i started going out with a guy at the begining of the summer but we broke up because i caught him cheating with my cousin.well we have been broken up for a while but whenever i see him he tells me he misses me and loves me and to please take him back.what should i do?should i take him back?should i tell him to buzz off? i am so confused what should i do????????please help i know you all probly think this is just another teenage girl problem and you are probly right but i dont care i nee to know what to do.PLEASE HELP.
2007-12-02 13:53:35 · 20 answers · asked by babyoutrigger99 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he seeing someone now?
Is he seeing your cousin still?
If he is still seeing anyone else, look for a new bf.
If he is not seeing anyone else, then consider starting to see him.
This is not marrying him, this is just dating.
Checking him out.
If he doesn't qualify, then you can find another guy.
If you decide to see him, take it slow.
Don't rush into it.
See if he is reliable and faithful.
If not, cut him loose.
Plenty of guys out there.
2007-12-02 14:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by ceviche queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should tell him to get lost.
Its one thing to cheat with your bestfriend..but your cousin.Now thats just wrong. You deserve sooo much better. No girl deserves to be treated that way. If you take him back how do you know he won't cheat on you with some other girl? You'll always wonder what he's reallt doing when he says that "he's going out with some friends." You need someone whos faithful. But if you really feel like giving him a second chance go right ahead. Its your decsion. I'm just telling you my oppion.
2007-12-03 19:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to buzz off. You sound like a real awsome chck! So don't go for someone that has cheated on you with oyur cousin of all people.
:) You need a stronger and better person than him kk?
xoxo
2007-12-02 21:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should. People can say "i will change" but it never happens. I doubt he can change how he always is....it is how we are born and it is hard to change dramatically. If you miss him or you want to give it another go, go for it...but remember and be aware of what he can do to you. He did it before and no doubt he will do it again! I hope I helped! Good luck with him! I hope you make a good decision:D
2007-12-02 22:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No, whatever you do, do not give in and take him back. He is a cheater and is not going to change. He does not love you, he is just playing you. Harden your heart, and cut him off. Yes, it is confusing and flattering when someone focuses on you, but just remember he is trying to use you, so don't let him get to you.
2007-12-02 21:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cared about you so much why did he cheat on you? I would tell him to buzz off
2007-12-02 21:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you and not even with a stranger it was your cousin, you should tell him to buzz off.. but i wouldnt b forgiving the cousin either... if he really luved you then do you think he would of hurt you in such a bad way, you can do so much better
2007-12-02 21:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did it once and you take him back, whats to stop him from thinking, "hey I can do it again and just beg her a bit and she'll take me back"
It';s like he is keeping you on standby in case the other girl doesn't work out. You deserve better
2007-12-02 21:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by brianwv64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you said the words "cheat" and "cousin", I stopped reading~~it's a little obvious what the answer is, don't you think? Don't be confused cuz this one's a sinch.
2007-12-02 22:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated once, he will do it again. Tell him to buzz off.
2007-12-02 21:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋