It is so difficult to find a virgin for marriage. I am very frustrated.
I am a virgin man, never done anything sexual with a girl before, so I expect my future-wife to have done the same: to have never done anything sexual with another man.
I do not want a girl who's had sex before. The fact that she's had other men before me brings about feelings of inferiority, insecurity, jealousy and resentment. That's why I wouldn't want her if she wasn't a virgin. Love wouldn't matter, because I would never love a girl who cheated me like that.
I've been waiting for her; she should likewise be waiting for me.
Why is it so difficult to find a virgin for marriage? It seems like every girl has done sexual things with other guys. Why can't I find a girl who, like me, hasn't done anything sexual with another person?
2007-12-04 14:35:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunatelly, that's women fault.
Now a days,, women in general dont see anything wrong by having sex before getting married, but thats worng b.c all of those past experiences modify the way how we act today and for the worst. We allow men to use us...experiment and get experience with our body and then leave us like something worthless and I will not believe there is a women that have sex before &who have never felt that way = used & betrayed. Those bad experiences do cause insecurity, resentment etc .. feelings that later on will hurt our furture relationships..
Anyway.,.women offer their bodies to man , the same way you offer goods to sell on the street... The only difference is that our asking price is a little bit of love... and honestly men like to get things in a hard way, not easy,,, but we women, dont get it.
If you want to find a virgin, there are still a bunch of them, but I will tell you something.. dont get obsess for not finding one. Maybe a nice girl is out there for you, maybe now she thinks differnet and she understood that she is extremely valuable...and that she deservce to be desired and that only the person who really loves her is the one that will fight for her love and that will start admiring her because she will be behaving as a lady and she will make him behave like a gentleman with her...something that he maybe never thought to be.
2007-12-04 16:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by SweetSecret 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I even have not chosen that. i might have extra admire to your selection if it spawned from an earthly attitude. think of of each and every of the forged, lecherous stories you've probable ignored out on. of direction, you've chosen to relish your sexuality those previous years, on an analogous time as keeping your virginity, in case you recognize what I propose. i don't get many chicks in any respect and it sucks a lot! on the different hand, by utilising staying abstinent one would not ought to hassle approximately being pregnant or STD. Plus, in line with possibility you're extra into the character of persons, somewhat than how they provide the impact of being. I even have not chosen to abstain, yet I even have undesirable social skills, low self assurance, and generalized apathy. compliment Jesus for internet porn!
2016-12-10 12:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by alire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to answer a question with a question... but where are you looking for this special someone? The church I attend has quite a few beautiful ladies asking the same question... where are the virgin men? There are virgins out there just need to look in the right places.
2007-12-04 14:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just rare. Like virgin males. I'm one. But I'm presently taken:) 25 years of sexual purity: a feat which I hope to achieve all the years of my life (yes, there is sexual purity in marriage, because the sex is IN marriage, for those who do not quite grasp the concept).
Keep looking. And know that, with your stringent ultimatum, you may not ever find a virgin compatible enough to marry. You may have to be single for the rest of your life with your decree that you cannot marry a non-virgin. It's not a terrible thing, either. Just may not be what you expect...
2007-12-04 15:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Oh it's me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look for a virgin dating website. Look for girls at chruch.
Other then that, people these days are sexing very early these days that why you can't find one. Plus your likly looking in all the wrong places.
2007-12-04 14:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to have sex with a girl so you can be the same as others?
any ways but there are too many girls who never had sex before, don't worry you ganna find one.
2007-12-04 14:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by 1Motion 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
lol hehe. sick world aint it. if you are that frustrated then maybe you can compromise and be specific which area you would like untouched before everybodys done with her
2007-12-04 14:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by tommy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just because a girl has had premarital sex, doesn't mean she's cheating on you...??? that's insane thinking.
i think virgins might be extinct.. who knows?
2007-12-04 14:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just settle for a woman with no kids, if there are any of those left.
2007-12-04 14:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by hth 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋