Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

Whenever we're watching tv while eating, and whenever there is sort of like a useless pathetic character in a show. I am thinking that he thinks that is what I am. Or if I see a guy being submissively helpful to a father like washing his feet when he hurt his leg. I think he's wishing that would be me.

2007-12-04 14:45:28 · 11 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1 in Family

It is not like I talk about it all the time and I am a nice person, so I don't understand why people care so much about low self-esteem. It truly is something that I can't help.

2007-12-04 14:45:17 · 17 answers · asked by pond 1 in Singles & Dating

Today, my ex boyfriend came to my house unexpectedly, right after my mom and sister went to their jobs. We talked for a couple of minutes and then he asked me if he could come in, instead of standing at the door. When I refused, he decided to tell me the reason why he was came. He asked me if we would like to get back together. When I said no, he got angry. He called me a b**** and a whore and then he pushed me. I fell backwards, slipping on the welcome mat on my way back, and hit my head on the tile. And he just left without a word. I'm okay, but I'm not sure what I should do. Should I tell the boy who I'm about to start dating (he's too nervous to ask me out, so I planned on asking him tomorrow) or tell his mom (his mom and my mom are best friends) or keep it to myself? Help please. BTW, we're both 15.

2007-12-04 14:45:09 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to ask white girl out since I was a kid. I think they are very pretty. Especially Blond Hair girl, they are really turn me on. Because I was'nt born in US, that made my accent not like native speaker. I dont know to say when I around them. I afraid they think me a small skinny asian guy and my accent make me stand out as a foreigner.

2007-12-04 14:44:57 · 12 answers · asked by Dragonman 2 in Singles & Dating

So its someone I have cut off by email as they are emotionally abusive toward me. I was clear but not hurtful and they sent a card and vouchers and I got bf to open it so I wouldnt have to read it but I cannot accept these. I don't want to be nasty but they must go back. How would you do it?

2007-12-04 14:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-04 14:42:15 · 2 answers · asked by LACI 1 in Singles & Dating

Next year, im supposed to be transferring schools. Me and (supposedly) my friend are supposed to go to this school up the street, SHS. Right now, we go to TVHS. Anyways..
We just had a basketball game against SHS at SHS campus.
Well, when we went there, we were a bit culture shocked, I felt out of my league. The guys there are SUPER HOT and i want a boyfriend so BAD cause i need that kind of affection right now. The bad news is, and how could i say this..;im about(in my case) a 5, the girls there are more 9-ish 10, so for me getting a guy there would be 0-0.
Thats not my only concern, It seems like the people at SHS are too overly confident, I can be too, it's just that this school intimidates me A LOT. If im gonna go there, i gotta learn how to like myself even MORE, that is- if looks really DONT matter.

P.S. i have to go to that school- i just moved up the street from it.

2007-12-04 14:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you also feel bad and devastated? Do your conscience also haunt you, or you just don't care?

2007-12-04 14:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by carla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know exactly my future , marriage and education

2007-12-04 14:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by Susan T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 14:38:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I heard on the radio that there is a $7,000 sex doll? What is this all about?

Also, if you bought a few and rented them by the day or for the weekend would that be legal?

2007-12-04 14:36:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And you are bored??

2007-12-04 14:36:16 · 17 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It is so difficult to find a virgin for marriage. I am very frustrated.

I am a virgin man, never done anything sexual with a girl before, so I expect my future-wife to have done the same: to have never done anything sexual with another man.

I do not want a girl who's had sex before. The fact that she's had other men before me brings about feelings of inferiority, insecurity, jealousy and resentment. That's why I wouldn't want her if she wasn't a virgin. Love wouldn't matter, because I would never love a girl who cheated me like that.

I've been waiting for her; she should likewise be waiting for me.

Why is it so difficult to find a virgin for marriage? It seems like every girl has done sexual things with other guys. Why can't I find a girl who, like me, hasn't done anything sexual with another person?

2007-12-04 14:35:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Over the past two months I became friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me and be nice, and even made me a cd for me a while back after she asked me if I liked a band. She also copied notes for me and asked me my number recently, so we could study together. When we got done studying and I was walking to my car she stopped and picked me up and we talked in her car. We went and got coffee at school the next day after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam. She also dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in hers. She asked me to goto church with her recently, and we've studied together outside of school and I've hung out at her house a few more times. In passing the other day she said didn't want a relationship when talking about this guy from church that called her...but the other day in physics there was a drawing of "I <3 U!" on the table that she traced over right in front of me, so I'm confused...

2007-12-04 14:34:26 · 1 answers · asked by cracky 2 in Singles & Dating

She says "Let me worry about it"

2007-12-04 14:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by Teri H 1 in Family

How do you like to cuddle?

2007-12-04 14:34:05 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a party saturday and my boyfriend didnt want to come. and this guy i work with was trying to touch me and i just started balling. why did this started happing . i never used to cry when people used to touch me.

2007-12-04 14:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

also, i need it free. the main thing i am interested in is the exact date that they were married. i REALLY need to know. can anyone help me, PLEASE?

2007-12-04 14:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half... and honestly, I have loved this guy since the day i met him when i was 14 years old. (I'm 19) Our personalities clash and we fight A LOT. His temper makes him say hurtful things and my temper makes me try to break up with him. He ALWAYS fought me on breaking up and did whatever he could to change my mind and make me give him yet another chance to make everything ok. Recently, we got into a heated argument and I suggested that we break up and for the first time ever, he didn't fight me on it and became this cold-hearted jerk that I don't even know anymore. I'll be honest with you, I have a pretty big pride issue and have a really hard time admitting when I'm wrong and apologizing and last night I poured my heart out and apologized for everything I've done and my mood swings. And he was being so mean and cold. And now he wants to not talk at all (except text once in a while) until the 20th to think and cool off. What now? =(

2007-12-04 14:30:27 · 18 answers · asked by Larissa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's the idea of something going into my body that i find akward and scary.

I'm afraid i won't get 'wet' or feel anything at all when we approach eachother.

how can i fix this. i don't get sexually excited

is it because i'm a virgin?

2007-12-04 14:30:03 · 11 answers · asked by Ash and june 2 in Singles & Dating

So heres the deal, all my friends already had their first bf but me. I don't think any guys even like me or think I'm even pretty. I know I'm a little chubby, but I don't think I'm THAT ugly. So is there something wrong? Well, I'm in Jr.High so is there something wrong with me?

2007-12-04 14:25:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been failed several times for asking girl out. I am not shy, I just don't like to talk a lot when it not really important thing to say. I lack scene of humor. can anyone help me so I change it.

2007-12-04 14:25:50 · 8 answers · asked by Dragonman 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I get along very well, but we have problems in our marriage. He is in 60's and I'm in 20's he cares about me so much and I know he loves me. I left him and work in other state. And he is un employed. I dont know what to do. But I love him.

2007-12-04 14:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Kc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 14:24:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Other than a church my fiancee is not religious p;ease asap can someone help?

2007-12-04 14:23:23 · 5 answers · asked by meli 2 in Weddings

in other words, why do older men like younger women?

2007-12-04 14:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was found to be emotionally and verbally abusive towards her by CPS...however, the judge ordered him to get therapy over the summer months and resume visitation in the fall to reconcile with our daughter. He's disowned her instead. He won't let his family contact her nor will he or his family accept any type of contact by her or by me. She is feeling depressed and abandoned. She hides it well but some times she'll talk to me about missing the good side of her dad. She's asked me to have my b/f adopt her once were married. Since her father has disowned her she no longer wants his last name. I fear she may have abandenment issues later on or even now and get herself into trouble looking for a man to substitute as her dad. I also worry too much as it is...she's been in therapy but says she no longer needs it. I'm not so sure that she should quit therapy. How can I help her? I can't believe her father did this to her...I'm speechless.

2007-12-04 14:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Family

i want true love, but all guys seem so insensitive and they only want one thing! Im still young, but when i get older i really want true love. how can i find it with guys so .... rude?? If your a guy, please answer this: would you fall in love with a girl if she looked average, but had a great personality??? Do you truly love women or just like sex???

2007-12-04 14:16:23 · 49 answers · asked by Amelié 3 in Singles & Dating

anybody got some tips on how to get a girl to like you

2007-12-04 14:15:57 · 6 answers · asked by kman 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a girl says your funny a lot, like almost everytime you make a joke. I'm not sure if it's sarcasm or she really means it.
We are not dating or together either.

2007-12-04 14:15:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating