Are all guys like this?

Question

i want true love, but all guys seem so insensitive and they only want one thing! Im still young, but when i get older i really want true love. how can i find it with guys so .... rude?? If your a guy, please answer this: would you fall in love with a girl if she looked average, but had a great personality??? Do you truly love women or just like sex???

Answer 1

No, they aren't all like that.

The urge to mate is strong in both genders - particularly with guys in their late teens. If that wasn't so, the species wouldn't have survived.

That being said, there is a real person down there, hiding behind all the insecurities, bad pick-up lines and overpower aftershave.

Be gentle.

Answer 2

You need to understand - if a guy really loves your personality, then that makes you more beautiful in his eyes. Yes, guys do fall in love with women who think that they look average. In most cases, I would say that a guy isn't insensitive, he is just immature. As guys get older, they do mature...slowly, but they mature nonetheless. Those young and mature guys are out there, you just need to keep looking. The one and only woman that I've fallen in love with had average looks according to my buddies, I thought otherwise. I found her personality to be her most attractive attribute. We dated for almost two years. I guess what I am trying to say is that you don't need to worry, your Mr. Perfect is out there. Like women, all guys love sex - the question should be - is sex more important to guys than love? That answer varies depending on the guy. No worries, it'll all be great.

Answer 3

Yes and yes... just me personally. Which is not to say I don't also care a lot about sex, I can't help it, I'm a guy. But I would much rather be with a woman I had a real connection with than one that was hot but nothing else.

This is going to sound like jealousy on my part, but beware of guys that are too charming and/or good looking. Having that kind of power can easily corrupt your soul. And be kind of wary about falling in love, because it can just be an irrational brain chemical thing and the person may not be that great after all.

And the comments about waiting til after 30...have a point.

Answer 4

I have dated attractive women and I have found that they only want one thing and that is money I am an average man and yes I do think about sex as do every male but I would love to find an average female that was not looking for money all the time.

Answer 5

I have given up on men... Which makes things complicated since, as a woman; I am 100% aware that all chicks are FOOKING CRAZY!

Men don't become truly "Human" until they are over 30 years old...

Before then they are selfish, stupid little creatures that are only interested in World of Warcraft and sex.

After that their libido’s slow down SLIGHTLY and more blood can reach the head that is positioned ABOVE their waist.

If you can hang in there you will eventually find someone that “fits” your personality… Just don’t let the stupid ones stop you from looking!

*Now men... Don't go getting all mad at ME. I understand that there are exceptions to the rule but in general, I have only met two types of men under 30:

1. Addicted to video games
2. Gay

So if you’re not in either category then you are an anomaly and I apologize for any bad feelings you take away from my comment.

Answer 6

I think they are when they are young and full of themselves. Yeah they all want sex.. Just be true to yourself..and when the time comes you will know it.. Dont let some handsome young man with blue eyes say they love you come in your way.. thats just a dang ploy to get what they want.. They will do this like flies to honey. Better get some vinegar to chase those varmits away before you get hooked. GIve yourself time to live first before the crazy stuff starts happening. Or else you will find yourself falling off the wagon. I know been there. Wished I had waited a million times over.

Answer 7

True Love is just that - TRUE!!!

It does NOT matter what you look like, what you do for a living, how much money you have/make... ALL that matters is LOVE!

Looks have NOTHING to do with Love - and this is one of the things that you (and the guys around you) WILL learn once you get older. And ANYONE who says that they DO matter are either shallow and vain, or are trying to get into your pants...

Think about it - 50 years from now, you'll BOTH be old and wrinkly - but the Love will STILL be there ;);););)

Answer 8

ofcoorse, everyone deserve to be love by anyone, specially when you are good in the inside, it's ok if you are just an average person looks is not that important, yes sex is also important but it's not that important. most important is love, trust, honesty and faithfullness what will you do with men who only wants sex, dont worry there are lots of fishes in the sea, you will find the right person dont force your self getting into relationship too fast, great things comes to those who wait.

Answer 9

I truly like woman, in fact I wouldnt ask for sex anytime unless the woman really wants me to. You dont gotta worry, there are some cool dudes out there that can still make your day or whatever, I would like a girl that looks average, but not all the time.

Answer 10

i don't know how old you are but most people tend not to be so serious about love until they are in their mid twenties or thirties. I think that some men say they love you to have sex with you because that is their main focus; having sex. You should wait until you find someone who feels the same way about you. You are special so don't give it up to the first guy who takes an interest in you. Save yourself and you won't get hurt.

Answer 11

Age doesn't matter in the game of love...Me personally am looking for a girl with a great personality but also around my age...how do i do that?...my everyday life i normally communicate and socialize with people my age...assuming that you are much younger than me, all the guys your age are probably like what you see...the ones that arent aren't mature enough to think of a relationship...i think you should just wait till your a little older and stop looking...the right one will eventually come to you...