well here is the deal i have a boyfriend and he is really romantic and sweet and he calls me at least once every day. he always tells me he wants to c me and hug. at the end of a conversation he always tells me he loves me. there is a problem though, he's ugly. he really is, im not exagerating. i honestly dont want to be seen with him, or even around him, bcause i am like so much hotter than him. but i love his personality and i like to talk to him on the phone, but not in person. i know that looks aint everything. i am seriously considering breaking up with him but i has told me many time that HE CANT LIVE WITH OUT ME AND THAT HE WOULD KILL HIMSELF IF I DID BREAK UP WITH HIM. and i kind of do believe that he would. he also engraved my initials into his skin, which kind of creeped me out a little. i really dont know wat to do. its like an exact copy of beauty and the beast. I NEED HELP. IDK WHAT TO DO. i cant believe that this is happening 2 me. p.s. we r both 13
2007-12-02 13:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by cute lover 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In todays world do not take this kind of thing lightley. You will need to sit with your Mom and Dad. I know when your thirteen you dont want to do that, but do it anyway.
Any person who would cut himself because of a rejection simply is not mature enough to handle you breaking up with him.
Tell your parents whats going on, they will guide you in the right direction.
If the guy doesnt leave you alone after you break it off, then get a big brother to take care of the problem.
2007-12-02 13:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is creepy for him to engrave your initials in him. he sounds like hes got a screw loose. thats feaky for real. you are only 13, you are so young. who said you are beautiful? no body is perfect, stop living up your butt. if hes not that cute you should have never started to be with him to begin with. you dont break up with someone because there ugly. thats stupid. looks are only skin deep. his wonderful personallity takes over his looks if hes a great person. thats fine let him go because he will find someone wayyyy better then you and someone who will find him attractive. thats mean to say waht you said, how you know he doesnt think the same of you
2007-12-02 21:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...At first, I was gonna call you shallow because you didn't want to date him because he was too ugly for you... but as I read on, he seems creepy. Cravin' your initals into his skin ? ...uhhhh..yeahhh. If you thought he was ugly in the first place and did't want to be seen with him, why did you start havin' a relatinoship with him in the first place? You should tell your parents 'bout him..don't be too scared to break up with him because he tells you hes gonna die...there's the police for that...so tell your parents, leave him as soon as possible, stayin' in the relatinoship longer will make it worse, And good luck...=)
2007-12-02 23:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha....sorry girl but that dude is messed up...he carved ur initials in his skin?? that is too much!! dont let the "ill kill myself" threat hang over your head!! if he is that messed up there is nothing you can do about his crazy ***....just dump him if you dont like him, be nice about it or even lie...if he doesnt live near you, make up some lie and say youre moving or something...anything to get him away from you, because he is only going to get more desperate and weird if you continue on together!!! lifes short and youre young...and he'll get over it!
2007-12-02 21:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Em-lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why the hell did you start a relationship with him in the first place omg! u are 13 years old you are both still children a much as you would hate to hear this my daughter is also 13 and if she was you i would be kicken her azz!!!!!
2007-12-02 21:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is being controlling if he says that he would kill himself if you break up.
People who say that have a problem because they are trying to control and manipulate.
If you are not attracted to him, then you have a right to break up with him.
2007-12-02 21:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by KAR36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋