Is it ok to have sex with out being married?

Question

I was wondering

Answer 1

its ok to have sex with out being married., we all know that sex now or making love with our partner is not an issue., all we have to do is to keep it safe.

Answer 2

This is really entirely up to you, but if you want my advice I would say no. I have seen and had both ends. When you have sex before being married it doesn't have as much meaning and you never really know beforehand what the guy's reasoning is. Some guys just want to have sex and that is it. But there's just too many complications around casual sex, not to mention you can get pregnant, and the guy can leave.
If you wait until you are married, you know he's in it for love. My new husband and I waited and I cannot descibe how wonderful our marriage is. I am sooo glad I waited for him and I know he is not going to leave. By the way, I just had a baby and my pregnancy was so great. My husband was involved throughout the whole thing and went to all of my appointments and was very supportive.
It's just so much better when you are married...trust me.

Answer 3

The marriage relationship exists for a reason. Sex outside of marriage has consequences most cannot handle. They'll lie and say they can, but they cannot. There are emotional consequences to sex that cannot be measured. A good marriage is the only way those needs can be met.

Sex is not a substitute for acceptance. Sex is not a substitute for love. Sex is not a substitute for security. Sex is not a weapon.

If you don't understand these things, then you are not ready for sex.

Answer 4

As long as you are careful to use protection to prevent std's , aid's and unwanted pregnancy nothing wrong with it , just dont do it to much to get yourself a bad name you dont need to be known as the town bike after all , make sure the guy cares about you somewhat even if its just a physical attraction , seriously it's a touchy issue just do what feels ok by you .

If your not ok with it then fantastic , thats really great wait for the right person to share your mind , body and soul with , its to much to just to share with any ole tom dick or harry.

Answer 5

virginity is a social term, not a medical one.so, it depends on how you define it.Sex before marriage could be good or bad..personally, I'm wondering the same thing..I think 60% bad, 40% good, because passions count for something, but not as much as how much you'd have to pay if something goes wrong.

Answer 6

That is a personal decision each adult must make for themselves....notice I say adult. Children have no business having sex.....it causes more trouble than it's worth. You wait until you are an adult and can take care of a little one financially if that is the end outcome....and it can happen dispite your best efforts to the contrary.

Answer 7

A bad idea, I know many females who wish they did not. You don't have the person there after it's done usually. 70% of premarital sex couples do not last

Answer 8

Of course it is... how boring single life would have been without a bit of hammer-time every now and then
*wink*

Answer 9

funny how everyone who is saying how they feel is getting thumbs down...

but this is a question of morals.. and is 100% up to you.
your partner or who ever else

Answer 10

No. Just read some of the questions on here.....

young women who are pregnant or have small children and he's leaving....or cheating....or won't pay child support....you name it.

Your body is PRECIOUS. Heck, I've seen women who won't let ANYONE drive their car....but they'll let any tom, dick or harry get in the 'driver's seat' when it comes to sex......