Problems with X girlfriend....please help.?

Question

Me and my X broke up a year ago, but there is still awkward commicuation. I have been getting calls that display 'unknown' and I know its her because the phone only rings once or twice, and when I pick up, I hear breathing and then it disconnects. I dont even know why I care, but my current girlfriend says she was my first love and first loves are unforgetable. Recently, I have attempted to message her, just to say hello. I have yet to recieve a mesage in return. I don't understand why she won't talk to me. I doubt she still likes me, even though she is still single. Maybe she is jealous of my girlfriend, or just wants to make me miserable. Whatever it is, I just want a way to forget, or have this solved.

Answer 1

wow! just remember that if she keeps calling you its because you are important to her. this makes you in control and dont answer blocked calls. answer only calls that display number. if it is her number just ask her what she wants, if she dosent respond just tell her that if she wants a friend you can be her friend but nothing more as you are already in a relationship.

Answer 2

Do not talk with her, except to tell the breather very clearly and firmly, without anger but without any humor, that this needs to stop, and that you will report it if it does not stop. Then do it! What she is doing is scary, and it has nothing to do with love as much as obsession.

Answer 3

tell her you want her to stop calling you. is it possible for you two to be freinds even though you are not together maybe thats all she really wants is to be your freind but doesnt know how to tell you so. just talk to her and try and settle the problem once and for all

Answer 4

confront her and tell her to stop calling, unless she has something she wants to talk about. do this without your new girlfriend. then if she doesnt stop, call the phone company to block her number.

Answer 5

Ditto..What Patrick said.