My boyfriend got locked up in feb and I wanna know should I stay with him, we have been together for 4 years. I dont no if he is writting other females and he hasn't wrote me in a month. Is he talking to someone else and over me or what?he asked me to marry him 2 months ago should i say yes? I really love him though.!
2007-12-04 02:02:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you love him?? If you love him, you should trust him. You should be there for him through THICK and THIN.. good times AND BAD.. Not just when things seems right.. W/o going into detail, I can tell you I've been in that situation before, and maybe he's just going though a tough time with everything. February - so its been almost a year. Maybe you should go see him, or write him and try to figue this out - if you guys have been together for 4 years, and he asked you to marry him, i would HIGHLY doubt that he would be talking to another girl. Look, if he was just making sure that you were just gonna be there for when he got out, just so that he had something to look forward to, I would expect that he would have asked you to marry him when he FIRST went into jail, not almost a year later. Maybe you standing here, waiting for him after all of this, showed him how much you really love him and how down for him you are. Don't worry, I'm sure everything is fine <3
2007-12-04 02:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lana♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 4 years is a long time just to go to waste so maybe you should try and go visit him or write to him telling him how you feel or just get over him and find someone better
2007-12-04 02:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Joanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean you been with this guy for 4 years and you're not sure about your feelings?! Why do you think he is writing to other girls was he a player? I think that you better talk to him and ask him about his feelings and talk about the future before you said yes!!
2007-12-04 02:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by CHEETOS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i know what it's like to like a person that may not be the good type, and sometimes it worries you because y ou never know what he will do next, i say keep trying to write or communicate with him and see if he will respond cause if it's real love don't give up on it!!! just make sure you know right from wrong!!!
best of luck:)
2007-12-04 02:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by megan g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont go back w/ him. he loves someone else if he writtin other girls and not u. break it off!!
2007-12-04 02:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on why he was arrested.
2007-12-04 02:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋