I broke up with her 4 years ago. I havent dated anyone since, and when I heard this news from my mom, I acted like I don't care, but I feel a little sad.
Will I be OK?
2007-12-04 09:13:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I promise you will be okay. Congradulate her, and find someone you can spend your life with. Dont live in the past.
2007-12-04 09:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by April H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny how that works. I have been with the same guy for almost years now. I found out about 2 years ago that one of my exs from school got married to a friend of mine from school. I was a little upset. It really bothered me. I would have never left the person I am with for that guy ,but just because we had a past together it hurt. Maybe because he didn't like me as much? I am not sure. It is a little depressing, but it soon will fade away. There are reasons why you and your ex did not work out. Think of all the bad things of your relationship and I am sure it will tell you why you are not that man. She may have had alot of good qualities, but obviously you two were not meant to be. Put a smile on your face...go buy a new outfit and go to a nice club! Meet some girls. I am sorry...it is a shitty feeling, but soon will go away.
2007-12-04 09:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sadbrowneyes13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your fiance and want to be with her exclusively for the rest of your life, you have to break ties with your ex. If you don't, it will become one of two things: 1. an affair or 2. a point of contention between you and your wife. Neither of these things will be good for your marriage. If you still have feelings for the ex that make you reconsider your marriage plans, then you should not get married. Your bride wants you all to herself, no matter what she says to you about this ex. She does not want to share you in any way, emotional or physically. If you choose your fiance, break all ties with the ex. Otherwise, don't get married.
2016-04-07 08:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously broke up with her for a reason right? So, yeah, seeing her move on with someone new, can be a little depressing,because every past relationship will have that "what might have been" aspect but you have to remember that things, didn't work out between the two of you so it's best to just wish her luck and try to move on as well. There is someone out there for everyone and when you start opening yourself up to more options, such as new places, new people, you'll eventually find someone your compatible with.
Will Turner.....You made me LOL
2007-12-04 09:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will.
Corny but time will heal your wounds.
And of course, it's natural to feel sad. Those who were truly in love, never quite falls out of love.
Funny, because few days ago I was in the same situation (with my ex, not because he was married or anything) and I felt very sad too. But I know I'll be okay. We all should be looking forward into the future.
2007-12-04 09:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by haine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will live. If you still have any old momentos like pics or stuff that reminds you of your relationship with her. You should make a bonfire and drink a bottle of your favorite tequila and sit in front of it on the night she gets married or whatever night you want to and just throw all that s*h*i*t into the fire. The only drawback to this plan is that although you can get rid of the physical remains the memories in your head will still be there.
2007-12-04 09:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...You'll be OK if you choose to wanna be ok about your ex gal pal Armin.
Instead of feeling sad for yourself here dude?....be happy for this fine girl/woman you once loved.
Be happy that she DID find someone that makes her feel thrilled to the bone my good man.
More then 60% of most marriages nowadays end up seeing a divorce court eventually anyhow!!!
YIKES!!!!
You loved her in a sorta kinda fantasy realm of thinking mentally anyways Armin........and as everyone really knows honestly?....some fantasy stuff turns out o be simply benign self centered crappola highjinx relatively.
Send her and her new hubby a very well intended well meaning congradulations partner.....and expect nothing ever to come back to you in return...agreed?
Don't ever look back again ever partner....reflect and move forwards at all times convincingly.
Letting go nicely can sometimes be more satisfying then hanging onto the miserably impossible.
Get used to this stuff occasionally partner........and go have a great cocktail on me sometime too! .........Cheers!!!
2007-12-04 09:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sweet. It makes it even harder too because you haven't dated anyone else. If you're break up was a fight or dramatic you could possibly still have unresolved feeling about her. I think you should do something about this. Call her up to wish her congrats and best wishes. You need this conversation with her. I promise it will help!
2007-12-04 09:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you will be okay, unless you take it by the heart and go crazy with it. there is nothing you can do, she is marrying the man of her dreams. i feel sorry for you since you havent been with anybody else that long. also maybe is because you still have a feelings for her, whether it is small or big. you still care. you'll be okay. take care
2007-12-04 09:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Junior V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It still hurts, but you will be OK. It's ok to still be a little sad. Maybe this can give you closure to move ahead?
There are plenty of single women waiting for a great guy!!!
2007-12-04 09:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I can understand that. It feels like you lost out. It could have been you. And since there was a connection between the two of you, it's a normal reaction. But you will get over it.
2007-12-04 09:17:23 · answer #11 · answered by That 70's girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋