Would you hate the other woman???
2007-12-04 08:56:57 · 8 answers · asked by My Sharona 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been cheated on twice, and I didn't hate the other woman. In fact, I didn't give her a second thought. I know that my exes were sneaky, and I'm sure she didn't know about us. I don't think it would bother me even if she did; if she knew I was in a relationship yet continued to throw herself at my man, then she's just sad and pitiful ... and he's a jerk for letting himself fall for her.
2007-12-04 09:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i would hate my husband/boyfriend
Their the one that cheated, it doesnt make any sense to hate the girl. If your man was the one in a relationship
2007-12-04 09:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tydie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No reason to, unless the woman knew me well enough and had been smiling in my face the whole time.
I think it's wrong when the bf/gf attacks the person their bf or gf is cheating with because it isn't their fault, maybe they knew your bf/gf had someone and that should be reason enough to stay away but they didn't personally know you. It's your bf's/gf's fault and no one elses.
2007-12-04 09:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would hate her. The fact that she doesn't have enough respect to keep her distance from a taken man is awful. What goes around comes around.
Good Luck.
2007-12-04 09:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by miks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the hatred would be more to the husband/wife if they were cheating. one he knows he's married and he probably didn't tell said cheatee. but i would have a little hatred towards the person who cheated with my signif other because they could of stopped it if they knew. but blame goes both ways for me.
2007-12-04 09:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymstr5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate her if she knew about me but he could be leading her to believe he was single in which case i wouldnt hate her
2007-12-04 09:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by crazylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and yes. if the women knew that you two were married or going out then you should be mad. but if she doesn't know then you should not blame her.
2007-12-04 09:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by smartgirlathome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she knew he was taken...if she didn't know, you can't blame her...just him. But if she knew, she is just as guilty as he is.
2007-12-04 09:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋