Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

LIke before you married . or before your 18

2007-12-02 13:56:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my dad died a year ago and his birthday is in a couple weeks. Don't get me wrong I love my dad to death but I want like a father figure around and I know my dad would want my mom to be be happy but she says she's not getting remarried. I talked to her about before and she said she'd only be doing it for me......Also, I really don't have to worry about my stepdad or step family being mean to me b/c know my mom would listen....She's a great mom I just think she'd be happier and I'd be happier to which would make her happy. I mean I'll NEVER FORGET my dad.....

2007-12-02 13:56:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i started going out with a guy at the begining of the summer but we broke up because i caught him cheating with my cousin.well we have been broken up for a while but whenever i see him he tells me he misses me and loves me and to please take him back.what should i do?should i take him back?should i tell him to buzz off? i am so confused what should i do????????please help i know you all probly think this is just another teenage girl problem and you are probly right but i dont care i nee to know what to do.PLEASE HELP.

2007-12-02 13:53:35 · 20 answers · asked by babyoutrigger99 3 in Singles & Dating

know the guy i like likes me back?

i mean i see him and when i look at him he smiles at me does that count for something lol?

help :D please

2007-12-02 13:50:44 · 2 answers · asked by jcm 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my X broke up a year ago, but there is still awkward commicuation. I have been getting calls that display 'unknown' and I know its her because the phone only rings once or twice, and when I pick up, I hear breathing and then it disconnects. I dont even know why I care, but my current girlfriend says she was my first love and first loves are unforgetable. Recently, I have attempted to message her, just to say hello. I have yet to recieve a mesage in return. I don't understand why she won't talk to me. I doubt she still likes me, even though she is still single. Maybe she is jealous of my girlfriend, or just wants to make me miserable. Whatever it is, I just want a way to forget, or have this solved.

2007-12-02 13:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well here is the deal i have a boyfriend and he is really romantic and sweet and he calls me at least once every day. he always tells me he wants to c me and hug. at the end of a conversation he always tells me he loves me. there is a problem though, he's ugly. he really is, im not exagerating. i honestly dont want to be seen with him, or even around him, bcause i am like so much hotter than him. but i love his personality and i like to talk to him on the phone, but not in person. i know that looks aint everything. i am seriously considering breaking up with him but i has told me many time that HE CANT LIVE WITH OUT ME AND THAT HE WOULD KILL HIMSELF IF I DID BREAK UP WITH HIM. and i kind of do believe that he would. he also engraved my initials into his skin, which kind of creeped me out a little. i really dont know wat to do. its like an exact copy of beauty and the beast. I NEED HELP. IDK WHAT TO DO. i cant believe that this is happening 2 me. p.s. we r both 13

2007-12-02 13:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by cute lover 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a female tuition teacher who is teaching me mathematics. She is pretty with sweet voice and good figure.
She has been teaching me for a couple of weeks.
She will be very close to me while teaching me.
Sometimes, I can see her boobs if she wear low cut shirt. She wear good bra to make her boob nice looking.
If she wear tight shirt, fully cover, the shape of a boob will be clearly shown.
I need to concerate during tuition but sometime I can't.
What should I do?

Today, she is more pretty and accidently touches me.
My thing become long and hard.
I try to control it but I think she saw it moving.
What should I do?

2007-12-02 13:46:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my 17 months long boyfriend last week. and a few days ago i hooked up with a guy right infront of him, not on purpose! neway.. he stormed off and now wont talk to me. he says hes over me.. but it dosent seem like it.. am i in the wrong here??

2007-12-02 13:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

date a 15 year old, like a real relationship? they say i love you, and everything.. this seems crazy to me.. should i tell my SISTER to stop this now.. seems like trouble to me but the again its really not my business

2007-12-02 13:41:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I used 2 b very close. Like 1 unit. We are in high school and have not done it, we don't think we should. However, over the 1st 3 years of hs we grew so close. This year, our senior year, everything's changed and after 4 months of ups and downs but never breaking up, we had a conversation where he admitted often when we kiss he doesn't feel anything. He said he's no longer attracted to me all the time, and doesn't know why or how to fix it. He swears he is not a homosexual and I asked what I'm supposed to do tom at school after lunch when we usually kiss. He said he doesn't know and frankly I don't either. He doesn't want to break up he said, although I agreed he could have a break, but he doesn't want ot end 4 years over this. So what do I do, how do I help him or myself?

2007-12-02 13:41:44 · 12 answers · asked by glossycm 4 in Singles & Dating

~he tries to make me jealous
~he talks to me, even though he knows that i like him.
~he wanted my number so he could text me.
~i've asked him to hang out a couple times (at lunch, during school hours); each time he said no....
~he thinks that i am afraid of a little competition
~according to my friends, whenever i turn away, he stares at me, but when i look at him, he's never looking at me.
~his friend was at his house(and pretended to be the guy that i like), and asked me if i wanted to make out with him.
~we talk a lot on MSN.
~we say hi to each other in school, everytime i see him.
~a couple days ago his best friend was like, HI SAM'S LOVER to me.
~his friends [guys + girls] seem to know my name.
~he told me that he talks about me with his friends.
~we flirt a lot... over MSN. lawl

please help me out here!

2007-12-02 13:39:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it?
so my best friend went out with his ex for almost 4 months
& broke up
this was like about a month ago
& im really good friends with his ex
but even better friends with him
but i wana kno if its ok to go out with his ex
is it??
or am i being a bad friend?

2007-12-02 13:39:19 · 24 answers · asked by HEAVY METAL BASSIST 2 in Singles & Dating

He wont really talk to anyone, always mood swings, crys, gets angry, i feel that i am only one that wants to look into helping him. Others help but are getting really anoied with him. What sort of questions can i ask him. Not sure wheather he will go to a concelor or not ! can i ask him questions if so what?

2007-12-02 13:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-02 13:38:46 · 16 answers · asked by tito010101 1 in Family

If you had a boyfriend but didnt put any effort in the relatioship to keep you but then you meet a guy one night and text almost the whole night and he has a 3 year old son/daughter but you like him but you dont know what you would do about your boyfriend? how would you feel? what would you do?

2007-12-02 13:38:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 13:37:09 · 19 answers · asked by Evita 1 in Weddings

ok me and this guy have been seeing each other for a while now and i dont know what to give him for christmas.....any ideas? he always says he dont want anything but for me to be with him forever!

2007-12-02 13:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend that lives about 20 hours away. I live in California and she lives in Nebraska. We talk on the phone about two to four hours a day and love each other very much. Actually we've never met....but we have great chemistry. What are some things that i can do to make her extra happy? Leave her voicemails saying......i just need some ideas....


Thanks !!!

2007-12-02 13:34:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl, im a freshman, and shes a junior, and she really likes me, and i really like her, we've connected on every level, and shes fell asleep in my shoulder, and kissed me on the cheek, and we hug from to time (nothing more then what friends do)
last night, on the way back from a competition in an afterschool club, she 'took a break with her boyfriend' and we kissed (my first .)
but she's not the most chaste. she's had sex (both types), but she isn't easy or anything like that. I'm Islamic and that doesnt really approve, but i like her a lot. what should i do?

2007-12-02 13:33:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

told you to do your english final exam review packet and then hed give you 10 dollars to let him copy all your answers on to his packet would you?

i dont know...it seems like its worth more. Like if it was a day before the packets were due and he said he forgot to do it id easily give him my pack to copy off of for free...but if he told me in advanced to do it seems different. is 10 dollars enough or am i being an ***? he said he'd change his answers around and put some wrong so we don't get caught too.

2007-12-02 13:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-02 13:31:55 · 14 answers · asked by For Sure 4 in Family

My GF just got a new BF and according to her he is really big down there. He is only her third guy and alot bigger (lenght and width) than the other two. She keeps telling how much better it is when they are together. Does this jive with everyone else's experience?

2007-12-02 13:25:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend had just broken up with me and he said that he liked my best friend
i got really sad and ran into the bathroom and started crying (this is at school) my friend told me she wouldnt go out with him b/c he just broke up with me and i was realy hurt at the moment
i didnt want to sound like she couldnt have him so i was an idiot and said "go for it i cant make you like anyone or not like anyone"
she said she would
but later that day he asked her out
she said she had to think about it
she didnt realize i was right there
the next day after b-ball she called and said " your going to hate me........im going out with him" i simply said it was ok i didnt want it to seem like it bothered me
ITS BOTHERING ME A LOT!!!!
i dont know what to do now.............

2007-12-02 13:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by bella t 1 in Singles & Dating

Well im in the middle of something that is bothering me quite a lot. There is this one girl i really like, and I'm the type of guy who doesn't like his girlfriends to have done sexual things with other guys in the past. The only thing shes ever done is oral sex with some guy... but she did it to him and thats about it. Its a small thing, but coming from a somewhat religious background...im wondering if im overthinking this or if this is bad problem. If im overthinking this, can anyone give me some advice on how to get over something like this. Thank you

2007-12-02 13:22:45 · 25 answers · asked by HAPPYMANFROMRAMADAN 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems society is or even the black culture in general is okay with black men dating outside his race but when a black woman does it..she don't love her black brothas. Whats up with that?

2007-12-02 13:22:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets just pretend you couldnt have both

2007-12-02 13:21:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really liked this guy and he likes me too but there's a problem that makes us unable to be together. He'll be going to back to his country soon and will not be returning. Should I continue to keep in touch with him?

2007-12-02 13:21:29 · 7 answers · asked by 8teen 1 in Singles & Dating

(i mean sex...not just doing something disgusting on the bed itself)

2007-12-02 13:19:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother is about 25 and he isnt working becuase my other brother is having a buisnes and he is waiting till we become millionars so he doesnt have to work we are all tellingi him that he sould work bebcuase the business needs moeny he will kill time he wont be bored he iwill be happyer and everything whatcan we do as a family to help him he fights with ever one hie is grumpy now too what do we do plz give good advicae thx in advance

2007-12-02 13:19:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-02 13:18:33 · 2 answers · asked by yuliaa 3 in Weddings