what should i do?

Question

i like this girl, im a freshman, and shes a junior, and she really likes me, and i really like her, we've connected on every level, and shes fell asleep in my shoulder, and kissed me on the cheek, and we hug from to time (nothing more then what friends do)
last night, on the way back from a competition in an afterschool club, she 'took a break with her boyfriend' and we kissed (my first .)
but she's not the most chaste. she's had sex (both types), but she isn't easy or anything like that. I'm Islamic and that doesnt really approve, but i like her a lot. what should i do?

Answer 1

shes on a break. so she really isnt totally free, but if you like her, there is nothing you can do about her past. if you really like her, ask her out. she likes you, doesnt she? i mean she kissed you. have fun with it, but like i said, the past is the past, and no girl will ever like a guy that tries to change her. so its all your decision

Answer 2

Religion sucks (all religions, I'm not criticizing yours). They have all kinds of ridiculous rules to limit your enjoyment of life.

I don't know how strict you or your family are, as far as following the rules. If dating her is ok, then you should ask her out. As far as having sex, my personal opinion is that you should, but I think you have to make this decision for yourself based on your values and what you think is right. I don't think you should not have sex just because your parents or religious leaders or anyone else tells you not to. Make the decision based on what you think is best. (But please use a condom to prevent unwanted pregnancy and diseases.)

Answer 3

dear brother u hav allready done all those things what a husband has to do with his wife&now u invited advise in public--its a very injustice with that poor but good girl--the only thing what u must hav to do is to hav got marrid her.......mgdv indian

Answer 4

take it slow. watever you do think it out first. listen to both ur heart and ur mind, and talk to her about how u feel about this.