What exactly makes makes you mad or hurt??
2007-12-04 09:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by My Sharona 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The deception. For guys it is the fact that their girl gave it up and are possibly swapping D**k juice with some guy. For girls it is the lying and emotional as well as physical part, since chicks are always on a need -to- know basis and s*h*i*t.
2007-12-04 09:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The deception of making you believe that they loved you and only you... it rips away the feeling of feeling special, loved and important right from under you and leaves you feeling cold and empty.
Especially when you loved them in return. How could someone you love and loves you back, hurt you so much because of their own selfishness and insecurity? Cheating is a conscious thought and regardless of HOW it happened, it is STILL A CHOICE. Once that line is crossed of choosing to cheat, that person has chosen against you.
All of it makes me mad and hurt. There is nothing about it that is okay except being strong enough to have the ability to walk away.
EVERYONE deserves better.
2007-12-04 09:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Julie S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone cheats it makes me feel hurt that someone wanted to be with someone else and wasted my time thinking that one person was interested in me.
2007-12-04 09:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being lied to... feeling used. I've always said, "if you feel like you don't want to be with me and want someone else, just tell me. that will be much easier than finding out you lied and cheated"
My ex cheated on me and that was the worst feeling in the world, because we were planning on getting married.
but being lied to is what makes me mad, I hate liars
2007-12-04 09:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by pd♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
last time i was cheated on.....what hurt the most was he lied & also picturing the one you love with another woman/man can damn near kill you...i know that is th worst part for me
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i actually don't get "mad" i be hurt for the most part.....you loose alot of trust for a person that cheats on you....
2007-12-04 09:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Nisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That they our giving thereselves to someone else! A part they should only share w/ you. When you love someone you should love them enough not to want to be w/ anyone else!
Not only do you have to put up w/ rumors and the people such as bitches talking **** about you behind your back. It is a awful situation to be in! Your left feeling betrayed and ashamed!
2007-12-04 09:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what makes me hurt is knowing that they told me they loved me and now that i know they cheated it feel like i'll never know what love is again and when someone tells me they love me how will i know for sure that hurts being confused and feeling like your a peice of crap because of the way they treated you u think everyone else is to
2007-12-04 09:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by cccchiliecool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for me it was the fact that he wasnt honest with me, it took a shot at my self esteem, i felt ike i just wasnt good enough and it hurt, what made me mad was all the lying that was involved with him cheating.
2007-12-04 09:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that he or she actually decieved you. when you feel like what did i do wrong to deserve this? that hurts alot. you put your time and effort in a relationship and something unexpected happen thats what hurts the most.
2007-12-04 09:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Junior V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you mad is that it was done behind your back and your thinking where?when?how?what was i doing at the time.They had actual time to screw you over.....
2007-12-04 09:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋