Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

2007-12-04 09:23:35 · 12 answers · asked by Cubilac 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok...my friend's boyfriend broke up with her last week for a PATHETIC reason...to date someone hotter...WTF?! well he lied to her and said that "high school dating is about finding what you like and don't like so that when you get to college you know what you want." it broke her heart...well he happens to be my ex and he told me the same thing when in actuality he broke up with me because i wouldnt do things...WELL he already has asked out this new girl and my friend is really upset. he's mad at me for being on her side and now things are coming out of the wood work. one week before homecoming me and him ended up making out..i didnt plan it, it was an accident and i felt like a slut after. but now my friend found out..he had just asked her to the dance and was going to ask her out the next day...soo i was a cheat..yeah. well now i dont want her to be mad at me because i didnt know that he had asked her to the dance or had planned on asking her out. what do i do??? help me please.....??

2007-12-04 09:23:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She stays with him one week and then stays with her mom the next week. When she's with her mom, I get to sleep with him in his bed, but when she's with us, I end up sleeping in her room in her bed and she sleeps with him. Does it seem odd to anyone else but me? What can I do to sleep with him full time?

2007-12-04 09:22:33 · 10 answers · asked by someonenew 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well im 15, and a giirl, so if ur a teenage grl u most likely can help me.

i sdont no wat to get my friends for christmas??

so wat kinds of things do u think teenage girls wud want? OR wat do YOU want or christmas?

maybe that can help me....

i also am nt sure wat i want, so maybe ill get ideas....

2007-12-04 09:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by xbrunette1492 2 in Friends

I went through a terrible divorce. I was single for almost 2yrs before I met this guy. He is truly a wonderful man. Very good to me, always loving. He was drunk one night & slept with a women from the bar. He does know her though. He has since sent me 20-30 text messages a day explaining how he made a terrible mistake. I really fell in love with him. He says he loves me with all his heart & will do anything to make it up to me. But how does a relationship work if the trust has been broken? I don't know. Can a relationship really last through something like this because we havn't been together very long. Not a very good start. We've not even had one arguement or disagreement. We have alot in common. I need some answers from people who have been in my situation. Thank you so much for your help.

2007-12-04 09:21:43 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 09:20:28 · 25 answers · asked by brianna c 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you girls like in a guy?

2007-12-04 09:20:25 · 34 answers · asked by does_my_name_matter? 1 in Singles & Dating

Planning a wedding RECEPTION in March (We've already had the ceremony- this is just the party). What are some colors, themes, ideas, etc. that are fitting and appropriate? :D THANKS

2007-12-04 09:17:31 · 5 answers · asked by Cammie 3 in Weddings

I've been wanting to move out since I was 25; I'm a 26 year-old-male. I'm the youngest of 3, and I make a good living, but my parents won't let me leave.
I rented a house 5 months ago, but my parents made all of this drama, so I haven't even spent one night there.
For the past 5 months, I've been paying the cable bill and internet service for both my house, and my parent's house. I've been paying rent, phone and utilities for house I don't even live in.
I brought the subject again this week, and they started yelling and sutff, and told me if I left I could never go back, and a lot of bad stuff.
So far, I've only bene using the house for to hang and bring friends over. I' really sick of my 10:00 PM curfew.
I really want to move out, but my parents make it really clear that if it would be under bad terms.

What can I do?

2007-12-04 09:17:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-04 09:16:57 · 22 answers · asked by MrRight 3 in Weddings

if your girlfriend/wife/mistress, said she would "dress-up" for you what sexy costume would you pick for her to wear? school girl, nurse???

2007-12-04 09:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u found yr husband/fiance/boyfriend looking at naked pictures on the internet after he promised not to look anymore.

2007-12-04 09:16:23 · 7 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What exactly makes makes you mad or hurt??

2007-12-04 09:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by My Sharona 5 in Singles & Dating

but i'm english and live in small town about 50m north of london how can i meet some that might be interested in relationship and i cant move to america my son is here .
i don't realy know why american i guess i just like the accent and if you spoke to the most english women you'd relise we have to go somewere else

2007-12-04 09:15:18 · 15 answers · asked by I hate little green pigs 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 09:14:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with her 4 years ago. I havent dated anyone since, and when I heard this news from my mom, I acted like I don't care, but I feel a little sad.

Will I be OK?

2007-12-04 09:13:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that has just recently came out to me about having 30 different personalities inside him, all to which I have never seen til last week when he asked me if I would like to meet one of my personalities < or mortals I think is what he called them> and I wasnt sure and decided to meet this person. He said that it would be a little boy name shane. So next thing I know this little boy voice in his manly body was talking to me as if he was a young boy. I didnt know how to deal with this except to just ask him questions. My question here today is I dont know if I am suppose to run or accept that my friend can change into all these different people at the drop of a hat. I thought from what I have heard when someone has this condition they never know when it is going to come around, its always a suprise. He is seeking help but Im not sure why they are doing to help him. Does anyone have any advise on how to address this or handle this?

2007-12-04 09:13:46 · 16 answers · asked by msellusion 1 in Friends

i really like this guy but i am to scared to talk to him. i keep thinking that if i say something it will be stupid and he will never want to talk to me again. i am really shy and it is extremely hard for me to talk to hot guys but i really want him to ask me out so i have to talk to him but i cant i have no idea what to say. help me?

2007-12-04 09:11:29 · 27 answers · asked by xoAmanda 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of roughly 2 months sent me an e-mail that she just wanted the weekend alone, after we had made plans to hang out this weekend a while ago. I know there have been some instances when my joking around has come off as being an asshole and i have really upset her with that...those were never my intentions and now i'm afraid to lose her. Please help...tips, advice, i don't want to lose her over me being an idiot. I know not to do it anymore and i know i wont, i just need another chance....again, tips, advice, anything

Thanks in advance...Please help!!! :,,,,(

2007-12-04 09:10:19 · 23 answers · asked by Bob G 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months. Right off the bat (after about a week) we were pretty much exclusively a couple. He took me with him out of state for Thanksgiving to meet his family and spend the week out there with him. We always tell each other that we love each other, and we are pretty affectionate together. We get along really well as a couple and as friends.

We are both divorced, he's 36 and I'm 25. He has been saying things like "what did I ever do without you" "I can't imagine being with anyone else" "you are my family" and even "I've decided we should elope to Europe and have kids". The last is kind of a joke, but do you think there is some seriousness to this? I never thought I would even consider marriage again, and yet with him I want to spends out lives together and raise children together. I don't want to bring it up right away, but we both have discussed wanting kids, and he acts more like a husband than a boyfriend anyway.

2007-12-04 09:09:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So my bf of 2.5 years dumped me 6 weeks ago and three weeks ago he came to drop off my stuff and we ended up sleeping together. He then told me that he still loved me but didn't want to date me, & said he still wanted to have sex with me because he didn't want to have to wait until he found someone else. Naturally, I was not okay with this & we haven't really talked since.

A week after that, pictures of him with a new girl began to surface and last night one of our mutual friends confirmed that he is indeed seeing this girl. However, my friend also told me that she had visited my ex less than a month ago and all he did was talk about how much he missed me. Then I hear from another friend that the last time she talked to my ex (which was just over a month ago) he kept talking about how he wished things had worked out with us and how he hoped someday we'd end up together...

2007-12-04 09:09:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My 3 year old son and I were playing the other day and I said "I love you!". He replied "love you to" so I start to ask him um do you love granny? he replys yes! I keep going threw family member and I get to my boyfriend and father to my 12 week old (still in my tummy) baby . He said yes! I asked him about HIS father who is in the Army that I divorced. He said no! His dad hasn't got to be a real part of his life since the Army he has even had to move to NY while we are in Tn. And know he is over seas and he really can't talk to him or see him. I have always told him that his father loves him just like mommy does. So where is this coming from? I couldn't hardly get him on the phone with his father to tell him hi and I love your daddy without threating him with a whooping?
What can I do?

2007-12-04 09:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs. Nesmith 1 in Family

Not the ghetto and uneducated black girls. I am not like that or the typical African-American girl. I was born in the U.S., but my family is from the carribean. I'm just curious...i'm an artsy girl too. I love to paint and draw. I love reading and writing..I'm a sexy, dark-skinned NERD...Not that nerdy though (haha)

2007-12-04 09:07:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i broke up on this summer.The reason he gave me was there is no communication between us.I so i moved on.Went out had fun and met guys.Burly a month past since we broke up.He called me.Asking to get back.I refuse too..He kept insisting until i went out with him.I did but i also said we are just friends.I ask him to wait even though he was sad.2months passed and i was glad.He stop calling.then my friends told me about him asking for help.They refuse to help.I was mad and confuse.1 party that my friend invited me to go.I was sick and refuse to go.Finally they convince me.It was 4months and i saw him there.I was frozen.he was with 1 of my friends.They said to say hi and leave.He saw me and smile and ask how was i.I said good and left.after that part i could not stop thinking about him.I had a date the next day.The date went horrible cuz he was all i ever thought about.I cried an told my friend about it.1 said to call him but i felt it was too late.So we got back together.I was confuse and scare.It was all nice.Then again he began to be the same old guy i argue with.Burly after a month together we broke up.He lied and cheated on me.He said he was in love with some girl at work.that slut kept getting on the way.Before thanksgiving i couldn't believe it.So they why was all the begging.I went through hell to get back with him fir what.So he could lie and fall for someone else?The worse thing is am not sure if am pregnant.When we broke up it was all crazy,he came over.We argue i told him i might be pregnant.He was mad and scare.He refuse to had his kid.When we argue he said kick my *** or something cuz i hurt you and you did not deserve this.Some part wanted to kill him.I cried and hug him.He was scare and aid i was too nice.i almost trying to get run over.Him protecting me.That's how it end.It's been a month since i haven't hear from him.Even though my family says he passes every night...

2007-12-04 09:06:25 · 2 answers · asked by Lex 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do latino man like dark skin black woman

2007-12-04 09:05:09 · 6 answers · asked by NarcolepticNancy 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 15 and they have been dating for about 9 months. He has 1 brother and 1 sister than my daughter knows, and 1 brother and 1 sister that are way older and has never met. Should she bring something for his parents and maybe the siblings that she knows? I don't want her to feel awkward when she is there. Please help!!!

2007-12-04 09:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Penny T 1 in Family

why is my 15 year old son being such a bully towards my younger children and when i try 2 disipline him he verbally acttacks me he will acttack me younger children with no warning and im lost to try and stop him as he is much stronger than me but when he is on his own or just me an him or when a friend of the familey come round he is good as gold but when my younger children come home from school he will turn in to this monster and thay will do absoluty nothing to him in any way shape or form to upset him but he still attacks them

2007-12-04 09:00:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just wondering. . .

! LOVE JAPAN
Poppy x

2007-12-04 08:57:50 · 1 answers · asked by Poppy 4 in Weddings

Would you hate the other woman???

2007-12-04 08:56:57 · 8 answers · asked by My Sharona 5 in Singles & Dating

women have insecurities. they usually want to spend their whole life with the same man after marrige so they make efforts. do u think that man k feel like that too??

2007-12-04 08:55:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce