Well my bf the ***** that he is broke up with me over text!
I mean how lameeeee
I hated him and everything, and i didnt even cry when he said it
Actually i laughed....
Because he has no courage to at least call me or say it to my face!
Guys are such....Jerk offs
Not all of them, just most
Sometimes i wish he was dead but other times i just wanted him to hold me!
He said that he didnt want to hurt me because we were
apart so much, I think that hes just afraid of commitment
I mean he was a horable bf, never listened to me, never just held me and said he loved me, hardly talked to me, ignored my feelings, and other mean shyat that he would do and did.
I will get my revenge sooner or later!
I should make him feel bad or somthing
I'm not over him, But I'm not into him
I just hate to be alone, I like knowing that someone loves me
Or that i have someone to hug my tight and tell me everything will be alright!
=]
What should i do?
2007-12-04 01:57:07 · 18 answers · asked by Robin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... if it doesn't bother you as you said.... nothing. Life goes on. But since you posted, it hurts (just a tiny bit).
Well... as you said, look for someone better. It's a big ocean why settle for a mackerel?
2007-12-04 02:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be very confuse. I don't blame you, life isn't easy.
What is happening to you is called a life experience. You need to learn at some point that relationships are only healthy when there are 3 important elements: love respect and comunication. For the things you're describing you are recognizing that this guy didn't make you experience any of those elements. You need to define what you want in a relationship, and then do not accept nothing less, yet be realistic about your expectations, none is perfect or just the way we want them to be, but with some flexibility we can get along well if there are similar points of view.
Before getting into a relationship, get to know the person first, ask questions, comunicate your feelings, don't let your carnal instincts be stronger than your brain for once.
2007-12-04 10:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little anger and a lot of hurt. Sorry that you are going through that. He probably should have told you personally, but that wouldn't lessen the shock or the hurt. You are just going tohave to work through that.
And, there is always a reason for a breakup, he just didn't tell you what it was.
You can show him up, move through your pain, move on , get another, better boyfriend and when he comes back smile and say he lost his chance.
2007-12-04 10:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should go and do something for yourself and get yourself together first, before you make any decisions at all in this matter. He's not worth it. Don't do anything to him because it's just a waste of your time. Think about this question..Should I waste my time on him or go find someone better who is ready for what I want? That is the main key to your problems..So think about it
2007-12-04 10:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is success!
Start paying more attention to work / school, buy some new clothes, change things up a bit, start dating other people, and have fun!
Every time I've done that after a break-up, the guys come crawling back.
I don't ever want them after that though! ;)
2007-12-04 10:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you've got issues, why do you call him a ***** and wish he was dead, yet you know you are not over him?
plz try this: for once sit down and think, and be truly honest, if you think that you still love him and that you can get together, just go talk to him and sort issues out...anything is possible, step by step, but if you think maybe he is got issues and it wont work just relax and take your time to heal...dont be so mean
goodluck!!!!
2007-12-04 10:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Em09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like he is worth thinking about. I would take some time to myself, but if you need to be with someone- Find a guy friend and hang out- see where it goes. The less you act like you care about your ex- the more it will offend him. He sounds like he wants you to hurt- to build his pride. Dont let him get that satisfaction!!!
2007-12-04 10:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by **Lynn** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out and have fun with your friends! see this as a positive because you don't have to put up with him any more! just take some time to love yourself and you'll be less worried about needing someone else's love and eventually find someone who has more respect for you!
or get a cat lol ;p
2007-12-04 11:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by SIC1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was such a bad boyfriend, then why are you stressing about it? Go out and find someone else. You sound like you are young. Enjoy your youth and single life. Dont worry about getting "revenge", it is childish....
2007-12-04 10:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by clbowman06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my advice is, dnt ever hate ur enemy instead love them and believe me dat would be ur revenge, tho revenge isnt good at all.
go out with ur girlfriends have funn, date other guyz and just live life, its only a matter of time u'll feel better in few day so give it time and plz dnt kill him, u'll go 2 jail, and u can imagine the life there. ; )
2007-12-04 10:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋