think this way?

2007-12-04 12:58:13 · 6 answers · asked by Noree 3 in Singles & Dating

well i want it to be gone out of me i feel like i am about to snap and just freak out i dont know what to do i have had SCARY dreams not like some monster chasing me but like me killing people...that scares me....i dont know what to do i just want to feel like open again i am hanging on a cliff by my a finger tips if you know what i mean i would really like some help here really i dont know what to do. it messed up my relationship with my girl friend and i want it back i love her with all my heart and would do anything to get her back so plz help!!!

2007-12-04 12:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by jacob d 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a young grandmother and my grandson will be turning one next month. My daughter is going to have him a baptism/birthday party. I am undecided if I want to go because I do not like her boyfriends family there has been conflict because they are a no good family they do illegal activities. My daughter is 15yrs younger then this guy and I wish she would open her eyes on that environment for her son. I am not in good standings with my daughter because I told her she needs to be responsible and she got upset and stopped talking to me....I have a 2 year old who would enjoy a day at a party,but I don't have the guts to show up...I am confused and I wish i could report this family for all the bad they do....

2007-12-04 12:57:37 · 21 answers · asked by misssy 2 in Family

her eyes widen and we both said sorry...but I had her next period...I think she was looking at me like I was freaky...now wat? lol

2007-12-04 12:57:36 · 53 answers · asked by Dragon-Rider 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 12:57:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this guy i know and he is one and a half years younger than me and we are really good friends and get a long good. He is also really good looking.

I never really thought about likin a younger guy... but i went to this dance and he asked me to dance and i kinda started to like him. I doubt he will like me back but is weird that i like him? wat should i do?

2007-12-04 12:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you feel close to your step-kids or distant? Do you ever feel like you've lost yourself in the new family?

2007-12-04 12:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To put it briefly: she works, goes to school, and she’s also nervous around me. She told me no but regretted it the day after. She waited for me, changed her routine to coincide with mine after I changed, and acted distressed when I ignored her.

I gave her a second chance (her last chance btw) and she goes back to acting too busy for me. Granted, she really is busy but she doesn’t even stop to say hi. I think she’s content with our relationship being like this. However, I want us to become serious. Can anybody give me any advice?

2007-12-04 12:53:36 · 4 answers · asked by Dodgers777 2 in Singles & Dating

I know love is not about getting turned one and love at first sight is just lust.

I know getting to know somone and their personalityliek a bestfriend. But is there has to be a way to explain it better.

2007-12-04 12:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by hello 1 in Singles & Dating

I've gained a little over 50 pounds and I like to read romance novels more than I like to talk to my spouse.

Why doesn't he love me for who I am?

2007-12-04 12:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend beleives that, if someone is special to you, then commitment isnt needed in a relationship. But I dont think there really is a relationship without the commitment.

2007-12-04 12:50:42 · 2 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

i met you one year ago
not knowing or caring who you were
and so the 4 months i should have spent with you went on... empty, blank
then fate gave us another chance
again i found you next to me
so i walked with you and i talked with you
and we started going out
and now as we walk hand in hand
i know deep down
there is no one else
its just you and me
and when blue meets brown
and we meet each others eye
i know it will always ge just us
you may never know how much to me
but know this and know it well...
i love you

2007-12-04 12:50:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay.
so there's this kid in my class (8th grade) & he always picks on me. like he'll act like he's drawing highlighter on my back, just so i'll yell stop, & he'll rock my desk back & forth purposely just to annoy me. i'm not sure if he likes me or not; but two of my friends think that he might like me because they say he flirts with me sometimes. i really need help ! (:

2007-12-04 12:50:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any paid surveys or something that gets me one dollar?
I need it ASAP.

2007-12-04 12:47:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know a girl loves to be pampered, but does a guy like it too?
Like, you know, being really cared for whatever you might need any given minute, gifted things, being served homemade food, being massaged, making sure u r comfortable....stuff like that.

Or is that too much care and attention for you?

Please tell me your views?

2007-12-04 12:47:09 · 28 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok, don't get me wrong... There's no reason my mom shouldn't meet my best friend. He'd be the last person you'd ever suspect of doing anything illegal just because he's too cool for that. He's funny, smart, understanding-basically the perfect best friend. But, he IS a guy. And usually you don't invite a guy over for a one-on-one meeting with your parents unless you're dating him, which I'm definitely not.
Also, I suggested having a party and inviting all my friends, which didn't go over well. She wants to meet HIM.
Oh, and don't call me a slut or anything because my best friend is a guy.. I've got 3 best friends. Two are girls from my old school, and this one guy is from my new school. My mom knows my other two best friends. She loves one and thinks the other one is a bad influence (apparently-sp?-she's too emo...).

Sorry that it was so long... But for those of you that read and understood it...
What should I do??

Thanks to everyone that answers this...

2007-12-04 12:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When you loose someone you love I gotta know.
I got the Social Security papers in the mail today telling us about the benefits because he died.
I saw him at the funeral home. That was so hard. Had to be strong for the kids.
But today in the mail those papers it seemed just as hard.

2007-12-04 12:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by run_becky 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a Stay at home dad and think that my wife is abusing our relationship and monetry situation because she is the sole money earner.
Before you all start sticking the knife in; I paid cash for our house and all landscaping payments approx $190K, her only input towards home was our section and that was approx half of the section costs $14K (K = $1000.00),.
Now that I don't earn a wage whenever I spend any money on little things like a bakery lunch approx $8.00 once a week, or small amounts on gardening items possibly every month, (never over $20.00) she makes me feel like I was spending our last dollar and I feel very guilty, but whenever she wants something like tickets to a concert $125.00 or new shoes $70.00, money never seems to be a problem.
She may think that it is a joke to her but when she brings it up around other people I feel like I've been kicked in the guts.
This always happens when people aren't paying her enough attention and really makes me angry? Help Please!

2007-12-04 12:42:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is going to sound weird, but I'm trying to figure out a place to go for a couple nights to a week. The purpose is to give my husband some time away from me and to himself to do whatever he wants to do. He never has ANY time to himself, and I'm constantly around him when he's not at work. I think a little seperartion would be healthy for our marriage and would give him a chance to actually miss me for once, ya know? The problem with that is that I can't just go to a friends house or my parents house or something and try to explain everything I just explained ... that's not really normal, lol. And plus my husband doesn't really like the idea. So I need to come up with a camp.. or a retreat... or something where I can spend a few nights away for a more legitimate reason. Does anyone have any ideas of where I could go without my husband to get away??

2007-12-04 12:40:35 · 22 answers · asked by Mary 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and this guy (we both really liked each other) hooked up and the next day my freind was killed and told hi i didnt want to see anymore untill i got over my freinds death. He took it as i broke up with him. its making me more depressed than i already am. what do i do however hard i try i cant get over him all i want is him and yes i have talked to him about it but he claims he doesent know if he likes me anymore and then for a few days now he has been like fkirting with me but i know its just to screw with my heart..please help

2007-12-04 12:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Go back with the knowledge you have now, and take another shot at it, Life?

2007-12-04 12:40:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would like some ideas for wedding favors!! I am not necessarily on a tight buget but i am looking for something that is reasonable because we are having about 200 guest! Thanks!!!

2007-12-04 12:38:33 · 13 answers · asked by junelou 4 in Weddings

2007-12-04 12:37:20 · 18 answers · asked by lpluva18 1 in Singles & Dating