me and this guy (we both really liked each other) hooked up and the next day my freind was killed and told hi i didnt want to see anymore untill i got over my freinds death. He took it as i broke up with him. its making me more depressed than i already am. what do i do however hard i try i cant get over him all i want is him and yes i have talked to him about it but he claims he doesent know if he likes me anymore and then for a few days now he has been like fkirting with me but i know its just to screw with my heart..please help
2007-12-04 12:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I offer you my sympathies on losing your friend and your obvious pain. While the tragedy of your friend's death can cloud your judgment, I do not understand why you felt you had to stop seeing him until you got over your friend's passing. As a matter of fact, that is just the time that you need him the most for support.You made a mistake, but you can do something about it. However, whether it works or not depends on him.Go to him again and tell him that you are sorry for what you said, that you were not trying to break up with him but were just confused by your friend's death, that your feelings for him remain the same, and you would like to continue as before.Since he is still flirting with you,I suspect he still likes you, is not trying to screw with your heart, may be hurt based on how you treated him.Hence, cross your fingers and see what happens.I wish you the best.
2007-12-04 13:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly how u feel and that all u want is him. u dont care what u have to do to get him back and u r so sorry for breaking up with him and u didnt mean to strait up dump him u just need sometime to get over ur friends death. and that u love him if u do.
2007-12-04 12:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by levi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think he's screwing with your heart if he's flirting, but getting over a friends death is pretty hard. Just wait a while I know its hard, but hey he'll probably still like you. *p.s it might not be alot but try flirtin yourself xp*
2007-12-04 12:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by apholzion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and stay friends with him. Hopefully he can help you get through your friends death. Sorry to hear of your loss. But if he is true to you. He wouldn't play with your heart. And he would stand beside you through your time of need. Best of luck to you.
2007-12-04 12:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke his heart you told him u didnt wanna see him anymore and now you change ur mind and do mens feelings are not your playthings!!!!!! y r u screwing with him hes better off without u.
2007-12-04 12:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess tell him how you feel and whats going on in your life.
2007-12-04 12:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dragon-Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋