When you loose someone you love I gotta know.
I got the Social Security papers in the mail today telling us about the benefits because he died.
I saw him at the funeral home. That was so hard. Had to be strong for the kids.
But today in the mail those papers it seemed just as hard.
2007-12-04 12:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by run_becky 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He did die in a car wreck. He was only 32.
2007-12-04 12:50:40 · update #1
I don't have friends. I have Yahoo Answers. Sad but true. I want to scream and cry. I have to be strong.
2007-12-04 12:52:56 · update #2
Those kinds of moments will persist for awhile. We don't really lose loved ones suddenly, but in stages as their smell, their habits, and their essence gradually fade from the house. That's largely the hardest part because these things can haunt you long after the funeral is over and the "official" mourning period has ended. We all grieve in our own unique ways. Allow yourself the freedom to experience it as you will...this is the healthiest way to actually heal, and is an excellent way to teach coping skills to the kids who already realize that people die by now (since someone has).When you need to cry, cry. Own your feelings, don't attempt to channel them. God bless you all, and good luck.
2007-12-04 12:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lose of a love one is very hard to accept.... when you are at the funeral home you are in shock... every thing seems to be a blur... people are coming and going ... you are in slow motion.... after the fact you have the papers to deal with... which is the reality..... you are over the shock ... now your into your new life... the papers were hard ... you had to face what you already knew.... your life without your love one.... You will never forget him.. you will learn to live without him... you will be strong for the kids.... for this is what mom's do for there kids.... it will get easier as time goes on.... and you will have your wonderful memories... you will make more wonderful memories with your kids.... tell your kids all you know about your love ones.... and no matter where you burial him ... he will always live in your heart... what a wonderful place to keep your love one... as long as you continue to talk about him ... he will never really die....you will carry him everywhere you go.... I know your pain.... My heart is with you tonight.... May God Bless you and your family....
2007-12-04 13:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I would like to tell you how sorry i'am for your loss!!
No its never easy when you hear or find out you have lost a love one,And also being strong for your kids and family is hard anough.I hope you understand that you also need to take time for yourself in your time of loss..Its ok to show emotions infront of your kids and family,it wouldn't be good for you to hold everything in..Maybe sit done with the kids and talk about the your love one,and make them remember the good things about that person and not to think about him or her dying,and that it is ok to cry and miss that person,,I hope you understand what im trying to tell you,I hope i was some help!!
I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TROUGH THIS HARD TIME...
Miracle
2007-12-04 12:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by (MIRACLE) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, it's just ALL hard. Every thought is like pouring salt in the wound when it's so fresh. You have to take it day by day. Some days will be "okay"... some days will be bad. Day by day, until you're able to "send him a little prayer and good will" every time you think of him without crying or getting upset or blue. It just takes time and strength of spirit to understand that he will always be with you for you to take peace in the fact that you now have a new guardian angel... I should know.
2007-12-04 12:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 04:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad news is bad news no matter how it comes to you.I'm sorry for the loss.Scream and cry if that helps and it does relieve a little of the anger of loosing someone.It won't completely resolve the pain.That will only take time.
2007-12-04 13:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's harder for me in black and white. My friend committed suicide a few months ago, and when I got that call from his mother it didn't really sink in. When I saw his death notice in the papers, that's when I lost it.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's never easy.
2007-12-04 12:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's reading it. Watching on t.v. is distracting and you can easily get lost, while in the paper the words never change. I'm very sorry about your loss.
2007-12-04 13:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think seeing on paper makes it harder. It is the finality of the situation. I am sorry for your loss.
2007-12-04 12:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing it in black and white. several years ago a friend of mine died in a car accident and there were several of us who didnt find out till his obituary was in the paper. i was alone when i picked up the paper and found out and i didnt have anyone to hug. had someone told me i would have at least had someone to hug or talk to about it
2007-12-04 12:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋