ok dont ask why i did any of this but i did and i need help. i told a former teacher of mine (who calls me her daughter) all this stuff about my best friend (who the teacher also calls her daughter) and it is getting way out of hand. at first i told her that the girl was hiding from her and said that she was going 2 kill herself and stuff and now i told the teacher that the girl said she hated her and me and stuff and the teacher has been calling this girl's parents and stuff and i cant tell the teacher that i lied 2 her. please help me get out of this and dont say that its my fault because i know that. help! p.s. the teacher has threatened 2 call the police and stuff of what i said the girl said and because of harrassment. (with the girl, the teacher loves me right now)
2007-12-04 09:58:44 · 18 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i so cant tell the teacher and i cant blame it on someone else bcuz i told the teacher the girl told me that and said that stuff to me
2007-12-04 10:52:08 · update #1
Since you already know this is your fault, there's no sense rehashing that.
This is a turning point in your life. You can stand up straight, look the teacher square in the eye and tell her you lied. You'll feel amazing when it's all over.
Or, you can be a rodent for the rest of your life.
Don't spend your life hating yourself for this. Speak up and take the heat.
2007-12-04 10:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well then that is a real pickle isn't it.
there is a chance that the easyest (if not the most comfortable) way to get it all cleared up is to take ownership for your actions. I know that it is really hard, but if you do it now it can keep it from snow balling into an even biger mess. I'm not really sure of any other way besides geting the other girl to talk to the teacher and telling her it was just a joke or something, but it would just help to be honest.
... I know you said not to ask but I just can't figure out why you would do that... I mean I definatlly missed something there...
2007-12-04 10:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by CD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come clean. People respect you for telling the truth more than hiding away from what you have done. Howevr, for a teacher to be calling you daughter is a bit perverse. Maybe you should tell your head, avoiding the teacher, as this is not goood. Do your parents know about your teacher
2007-12-04 10:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer stay in united statesa. so i don't recognize what credit are, so i won't be able to assist you there, i'm sorry! yet i recognize the way you're feeling! i'm getting so frightened of faculty sometimes I make myself sick over it. that's good which you have tried to get help from the college counselor, yet whilst they do no longer look to be helping you should flow someplace else! attempt conversing on your parents/an grownup which you believe approximately this, see in case you may get inner maximum counselling. or maybe only go on your wellness care provider and ask for some rigidity pills. despite in the event that they could no longer provide them to you considering the fact which you're only fifteen, they could have the skill to help one way or yet another! good success and that i'm hoping issues get extra useful quickly! x
2016-10-10 06:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could tell the teacher that the girl said that and now you could say that you talked to the girl and its like a huge miss under standing and that the girl never said that and like what ever
2007-12-04 10:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the teacher that someone else (name another friend) was telling you these things
(and you never told your teacher because you didn't think it was neccessary)
and you just found out that it was all a joke and that your sry that your friends give you sick jokes and that you will personally yell at your friend
or something along those lines
i hope you fix this
good luck and happy hollidays =]!
2007-12-04 10:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do the right thing....tell your teacher, even if your teacher doesn't like you after, that shouldn't matter...you could be messing up other peoples lives and that ain't right
2007-12-04 10:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bailey W 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow thats really tangled. you should probably sit the teacher down lik while your alone and tell them what you did before you get your BEST FRIEND in lik tons of trouble. and explain to your teacher why you did it. honnesty is the best policy. cuz otherwise your going to digger yourself into a bigger hole
2007-12-04 10:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is your english teacher, tell her to stop being a personal friend of yours and start doing her job!
2007-12-04 10:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by pullagrav 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the teacher is actually doing the right thing.
but you should probably talk to your teacher and tell her to chill a bit and also talk to the girl. you can saver her life
2007-12-04 10:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋