i've been going out with this girl for about six weeks now everything is great but there is this problem, she is 17 and i am eighteen she is still in school i just graduated and i hardly ever get to see her and when i do its always for a short amount of time or to me its short two hours is the most time in a day and sometime i cant see her at all. i mean all i ask is to see her everyday, i don't know if i should continue with this and hopefully it will get better but i don't no what to do
2007-12-04 17:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by genuine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is the short time you spend with her worthwhile in the long term - like after SHE graduates?
I mean, if this is REALLY the girl for you - then you should hold onto her whatever!
If you're just playing around ... well perhaps you could talk with her and explain the difficulties of having a play-friend who only plays for a short time and then goes home just when it's getting interesting ... or that you want to spend more time with her and it's frustrating you that you can't. Maybe you need to move on in this scenario.
2007-12-04 17:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her, maybe you should consider breaking up with her if you don't thing continuing your high school relationship after you have graduated as it is obviously not working out for you.
2007-12-05 01:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart! Sometimes it's good not to see too much of each other, makes you appreciate each other more. Give it some time, it won't be like this all the time.
2007-12-05 01:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by brianjana01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, she seems to have focus and thats a good thing, You should be in school or working and your time should be as valuable as hers. Go get a job and stop focusing on her.
2007-12-05 01:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by martimas77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i believe if you love her a lot you should take that time as precious and not ask for to much time, you both do have separate lives you know, not like she moved in
2007-12-05 01:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everday??? seriously, find some friends and quit acting like a selfish needy child
2007-12-05 01:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by jencw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you really like her than you should wait for her but if you have to question if you should still date her than she must not be that important too you
2007-12-05 01:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if you like be hapy with what you get, it will get better, she will grad. this year if you like her wait on her, hell right now my GF is 2000 miles away, be happy
2007-12-05 01:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by the_real_eaglesfan03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋