My girlfriend of roughly 2 months sent me an e-mail that she just wanted the weekend alone, after we had made plans to hang out this weekend a while ago. I know there have been some instances when my joking around has come off as being an asshole and i have really upset her with that...those were never my intentions and now i'm afraid to lose her. Please help...tips, advice, i don't want to lose her over me being an idiot. I know not to do it anymore and i know i wont, i just need another chance....again, tips, advice, anything
Thanks in advance...Please help!!! :,,,,(
2007-12-04 09:10:19 · 23 answers · asked by Bob G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her you didnt mean anything, and you'd do anything to get her back in your arms (believe me, she'll make you do stuff LOL jk) anyways and i think from now on just say that she can smack you or someting when youre being jerky--lol dont be a jerk in the 1st place, love her! if it doesnt seem like you do, to her, then in her place she probably thinks that you dont love her anymore. Make things right. Love her, and make sure that she knows that you love her and never meant to hurt her.
GL
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2007-12-04 09:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is good you have realized where you have gone wrong. It shows maturity and good character to be respectful of others...particularly women. after all...giving respect is the only way to receive it.
This is just my personal opinion...I am not preaching to you.
As for your sweetheart, give her the space she is asking for...without limitations. Ask her when may you call her after that because you have something very important to tell her. Also tell her that you will miss her and will be thinking of her the entire time.
In the mean time get her a nice but simple gift. It could be a single rose but make it an especially nice one.
When the time she has asked for is over, and you see her again make sure you're dressed nice and neat. No suit or anything like that but neat and clean.
Tell her what a jerk you have been and how you have come to realize how much she means to you...that you are aware of her sensitivity and will respect and support her in all her endeavors.
Regardless of this particular outcome you will have given a new birth to your demeanor. Hopefully it will propel you into a deeper sense of maturity and guide you through out all your relationships. Remember...respect and dignity is the essence of being a true gentleman. It gives you character and poise.
Good luck and may you have a happy and successful life.
2007-12-04 09:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her a little while to have sometime to her self to think things over. Then try calling or going to see her (I would try to be able to say it in person instead of just a text or email.) Apologize for anything you have done. Tell her you will give her space if she wants but that you really love her and don't want to lose her. Just tell the truth- lying is not the way to win her back. If she is up to it, maybe plan a special day or evening to hang out and go to dinner or rent a movie together. Hope this helped!
2007-12-04 09:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow... sounds like your girlfriend just lost some of her self esteem. Maybe she just needs the weekend alone to gather herself not just because she wants to break up with you. Right now isn't the time to be thinking negative at all. What you should do is call her up on Sunday, see what she is doing and ask her not if she wants to go out, but if you can take her to the movies or something. My boyfrined sometimes exceeds a little on the humor honestly after 4 years I got used to it. Just show her how you can be a gentleman again.
2007-12-04 09:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she just needs a little break from you. Let her have a little space for the weekend and hang out with her next week. Try being nicer to her and if you can...say you are sorry. Girls don't like it when guys act that way towards us.
2007-12-04 09:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion you're too late. Sometimes when we say we want the weekend alone that means that we have something or someone better to do. Sorry I'm just being honest
2007-12-04 09:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by shasta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, all you need to do is email her back saying
"Okay, thats fine. We can try to get together next weekend or something. hey, listen, I'm sorry if i said something to affend you with my jokes, that was just me being stupid. I never meant to upset you and I hope you know that I don't want to lose you."
just apologize and she'll be okay. and maybe something really did come up.
2007-12-04 09:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bob, my friend... I've been there before! All you can really do is say what you said in your question... tell her the truth, tell her how stupid you feel and how you'll never do that again, shower her with roses, gifts... go all out... she needs to see that you are serious. If you ever slip up again, just know that you may lose her forever... GOod luck, bro! You're in my thoughts...
B
2007-12-04 09:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by ballistik 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her some space. If she's still interested, you'll know it soon enough and you'll have a chance to stop acting like an asshole. If not, you'll have learned a valuable lesson.
2007-12-04 09:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you might be stressing too much over this. Maybe something came up on her side. Maybe it's her time of the month and she thinks she'll be sick this weekend. Maybe her mother asked her to go do something. It's probably got nothing to do with you.
2007-12-04 09:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by kim s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋