"so you are doing aerobics after working all day hop you are paying tax on it? & congratulations on letting your husband out Saturday Night he is looking more fit now than when he was 30. The next time I see him out I'm going out of my way to shag the pants of him and haven't failed in doing that You see i've got a body to die for and I can use it you see I don't like you"
We have checked all our phone records and cant match the phone number - and get no answer when trying to call it - Worth noting I am an aerobics instructor (all taxes fully paid) - with my own body to die for!! My husband and my relationship is quite rocky as it as - this really doesn't help - He has had anonymous letters in the past about my fidelity !! which came from a source very close to home - I am getting really paranoid and considering everyone around me including HIM ! as he has done similar in the past - I am going mad
2007-12-04 02:51:56 · 12 answers · asked by k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunatly my number is on My adverts as I have a class of my own -as well as with working for a gym.
I did withhold my number
2007-12-04 03:09:32 · update #1
Unfortunatly my number is on My adverts as I have a class of my own -as well as with working for a gym.
I did withhold my number
2007-12-04 03:09:43 · update #2
Poor you! What a nasty cow to send you such messages!
You could probably report it to both the police and the network provider, although technically she mightn't have done anything illegal.
By worrying about it you're just giving this woman exactly what she wants.
The way I see it, an this is just an opinion, if your husband does stray, assuming this person is real, he's not worth the trouble. If it is him sending them, then again, he's not worth it. However in a warped way this could also be a good thing as it is a good test of your husband's mettle and might bring you closer together in solidarity against this nasty person.
Good luck. I hope things work out.
2007-12-04 03:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you already got letters about your past. I would look there first.
You and your husband need to have sit down talk. He needs to know someone is trying to break you two up.
Maybe you are paranoid but maybe people are out to cause you harm because of jealousy.
I think you need to be honest and talk to your cell phone company and tell them you are getting threatening text messages which are anonymous. (For a note there is no such thing as a truely anonymous phone call or text message. Everything is ran through the phone company and homeland security. If you mention threatening phone calls or texts. By law they have to investigate)
2007-12-04 03:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may sound a bit weird but when you have tried ringing the number did you withold your number?? This has happened to my friend in the past and the only way she found out who it was was by waiting a few weeks, letting it cool down and they had probably forgotten they had sent it and then called witholding their number. If you recognise their voice then great but if you don't that opens up a whole new problem, do you confront them over the phone?? Good luck, some people are just very very jelous! She's probebly a big fat ugly thing who has no partner and no life
x x
2007-12-04 03:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by angi_tinkerbell_fairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, but it takes two to tango. The fact she got your phone number to text you is how? Where I worked as an instructor they didn't give students instructor phone numbers so....
You are saying you have not been faithful in the past so now you are paranoid he isn't either? Two wrongs don't make a right period. Why stay with someone you cannot trust.
It may be just a psycho woman trying to get your goat so you will be unfaithful and he can bust you and then again...it could very well be what you fear. Just remember that you have nothing to fear but fear itself.
Hold your head up high with pride and dignity...don't do anything or say anything that will backfire on you. In the end....if it doesn't work out you will be able to hold your head high with self respect. And self respect is far greater and more powerful and a woman scorned.
2007-12-04 03:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try getting someone you trust to phone it from a different phone than yours. It is probably someone who is jealous if you, some nasty person with more time on their hands than sense.
Do not delete the message. If you continue to get malicious texts from this number report it to the police and they might trace the number. The same thing goes for the letters. They could be frome the same person.
2007-12-04 03:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by followthebird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh i really dont know what to say, if the calls n messages are bothering you that much i suggest goin to the police and they can trace it to whom is doing it.
About your husband do you think he is really doing it? Or this person is probs a sad act with nothing better to do, I think at the mo concentrate on your rocky marriage and forget these stupid texts xxx
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2015-01-26 06:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act on your gut instinct. If you think there's something in it, keep quiet and keep an open eye. If there is infidelity around - won't be long before you know.
Hope you work your relationship out before Christmas - can be a tough time.
Take care.
2007-12-04 03:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way of sending a txt message and with holding your number. Although there are a lot of sites online where you can send them without a number coming up.
2016-04-07 07:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a case for Jeremy Kyle
2007-12-04 02:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Gary Crant 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋