To put it briefly: she works, goes to school, and she’s also nervous around me. She told me no but regretted it the day after. She waited for me, changed her routine to coincide with mine after I changed, and acted distressed when I ignored her.
I gave her a second chance (her last chance btw) and she goes back to acting too busy for me. Granted, she really is busy but she doesn’t even stop to say hi. I think she’s content with our relationship being like this. However, I want us to become serious. Can anybody give me any advice?
2007-12-04 12:53:36 · 4 answers · asked by Dodgers777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify, she waited and changed her routine after I started to ignore her. She hurt me pretty bad by saying no so thats why I ignored her.
2007-12-04 16:49:51 · update #1
Everyone is busy, but when you care for someone you ALWAYS make time.
I think you are walking into a whole lot of heartache. She may have missed the attention you were paying to her. Take it slow and remember that you deserve a whole lot more. Don't be in such a hurry, you are still young and will meet someone who will give you everything you are looking for.
Best wishes!!!
2007-12-04 19:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by desertfairy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... don't play games. If you want her - Tell Her! She took you ignoring her to heart... women analyze everything to the hilt! You guys can blow something so good in a hearbeat by being aloof & seeming to be uncaring... STOP IT! You said she waited, changed her routine & then you ignored her... What was she suppose to do? If you do not step up and speak what it is you really want, then guess what? - someone else will & you will have blown any chance you had! Women wait, just not forever...
2007-12-04 13:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be really busy; give her some time/ space on her own. If she doesnt run back to you then you should break it off. But for instance wait for the winter break and see when she has more free time, does she want to spend it with you?
2007-12-04 13:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get another one. Period. Sorry for the short answer, but case closed.
2007-12-04 13:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋