i have even online dated and met people in person and they don't like me AFTER i've told them how big i am... one guy even told me he loved me (over the phone) but when he met me he didn't say much except goodbye.....
2007-12-04 01:56:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who sez they don't? without knowing your exact situation, I think your problem is you keeping trying to sell steak to vegans. their are dozens of website for big girls and the guys who love them. look here are a few that I found just bye typing in big girls and dating:
BBPeopleMeet.com, BigCupid.com, bgpdating.com.
once you start looking for men who actually want big girls you'll probably have better luck. but use your usually internet dating safety rules. just cuz he like the bigguns don't mean he's a nice guy.
2007-12-04 02:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. 210 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing it's you and not your size. I've never had a problem getting a bf (5'3" 300lb) and I know lots of women who are much bigger than I am who have loving bfs and hubbys. Maybe you should join an activity or take a class which gives you the opportunity to network and expand your social skills.
2007-12-04 10:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by L H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a mature person to get pass looks and search for the real person...everyone wants to hit a homerun with online dating...I would suggest you be up front...and cut out the pretenders...Merry Christmas..
2007-12-04 10:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be upfront about your body type. There are plenty of men out there who enjoy a curvy soft woman, but don't try to hide it from anyone. Be comfortable with your body, and don't try to hide it or men will feel like you have decieved them.
With time a guy will come around who will enjoy all of your curves!
2007-12-04 10:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by vanessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason girls don't like big guys.
2007-12-04 10:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Felix The Cat 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
it probably differs from guy to guy, but my limit on a normal height (5'5" to 5'6") is around 150-160 lbs
2007-12-04 10:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋