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Question

i got married at 19 and move to texas for my wifes job promotion..before we moved to texas i was in computer school and didnt finish do to the move..so i have an outstanding loan of 7grand and now i finished truck drivers school and have another tuition of 7 grand..the company i worked for screwed my bills and my families comfort so i found a local job that pays the same..i dont wanna go drive cross country now on top of the fact that they screwed me once so y go back..my wifes mad sayin im changing the plans because now i found a local job paying the same amount and ill be home but they dont do tuition reimbersment..i still need my cdl to work at this place so its not going to waste..she says im changen the plans am i wrong? im just trying to provide for whats going on now and fix our bills

Answer 1

A major part of being in a committed relationship is compromise. Life doesn't always work out the way we "plan" it, it's how we make due with what we're given that defines us. And what was the plan exactly? For you to be away from her, on the road for months at a time...missing major holidays and family outtings? When she finally sits down and thinks about the situation, I'm sure she'll realize that in the long run, what ur doing right now is the best thing for the family. It may not be what u originally agreed upon or thought u were gonna be doing, but you're doing the best you can at the moment. Make sure you let her know that this job is not permanent and you don't plan on making it your lifetime career; it's just a stepping stone to get where you wanna be. Don't worry, she'll come around.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

The main issue here is that you made a big, important decision without considering her opinion or talking to her about it first. Have you accepted this other job already? Any big decisions that affect your wife and your finances should be talked about and decided TOGETHER. There will always be disagreements but the sign of a mature r'ship is the fact that you can talk it through and work it out. If you didn't want to drive cross-country, perhaps you should've thought of that before signing up with a company that um.....drives cross country. Now, you not only owe the 7 grand for the computer school but now you'll owe the other 7 grand. For that money, you could've gone to undergraduate and gotten a degree where you'll make much better money and have a better quality of life. I understand that it's happened and you can't really mope about the past. If I were you, I would stay with the other trucking company for the time they require in order to reimburse the tuition so you don't owe another 7 grand.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You made no mention of the plans. Go back and talk to your wife about these plans and see if there is a way to modify the plans and still have the same outcome. You really need to stick to something by the way. You seem to quit or make a lot of changes.

Answer 5

I think 7 grand is a lot to have to spend out of your family budget. I assume you went to truck driving school with the idea you would be reimbursed your expenses, so yes, it is foolish to change jobs before being reimbursed and without first discussing it with your wife. I commend you for wanting a good life for your family, but you need to discuss drastic changes with your wife and make a decision together.

Answer 6

I think you should do what you feel. You need your CDL in order to have this job, so do it. Then start a payment plan with the companies so you can get your credit straightened out. They should be willing to take any kind of payment as long as they are getting something. Good luck.

Answer 7

think you should do what you feel. You need your CDL in order to have this job, so do it. Then start a payment plan with the companies so you can get your credit straightened out. They should be willing to take any kind of payment as long as they are getting something. Good luck.

Answer 8

it should not matter what you do for a job as long as it pays the bills gives you time to spend with your wife and any children if you have them the idea of life is to retire well off and enjoy what you do in and out of work. NO I DON'T THINK YOU ARE WRONG

Answer 9

I agree with Jay J... Great answer.. It sounds funny! It is going to add a strain on your marriage. (7,000) however, I do not know the details of what the company did to screw you over so it is difficult to answer. Personally, I would not give a company that screwed me once to screw me twice. Sounds as though she is pretty upset that you are not going to be gone all of the time... Sorry! What are her motives? As long as you are taking care of home, working and paying your way... She should be fine... My opinion... God bless****

Answer 10

why she want u to drive cross country? i say if u make the same then thats wassup. do ya thing and slowly pay off your loans. and she needs to get over herself. u went along with her for her career and now u have found what seems like the perfect solution so roll with it. i dont see why she's mad tho