if u found yr husband/fiance/boyfriend looking at naked pictures on the internet after he promised not to look anymore.
2007-12-04 09:16:23 · 7 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take his computer away and have it checked for viruses.
2007-12-04 09:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he says that he's sorry about breaking the promise, that's not good enough. The next line is "what can I do?". Don't let him off the hook without this.
Your response will be to do the following:
Talk about why he broke his promise. Talk about why the rule was made in the first place. Create a new plan that works since the last one didn't.
Then have him do something that indulges your whim... this is the really fun one.... :-)
2007-12-04 17:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he might have a problem. i would tell him to get therapy for it. i think that looking at porn or naked pictures is cheating. that's just my personal opinion. i feel like its bringing another person into the relationship even if it's only sexually imagining them and doing things with them. cheating doesnt have to be physical, it can be mental and i think so many people dont really understand what cheating is. i didnt think it was cheating until i took premarital classes and they explained how cheating can take on different forms and i think they are absolutly right. it usually starts off with just looking and then turns physical and even if it doesnt, it still constitutes as cheating in my opinion.
2007-12-04 17:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Destiny G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep communication open. U are both adults and it is obvious that he/she is very sexual. Maybe that person knows that's a way to get under your sking and get some sort of reaction from you. Have you joined him to watch them?. Or if he/she likes that type of thing, have you lower your standards a little to compromise? Again if this is against your faith or morals, then you need to seek more in depth advice maybe from your pastor or marriage counselor. good luck to both
2007-12-04 17:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would drop that zero and find a hero girl...i found that crap in my house and had a freak attack about 4 months ago on my fiance but since then he's been okay or at least i havent found anything...if i ever do again though...HES OUT THE DOOR
2007-12-04 17:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by gracey 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd stand in front of him stark naked, and ask:
Do ya wanna continue to LOOK? Or would ya rather touch???
2007-12-04 17:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That relationship would be over.
2007-12-04 17:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋