Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

After your divorce, is rebound sex a good thing? Before you move on to something more serious?

2007-12-04 15:51:18 · 17 answers · asked by PHP 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it normal to want attention from your husband or is that being needy. He thinks all i want is attention if he comes in the house and does not say a word to me. Am i asking too much

2007-12-04 15:50:48 · 33 answers · asked by Sad Eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how long does the initial passion/crazy feeling last in a new relationship? and what is replacing that feeling?

2007-12-04 15:49:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 15:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a freshman and my relationship with my parents has declined ever since we moved three years ago. They nag and nag until eventually I just snap (yes, I believe I have anger issues). I will start calling my dad names (they aren't bad, i don't cuss) and he fires back with hideous names and cussing. For awhile I just tried to ignore them but then when he would call me a ***** and I didn't respond he would say, "See she knows it's true." Today he grabbed my shoulder and I told him to get his hands off me and he asked what I would do and I told him I would punch him. Him and my mom just started laughing and he cussed at me some more. I'm tired of this kind of relationship and even when I try to change they just keep pushing me over the edge. This is a 50/50 effort and they aren't meeting me halfway. How can I end all of the insanity and hurt feelings?

2007-12-04 15:48:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The man I love is busy IM'm my best friend and ignoring me wtf. Do u think he's cheating w/ her?

2007-12-04 15:45:49 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

In a intimate situation not just a casual kiss. As if the two of you were making-out.

2007-12-04 15:45:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know shes in love .
But the guy she is with keeps going back to this one lady .
And i mean this is constantly happening .
and she gets hurt everytime but then goes back..
Which i think is ridicoulous she keeps going back because she knows its gonna keep happening ..
I need to give her something to make her understand she can do better, and she don't need him.

Help?

2007-12-04 15:45:11 · 15 answers · asked by Babyloveex3 3 in Singles & Dating

When I was 17-18 I had my first boyfriend.. which I can say was the most significant relationship of my life. I had to cope with unbelievable amounts of grief during this time period because everyone seemed to have a problem with the fact that he is 2 years younger then me. My family, friends, and even acquaintances were constantly trying to tear us apart until finally my parents succeeded. It was the most difficult thing I had ever had to do, but I was forced to break it off. He and I have remained friends throughout these 7 years and are still quite close. My question is.. my brother (20) has a new girlfriend who is 3 years younger then he is and no one seems to have any problem with this at all. I realize that I can't be mad at my brother for the heartache I had to go through for the same thing he is enjoying everyday without restraint. But I still feel frustrated on some level even though I have moved passed this. Is this normal at all?

2007-12-04 15:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by Christy V 5 in Singles & Dating

well i gave a present before he left. he then hugged and kissed me on the cheek (like friends do). i hugged him back and was about to kiss him on the cheek but he was too tall for me to reach so my lips landed on his neck. i was like oh god i didnt mean to do that bcoz neck means something else. he didn't seem to mind at all. what do ya think?

im a female by the way

2007-12-04 15:40:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever just felt blessed? I don't know why but today I just feel so thankful that I have the friends I have. Through the good and the bad they will always be my friends and I love them. Some i don't see as often as I used to. Some i still do but I still remember them all. Can you relate is what i'm asking i guess?

2007-12-04 15:40:07 · 10 answers · asked by Random guy number 1988 3 in Friends

Why is it so hard to find a guy that likes a smart, nice girl?
So in high school I was the bookworm, in university I straightened my hair and got contacts and all sorts of guys started talking to me... BUT...Literally every guy I've met shys away because I'm studious and down to earth (meaning, I like bowling, movies, and all other fun stuff besides clubbing, although I do like to dance). I'm 21 finishing university... I feel so lonely even though I have my goals! : (

2007-12-04 15:39:19 · 15 answers · asked by mellei 1 in Singles & Dating

If the ladies could tell me what their favorite homemade meals are, no matter how difficult to prepare, it would help alot. Thanks.

2007-12-04 15:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 15:39:03 · 15 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was involved in a casual sex situation for about a month. I wasnt looking for anything serious. I hung out with the guy 2 weekends in a row (initiated by him) and now i suddently havent heard from him. I did text him sat night just to say hi, he wrote back right away, but still....i sort of feel like i did something wrong or i guess he just lost interest. I will never do this again...i feel cheap and dirty. I think it's worse because he is a shady person, now i'm like what was i thinking i must be as shady as he is.

2007-12-04 15:36:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering

2007-12-04 15:35:52 · 27 answers · asked by I dont know 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work in home health care i had a client today who seemed to be ok,and it was my first time working for her she also had a husband. well, i did tons of work for her and i usually work pretty fast and when i finished,which was a whole hour and 15 minutes earlier,she told me i could go home i then told her i wanted all my hours she told me she no longer needed my services and i should go.i was upset because i did above and beyond my job and all i got was attitude from her and didnt get all my hours in her husband never said a word although he seemed to really like me when i came in why do u think she did this and what way would u had handled it ?

2007-12-04 15:34:41 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 15:34:14 · 16 answers · asked by deven 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 15:29:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on IM? like i know, talking dirty... but can someone think of conversation starters for horny conversations? thanks...
like something to say fist so he can say something back and keep the convo. going. THANKS!

2007-12-04 15:29:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 15:25:06 · 10 answers · asked by ctsanders5 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am surprised by the amount of good information that comes from Singles & Dating. Who agrees?

2007-12-04 15:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by comfort eagle 6 in Singles & Dating

My brother looks very very young he can pass and has passed for 18. Would it be different if he did not look so young? He is also on the smaller side. He is 5'6" 135lbs. I want to know how others think to make my decision on how I feel about this. I wish you could see a picture of him he looks so young.

2007-12-04 15:24:14 · 4 answers · asked by race_car_bed 2 in Singles & Dating

man... there is this guy, i find him SO incredibly interesting and attractive. I'm not even that sexually attracted to him, but I can never get him off my mind! Unfortunately, I don't think he's into me, and I used to date his best friend. I just find the idea of him so intriguing! This has been going on for about 3 years now.. lol.. any ideas how to kick this habit? (I think of it as a habit, haha)

2007-12-04 15:23:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 15:21:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 15:21:35 · 13 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 15:20:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A Movie Theatre, a Cafe? At McDonald's, at a children's preschool, painting a house, in a bar?
Where can I smoke a cigar?

2007-12-04 15:16:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I split up 3 mths ago after a 2 yr long distance relationship that had a few bumps but we got along great. , when we broke up we had much push-pull but it came to an end we haven't spoken at all in over 7 weeks I reccently sent her a portrait that I drew of her ( I've had it here at my house for 5 mths planned to give it to her when I asked her to marry me ) I kept the note that went with the portrait simple and non - threatening like " I drew this for you a few mths ago , I forgot to bring it with me the last time we saw each other , I'd like for youo to have it , I hope all is well " I'm wondering if she'll reply and if she doesn't should I contact her in a week or two ,or I'm thinking she may be seeing someone if so should I wait until after the holidays to call her ? all input is welcome . thanks

2007-12-04 15:15:42 · 4 answers · asked by steven b 1 in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend goes to college and for an anniversarry he got me a Teddy bear that says someone at Madison (UW-Madison) loves you. So I wanted to get him a bear from Walmart that you can get a picture printed on its seeatshirt but it might not be in on time. I really wanna find a way to still get him a bear wearing a shirt that says Someone in Oshkosh loves you... any ideas where I can get this done or how i could amke one? I thought about sewing a teddy bear sweatshirt then printing on iron on paper/......

2007-12-04 15:15:04 · 2 answers · asked by bean b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships