So heres the deal, all my friends already had their first bf but me. I don't think any guys even like me or think I'm even pretty. I know I'm a little chubby, but I don't think I'm THAT ugly. So is there something wrong? Well, I'm in Jr.High so is there something wrong with me?
2007-12-04 14:25:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There probably isnt anything wrong with you.
And girls who tend to not have bf's and are a little chubby before highschool,
end up growing, and the chubbyness grows off,
and then a lot more people want them, because they get really hot, plus no one has dated them yet.
But you never know.
goodluck! ;]
2007-12-04 14:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I was like that. My friend had bfs already and i didn't. I just hung with the guys and my Homegirls. I played sports with all my homegirls and we became popular. I don't know how or why but we did. Then it wasn't until i was in 8 gr when i met some guy who liked me for me. Not cuz i was trying to be the hottest thing there. I loved sports so did he. Just be yourself mamasita. Don't worry you still have a long way to go. I have certainly come a long way I am now in 12 gr and the guys are just flowing by me and i am loving it. If you need anything just let me know.
2007-12-04 14:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by I <3 my life!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christie, my dear. There is absolutely nothing in the world wrong with you. You are completely fabulous.
Please realize that just because you've not found a bf, that doesn't make you less of a great person. There will be *plenty* of time to find a nice young man. It's been my experience that I find a bf when I'm not looking for one.
So, difficult as it sounds, don't worry about it. The right person will come strolling into your life at just the right time.
Best of luck to you & I hope your holidays are absolutely fabulous! : )
2007-12-04 21:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Babs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b/c you haven't had your first bf yet doesn't mean anything is wrong with you I didn't have mine till I was in college and although to you that may seem like a lifetime away it really isn't I too struggled thinking much the same things you are... It is all lies....the right guy will come when the time is write but right now take the time just to be you and relish in your singleness despite the glamor of a relationship it is a whole lot of heartache and very time consuming ...as you wait for your prince to come be yourself... they will come all the more and for the right reasons...for you not for someone you are pretending to be and untill that relish in the freedom you have.
2007-12-04 14:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its jr.high so dont worry its not a big deal if eveyrone has a bf but you. If you have insecurities like weight just fix it now. Maybe exercise and do things to make yourself more attractive to guys and make yourself feel more confident. Confidence alone can get you plenty of guys.
2007-12-04 14:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is something wrong with you. You want to be grown too fast. I lost my virginity at 13. Why? Trying to keep up with some hot tail girls. I was also chubby and I still am now I'm married and and have two little boys. Love yourself. Focus on your dreams. You have a life time to have sex. It really don't mean anything if it's just sex anyway. It sounds old fashion. But it will work when your grown and living your dreams those same girls who've been giving up will wish they were in your shoes. Just like they do now.
2007-12-04 14:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by sexycute32 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie....take a look around you.Just go walk around the mall and look at some of the couples together. I guarantee you that you're gonna see someone 3 times uglier and fatter than you but they've still got love in their life.Its 2007 Sweetie...no sane, human, person is stressing over the "perfect" body or face to have a crush on.You got curves,so what...you work with wat you got and act as if you know you're the sh*t!!! Dont be afraid.. Just give those girls something to talk about and give those guys something to look at!! There's nothing wrong with you!! You're just a little self-concious and that NORMAL...we all go thru it..even those jackas*ses that wont go out with you!!!
2007-12-04 14:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rocquii<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. I also have never had a good boyfriend. I've been asked out, but never by anyone nice. Guys are stupid at our age and are just looking at how cool they will look in front of their friends. They don't want anyone to tease them. You are beautiful the way you are and you shouldn't let anyone change you. If there is a guy you like, flirt with him. Guys like girls who are confident and like who they are so show them that you don't care. Plus it's cool to be single... you can say watever u want about guys. Like how hott they are! Love who you are. Wait for it the right guy will come along soon.
-akneitz
2007-12-04 14:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that age guys are stupid, I'm sorry but that's the truth. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up, and when you're older, guys will appreciate you for the good qualities you possess that *really* matter, like your personality and character. In the meantime, just enjoy your youth-it goes by fast!
Good luck to you! =)
2007-12-04 14:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, everyone is perfect the way they are made by God. Nothing is wrong except for boys are imature. Just chill out, don't worry about boys, and have fun with your friends. That's what life is about, right? Hey, maybe you will be a girlfriend sooner than you think. (:
2007-12-04 14:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋