Despiration!! Step daughter blackmailing me into buying her Cocaine, How can I keep my life together!!?

Question

I married my husband 2 years ago, I am now 23. He is a very wealthy business owner and has provided me with endless opportunities. I became pregnant with his child last year and during about 6 months into the pregnancy I started having sex with my brother in law. We would take the jet down to our yacht in the Bahamas and pretty much have sex the entire way down, and the activity also accounted for a lot of time spent on the yacht. So, one day I left the baby with the nanny from japan named Suh-Muh. So my brother in law and I decided to end the affair but a few days after I started having sex with one of my husband's business partners. It's ok for me to do this though because my husband has a house in Toulouse that I'm not supposed to because he has sex with other MEN at it!! He's not gay though, trust me (just MSM, i looked it up) So, the thing is, my step daughter found out about my second affair and now makes me arrange for cocaine to be delivered to her every week. How do I

How do I get through this and still be able to be with my husband! The array of houses we have around the world, the condos in the hottest cities, the yacht are just so wonderful!! What about the baby?? do you think it will make us stay together>??

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Answer 1

Whoa....you really ought to take a step back and have a good look at your life.

Answer 2

You should of thought about the consequences before you did the dirty deed! It's wrong what both of you are doing.... On the other hand though, If you feel that it is okay for your husband to have sex with other men then why would he see it as wrong if you were to sleep around as well? I don't think that you guys were ready for a baby... all you are going to do is bring it up with heartache... Also, you should really ask yourself if all the luxuries in life are more important than the love with your husband. For the cocaine think with your step daughter... tell your husband, you could get into alot more trouble with the law, i then you won't have any of the things that you are worried about loosing.

Answer 3

There's much more going on in your life that what you are telling here because there is some big flaws in your story By what you are telling us your husband is not only rich . He is a billionaire. So I will never believe his daughter need your house as a storage for her drugs . A rich girl can have her drug deliver right at her place by a private chauffeur ;; But maybe you you are taking some drugs and the daughter in law has enough of your hypocrisy toward her father

Answer 4

First, I hope you learn a lessen for this-SOMEONE ALWAYS SEES WHATS GOING ON...

I do not normally TELL people what to, I just suggest. But in this case I am telling you to do this. Go to your husband-sit down and tell him WE have a few problems and I would like to correct them. Tell him you are being blackmailed and by whom. Tell him you know of his extramarital secessions and how you feel about them-then tell him why you are having this discussion. You felt lost, alone and rejected and what was good for the goose was good for the gander. But you see that this is not how you want it to be. You need your family for support and you were wrong. Tell him you are deeply concerned over your step daughters addiction and you feel it will harm the entire family if she does not get help. Then adjust to what ever happens- Logic...He does not want the news spread about his affairs (especially if it is going to hurt his corporate holdings and his pocketbook). In short, you have a trade off and it would be up to YOU to correct your problems reguardless of his outcome. The concentration should be on getting her cleaned up. If you have any more questions, contact me.

Dr. Tommy Skelton

Answer 5

You must have made up this scenario to see what kind of replies you would get. There is no way in this world that anyone person with a brain and common sense could live such a nasty, depraved life and brag about it in the pretext of asking for help. I am not judging you, that job belongs to GOD, but I am criticizing you because this has to be the worst soap opera I have ever read.

Answer 6

You have got a very vivid imagination and everything above is a lie - OR you have the most disfunctional family I have ever heard of and you all need to get therapy immediately.

It is so outragous, that it IS impossible to believe.

My guess is that you are writing a novel, and this is your premise. It is too ridiculous to be true. But if it is, I am so glad I am not you.

Answer 7

That is abuse Your daughter should come first That is abuse He knows what he is doing Get rid of him I have a daughter and i am an abuse counselor You should be reported for being with him you allow the behavior by not putting your daughter first He remembers, he lies, denial of any abuser they all do it. She is your daughter, she should come first. What happened to you saying get out if you do it again the first time and he dos again and the 5th time he is still there. Why are you allowing this. The warning are there, you have to act yes he needs help but not living in the house with your daughter. He needs psychotherapy does he drink.

Answer 8

i have never heard such crazy things in my life!!! LOL its as if i read this in a novel or something.

if ur husband is sleeping with other men...and apparently so are u...u know about what he is doing..so why not just tell him??

with y'all messed up situation he might not mind even find it a turn on LOL stop with the cocaine business and settle for the sex industry...meaning ur husband and whom ever.

(this is the oddest advice i have given as yet but i think it will mean something in ur situation)

Answer 9

Hmmm.... never heard the phrase, 'you reap what you sow'? Perhaps you should start thinking about the baby as a priority, not a possible solution.

Answer 10

Shouldn't you be in bed? School comes earlier than you think!