how to keep check on husbands without there knowledge?

Answer 1

there is no point.....if you don't trust them, get out, spare yourself the agony of proving to yourself that you cannot trust him

Answer 2

Sandeep S had alot of good answers. If you want to know for sure he is cheating or not use his advise. Also you can actually hear what is being said by your cell phone. If you have access to your husbands cell phone mute the ringer on the phone to when it rings it does not make any sound or vi berate and set the phone to auto answer to answer in the shortest amount of time. You will have limited time to do this cause more than likely he will change the settings back once he realizes it. But call the phone and it will automatically answer and you can hear what is going on just make sure batteries are charged up just in case you start hearing something worth hearing you don't want the battery to die.
Also, I want to re mention checking receipts of purchases. Check the location, date, time and amount. He could have just bought a coke but if he is 50 miles from where he is suppose to be then there is more that likely a problem.
Also in his veh check for any evidence of another woman. A smell of a strange perfume. Women tend to leave things behind like sunglasses, lipstick, scarf, jacket. Check for hair that does not belong to you or your husband. Women with long hair tend to leave it behind.

Answer 3

It seems like you are suspecting that he is cheating on you OR he has started to behave like he has lost interest in you and you think that he might be having an affair outside marrige.
Trust him dear, this happens after some time of marrige that the man do not spend much time with his wife or behaves like she is not so attractive now as she was before and in the starting year of marrige. He could be just preoccupied in his job and is going through a tough time in office and if at this point you-----the girl in his life suspect him then he will be hurt in the same way you will feel hurt if he checks on you. Love him more at this time and trust him and tell him this thing. Men have realy big ego and they are also human beings, if he knows that there is some one who trusts him and loves him soooo much then he will never have any thought of cheating on his wife. He will do and all men do flirt in office or outside but that excites him and he loves his wife more aftrwards.
the final decession is totaly yours

Answer 4

It is true that you are a miserable person once you suspect that your partner is cheating on you. It is important to bear in mind that you don't tell your partner of your suspicions until you gather a concrete proof. You don't tell about your plans or otherwise he/she will be more careful so it will be impossible to catch him/her.

You never confront him/her until you are absolutely sure. You just don't assume that he/she is being unfaithful but take some actions which might give you some clue.
Note down the most frequently used phone number : You may look for the details of the phone number you don't recognize and note the details of the call made/ received. Take for instance, a phone number which is on regular use (particularly the call which was made while he/she was commuting or when you were not around). Note down this number. It might be come handy.
Make a call from a pay phone: You could call the number which looks suspicious from a pay phone so that you are not identified. Call out this number and don't say anything, try to recognize the person's voice who answers. Mostly it is found that he/she is seeing someone known to both of you.
Search the pockets : If you are able to get hold of his/her credit card, wallet or manage to search his pockets to trace purchase of any gift which has not been bought for you (check the specifications like the date and the kind of purchase and tally with list of gifts you have received).
You might find some bills : You might be able to find some clue from any restaurant, hotel's bills. Keep this in your custody which might be useful in using as a solid proof.
The odometer reading : Check his/her vehicles Odometer to take readings before and after his trip to verify the distance he/she has covered, this will help you co-relate with your estimated calculations, and you might be able to work out where he could have been.
Clue from the deleted mail folder : You might be able to pick some clue from his/her deleted mail folder. You might be lucky to find some of the deleted e-mails which he/she has deleted recently.
Be alert : Always listen carefully to what he/she speaks avoiding asking any questions or he/she might not talk about the same thing again.
See if you find any perfumes : Check his/her pockets or belongings to see if you find any perfumes etc which does not belong to you.
Suddenly buying new clothes : If suddenly you find he/she is buying new clothes, it could be a helpful sign that he/she is seeing someone.
Monitor recently visited websites : You can monitor recently visited websites which could be the websites of vacation resorts for a travel which you are not aware of.
If you happen to prove that he/she is cheating on you, make sure you are prepared emotionally to bear the truth. Sit cool and think you can and should save your relation or not. Bear in mind you might end up in handling with a difficult situation.

Answer 5

Sorry to hear you have to check up your husband. If there is no trust and you can't work that out then get a divorce and find a partner you can trust.

Answer 6

Get a private investigator to track him for a couple of days and when he is having a shower, check his mobile phone for text messages or strange phone numbers.

Answer 7

If you have access to his cell phone account then you can check numbers that he calls and receives.

I feel creepy that I know this! But my mom caught her husband cheating on her this way.

Answer 8

Allow him to live as per his need. Is he keeping check on his wife.

Answer 9

This way u can only catch him/her but can't change his/her attitude.

In my opinion self evaluation is the best way to handle this issue........ u must understand what is lacking in u which is being explored in others to change his/her attraction.

Answer 10

Beating around the bush gets you nowhere. Just let him know that you will be watching him so he better be doing what he is supposed to.

Answer 11

NO trust , NO marriage , just confront him , then kick his @zz to the curb , only children sneak around to find out things.

What make's you think he's cheating? and please dont say he im's with chick's on line cuz your ON line , dont say watches to much **** , **** aint an issue.ASK HIM.

Why cant people put more information into their questions? this is what I want answered. we cant advise on just 9 words.