I never have sex...why does he get frustrated? I dont get it.
2007-12-04 17:48:19 · 32 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha you most likely never will its a guy thing wait correct that its a penis thing and you have to have one to understand. Just know its not your fault and you keep yourself safe and only do it when your ready.
2007-12-04 17:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Poor dude, he doesn't understand that he isn't gonna get none. These guy is frustrated because your not lettin him get you in the sack. That is not a bad thing though! The fact that you've been able to hold out till 23 proves that you have a strong sense of morals and ethics. Unfortunately, i'm gonna say that if this guy only wants to ruin your virginity then don't even think about letting him have it. Men that only want to get in a girls pants usually have only one goal: how fast can they do it. This sounds so bad because it is, men that live there lives to pursue bangin women are usaully more self-centered, less caring about your needs, and vaguely understand you.
2007-12-04 18:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is the same age as you, he's probably either had sex already and doesn't feel like it's such a big deal, or if he hasn't he's probably feeling pressure to get it. Society makes guys feel like something is wrong with them if they go too long without sex. You should make sure to lay your intentions out for him in black and white. If you're waiting for marriage, tell him so. If you don't feel right about it until certain conditions apply (you reach a certain age, you feel ready for a family, etc.), you need to let him know. He probably doesn't know what to expect or when to expect it, and maybe if you clear up that confusion, it'll help his frustration level.
2007-12-04 17:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, well its only natural. Guys want what we can't have, but if we don't get it, we can get pretty mad. You're being quite the tease there. He doesn't sound like a good guy if he gets frustrated. It means that whenever he fools around with you, to him, he was expecting sex in the end, which is someting BOTH of you should confirm.
2007-12-04 17:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid or what? Guys have a very much stronger sex drive usually than us women do. you are driving him crazy. It is like telling a lady who has 2 weeks left to deliver that she has to wait 2 more weeks. It feels like an eternity and her body is ready to have it anytime. It can also be like a married lady being told that she can't have a baby for 2 yrs cause her hubby doesn't want kids yet even if she loves kids and does. Men were made to multiply and replenish the earth and their sex drive was made really strong to get the job done. Quit teasing him and lay off or get married soon.
2007-12-04 17:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by charity k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because guys can be really dumb and get more hyped up about getting some action than respecting the decisions of their girlfriends.
The best way to fix his frustration is to kill all hope. Sit him down and lay it out in no uncertain terms. That way there are no false hopes and he will just deal with it.
2007-12-04 17:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by jsp_1422 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be sending signals with your body language that you want sex even though you dont intend that. So stop sending him those signals. If youre wondering how you may be doing it , it has to do with when you guys fool around and how you act sexually around him when you do decide to fool around.
2007-12-04 19:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys do not have the ability to hold back. They want sex sex and more sex... It is in their nature, hotwired, to procreate, recreate... All forms of creating new life!
And ill give you a tip, Dont fall for it! Dont give him sex cause once he gets it, He will want it every single time he see's you, he will expect it....
Just like my boyfriend does, I love him to pieces but he needs what ever the opposite of viagra is.
2007-12-04 17:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah Darling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and I never had sex, I'm frustrated, it hurts my ego, you are gold, keep it up until you find someone special like me.
2007-12-04 17:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because he just wants to **** you so badly (knowing he can't live without doing that LOL!), and he knows you are scared of having sex cause u never done it before
2007-12-04 17:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Zick1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋