i got dumped but is this new girl for real?

Question

there was this girl called krystal whom i used to ask out 2 months ago but she said no. so then i dated my ex kathrin, who gave me the 'i need space' line but she's obviously interested in someone else.
krystal texted me a few days ago saying that if she wondered if i still did dancing and would like to go with her. we went today and she and i had a great time, she loved my jokes; and she was quite well dressed as well. and we spent a good amount of time flirting, then we went to a bar and she introduced me to some of her friends and i introduced her to some of mine. then we went back to hers, we haven't kissed yet or did anything. do u think i'm moving too slow? or do u think she's wanting something to come out of this, this is why she's not putting out so soon?
btw, it seemed as if like she was giving me little 'tests' like when we were at the bar she wanted me to ask the barman what drink was it that he was pouring at that time, what do you think she's trying to achieve with that?

actually the other day when i asked if you would go for someone who looked less than ur ex, i meant it as a hypothetical situation.

krystal is actually almost as good as kathrin (ex) they're both just different, i think i'm just more used to kathrin for now

Answer 1

That's what I like to hear you finally given this other girl a chance. I think you done well by taking it slow being that you're not over your ex yet. But if Krystal makes a move then don't hesitate. By you going to the bar and back to her house says she's definitely into you. Did she give you a hug or kiss good bye and are you taking her to the Ball? Fill us in on additional details...

Answer 2

She's testing the water, dude. She doesn't know what she wants with the her-and-you thing so she's wanting to see how it goes. It's a good sign because she's interested, but she's not smitten.

What's with the going with your ex-gf thing? That's a no-no!