After your divorce, is rebound sex a good thing? Before you move on to something more serious?
2007-12-04 15:51:18 · 17 answers · asked by PHP 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely, it is great to boost that ego that has been so fearcly quashed during the divorce process. Even if it ends well, it is still a very emotional time, so this is a great opportunity to get back in the game.
2007-12-04 15:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by Judo Chop 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It may seem wrong to some but I done it and it helped my feelings! lol, maybe were not suppose to do stuff like that but I am 35 years and and feel that I am old enough to make those choices. So in my opinion, I say yes, before you think about getting serious with anyone else, and especially after a divorce, go out and have some fun with others first. Make sure the other person knows though that you are not looking to get serious, that way it doesn't lead them on.
2007-12-04 16:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rebound sex probably isn't your best bet after a divorce because that's a time in your life where you're vulnerable... you don't want to end up emotionally attached to a "No Strings Attached" partner.
2007-12-04 16:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after a divorce,,,you should concentrate in getting your life back to normal first. Work on your issues. Relax,,join something like some sports, travel...wahtever. But to be digging for more trouble so soon might result in un-neccesary stress that you don't need. But hey,,it's your life and this is just my opinion...good luck
2007-12-04 16:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
rebound sex is fine as long as you are thoughtful enough not to do it with someone who really cares when you don't. remember others feelings and be safe
2007-12-04 23:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure , if u guys are both not seeing someone . U guys should agree its only rebound sex to so no feelings come back ..
Good Luck
2007-12-04 15:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by mommie of 3 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if its understood between the two that that is exactly what it is.. dont go into it having the other person think that you want love or something.. let them know that its just physical... and u may be surprised at how smoothly things go
2007-12-04 15:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by martina c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rebound sex is fine, as long as both parties involved know it is your rebound sex and that it will last only a few weeks......
2007-12-04 15:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yep get it all out of your system so you don't want no one else but the person you are looking to start a relationship with
2007-12-04 15:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Nae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch where you put it as there are alot of nasty little surprises around the place and you wouldn't want one of them, but yes get out there and be single again and get it out of your system.
2007-12-04 15:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋