I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. When i first met him, he was respectful, kind, thoughtful, tidy, affectionate, reserved man. He respect me as a woman, never agrued with me when we had a conflict. He was very laidback and reserved when we was together. He bought me things for the holidays and wasnt a bum, always had neat clothes on. Always was affectinate to me whenever and wherever. He was my love.. It got to the point where we was in love. Thats when he started acting different to me. I was shocked because me and him was so closed to be a family... In my eyes i thought we was gonnna make it... he stopped being faithful to me, he began puttin his friends before him, he was always busy, he stopped seein me, stop taking me out, he became mean and rude. I cried that day we split up for two hours listening to Neyo.. I dont understand what i did but he changed so bad.... and the thing bout it was he was going to be rich and take me with him and he end up changin why idk ?
2007-12-04 01:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by Tasha aka Tee G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm really sorry for u but this happens in life and u should be brave enough to bear these difficult moments. Now as u told me guys normally like me respect women and care about the love but in ur case my thinking is tht there was something which went wrong either:
he was a nice guy but circumstances changed him or
he was nice only to get u and after tht he showed his real picture
2007-12-04 01:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many friends who have been in a very similiar situation. There are two options here:
1. When your boyfriend first met you, he probably thought he needed to be one of those nice boys and be respectful, and all those traits as you described him. As he got to know you better, he probably became a LOT more comfortable with you, which would enable him to think that you wouldn't mind if he doesnt really care about you anymore.
2. He is just losing interest. Sorry to say.
You are obviously in a lot of pain here.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2025843_over-ex.html
this is how to get over an ex.
Hope this helps and I hope you have happy holidays with an even greater guy.
Happy Holidays and good luck,
Alycia <3
2007-12-04 09:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Alycia [♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys feel like they have to play it up in the beginning in order to get you and know that they have you....but once they know that you ain't leavin..their real self comes out.
What you need is to find a guy that is genuinely nice and puts forth the effort to stay affectionate throughout...eevn two yrs down the road. Those kind of guys are hard to find....but there are some
2007-12-04 09:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by sexybichik09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"thing bout it was he was going to be rich and take me with him " I felt bad for you untill i read that line of your statement. You need to look at what your real motives for being with the guy are, if it was tru love then you never would have made that statement. A guy know when he is being used for money!
2007-12-04 09:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because many of them are only interested in ONE thing... and that isn't, unfortunately, love - committment - marriage. I know it may sound odd, but if you are looking for a good guy who could be marriage material, get involved with a church. Many have young adults groups and are a good place to meet eligible man. Good luck!
2007-12-04 09:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by crickette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse he got what he wanted and now is tired of the same old thing. Other wise he would keep it going.
2007-12-04 09:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Leonidas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just wasnt meant to be! Things arent always what the seem.
2007-12-04 09:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by victor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know
after dat they do not have to show off to look smart
attractive
wen thier girl is with them
2007-12-04 09:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by maina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. It's not all guys that do that and people change. That's all.
2007-12-04 09:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by plentyofmoxie84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are always at their best when they start dating.
2007-12-04 09:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sergio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋