Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

ive liked this guy for more then a year. we met in class. i never had the courage to talk to him. i feel super bad like beyond words. I see him in the hallways, and a couple months ago he was walking downstairs and i was walking up. we paused, and he looked at me from top to bottom, and then kept walking. I dont know how to contact him. i miss him so much. what should i do??? i know where his locker is but thats about it.

2007-12-02 14:31:15 · 1 answers · asked by aminallover29 2 in Singles & Dating

Is meeting someone in person that you only know from an online dating website safe? How would I meet him when we're on opposite sides of the US?

2007-12-02 14:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Brooke L 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and I introduced myself to her, we got along fine. She was friendly and didn't look creeped out. I just keep assuming that she might think I'm a stalker because we always ran into each other in the past. I don't do it on purpose... its random. We even saw each other at the train station. AM I over thinking that she thinks I'm a creepy stalker even if she acts friendly?

I'm scared that he smile is fake. I'm also afraid that if I keep thinking this then I will lose a chance with her. What do I do? Am I over analyzing?

thanks for reading.

2007-12-02 14:28:02 · 7 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

hugging another guy?
holding hands with another guy?
what is considered cheating?
P.S i'm 14

2007-12-02 14:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by little_rae_rae 2 in Singles & Dating

So ive known my best friend for 10 years and we are both 14 now.He just got a girlfriend 2 weeks ago but i mean before he hooked up with his girlfriend me and him went to the movies and were cuddiling and holding hands and i really liked it and a week ago we were playing truth or dare with some of our friends (his girlfriend wasnt there) and i gave him a hickey and he kissed me and just a couple of days ago we were in his room all alone and he was touching my butt and i was laughing and saying stop it tickles and then yesterday before he left he kissed me on both of my cheeks and gave me a hug and then left..but he talks about his girlfriend around me sometimes..he tells me what people are telling him to do for there month anaversery and i dont know i am really confused and i like him a lot and just recently he started putting his arm around me a lot and he never did that before and when were at my house he closes the door to my room and he puts his arm around me and cuddles with me

2007-12-02 14:26:31 · 5 answers · asked by Jessy 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex wife slept topless with panties almost every night. When she was mad at me in a rob or with a shirt on. She almost never slept completely naked for some reason. I always thought it would rather be a sort of treat to have her sleep totally nude but she never did. Any ways, how do you ladies do it for your husbands? Do you always sleep one way or another, or do you spice it up as a reward or on special occasions, etc? Also, when you are mad with them do you sleep clothed to punish them?

2007-12-02 14:25:54 · 20 answers · asked by Heart of Stone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hes leaving his family so i will have mine will he one day hate me for this?!?!?!??!!?!?!?!?!?

2007-12-02 14:25:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Theres a guy that I really really like, and he likes me but the thing is he's a total womanizer and sleeps around and has never been in a relationship where he hasn't cheated. he told my best friend that he likes me and that he's going to change, but i dunno if he actually means it. Everyone is telling me that he's a creep and i shouldn't go out with him. what do you think?

2007-12-02 14:24:12 · 21 answers · asked by She 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 14:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend and he tells my I am beautiful. I am not the skinnest girl.. Will he still think I am beautiful after he sees me naked with all my stretch marks and everything?

2007-12-02 14:21:09 · 53 answers · asked by In<3w/myBOO 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 14:21:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Moved in 2 years ago and have been nothing but nice to these idiots. Heres what theyve done in chronological order:
-Broke Into my garage
- the guy talked smack about me to my 3 year old son (the guy dosent even know me) he even had his daughter repeating what he said so my son no longer plays with their daughter.
- stands out on his porch listening to my conversations
- his girlfrind and sister were talking crap about me so I could hear it.
- blares his music late at night when my kids are trying to sleep.
-watches everything I do.
- throws things at the house
-throws things at my cars
MOST RECENT; last Sat:
- caught him getting ready to throw a ball through the window of my ambulance
-stood outside flipping me off
- filed a fabricated CPS report against us.
I shouldnt have to move should I?
What can I do??? I know alot that he does around his kid thats unsafe.
NOBODY IN THIS NEIGHBORHOOD LIKES HIM.
Please help...email: phantasm455@yahoo.com also..Thanks
Please help;

2007-12-02 14:19:52 · 17 answers · asked by pontiacpowered71 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Brief hist: met a guy things were really great instant connection btwn us...things just got comfy too fast fell into a pattern of being together like we'd been together for years instead of a few months. We tried slowing things down but realized we never built a friendship just jumped into a relationship. He asked me if we could just start over as friends and get to know each other to see if it would progress....is that just a line or do guys really mean things like that?

oh yea a little more about him: he was divorced (married his high school sweetheart) his ex wife cheated on him and i'm technically his 2nd gf.

2007-12-02 14:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do guys ALWAYS want to have sex?

2007-12-02 14:17:35 · 1 answers · asked by sabrinaa 1 in Singles & Dating

before u guys chew me up on this one.Let me explain....We were best friends before this.I wasn't happy .I filed for a divorce long before this affair.His wife relly doesn't treat him well.We would sit and talk about our mates.And yes I fell in love.He made me feel like I was somebody.We had this relationship for 2 years.He told me last Sept he was going to tell his wife he was seeing someone & wanted a divorce.And he did..Though all of this he called me 10 & 15 times aday telling me he wanted me in his life And wanted us to raise his daughter together.When he told his wife he wanted the divorce.She told him if he left her he wouldn't even get their daughter on the weekends.He hasn't had sex with the wife in 2 years.And I know thats true{long story dealing with the sex thing} anyways he now calls me and tells me he still loves me & still wants us to be together..But the wife has him over a barrel.Shes really big in her church..Guys what do u think?

2007-12-02 14:15:57 · 35 answers · asked by PATRICIA S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will try to make it short,but also give an understanding of the situation.I am a 21 year old single mother of a 5 yo old son.The father has been in our lives on and off.He stopped talking to me when I got pregnant and I moved across state to my mom's where there was more support.(I was 15 at the time,he was 16.)He joined the Marines when he turned 18 and in the past year we tried to make things work between us but it was too hard being so far away.He comes home for good in a month and says he wants time to settle before actually being a "dad".He does not want to live with us because he would have to help pay rent,he wants to settle down and go to college,get a job,etc. before doing anything else.I know it is a good mindset for him to do these things but I can't help but feel very angry that he gets to "decide" when he wants to be a dad to our son.Our son looks up to him like a hero and I don't think it's fair for him to just take his time until he is ready.I need some advice?

2007-12-02 14:15:33 · 1 answers · asked by Just Me 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay my sister got preapproved for a capitalone card and it has a 500 dollar credit line she went online and did her application and got approved now shes out spending the card but isnt it capital one fault to send her a credit card if shes under 18???

2007-12-02 14:15:14 · 13 answers · asked by PASSIONS 2 in Family

2007-12-02 14:14:16 · 4 answers · asked by mjo740 1 in Singles & Dating

I know many people who think 6 months is a big difference. Like my friend is 6 months older than her boyfriend and people make fun of her alot. Not only does it annoy her but it annoys me b/c i always have to see it. Like for me its very small but I'm just wondering if it is to u guys. Or are people like really stupid?

2007-12-02 14:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Really like this girl. Should we go to dinner, or would that be too awkward and cliche!?! How about just ice cream, or is that too boring/not enough?!? Girls, what do you like better?!? It's a nice little town by the water so i would take her to the ocean after wherever we go. Does this sound like a nice "hang out/first date"?!? Any suggestions.

Thanks a lot!!! :-)

2007-12-02 14:12:08 · 3 answers · asked by hollistermatt89 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 14:10:55 · 5 answers · asked by fantasyfairyfanatic23 1 in Singles & Dating

people get the wrong idea about me, just because I hang with her, and is best friends with her.. But I dont do anything that she does.... But I love her to death... I told her over and over not to do the things she does...... but she wont listen... and I dont want people to think I am a bad person.. what do I do?

2007-12-02 14:10:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Were both 20. Weve been dating for two months (I didnt know her before so Ive only known her for two months. I asked her after two weeks about a relationship, she said she wanted to move slow because she gets scared due to bad past relationships. For the next month and a half we have talked every single day and hung out nearly every day. We make out, hold hands, sleep over each others places, call each other babe, sweetie, etc., but we have not had sex or said "i love you." Should we slow down a little if we want the relationship to be healthy and last longer?

2007-12-02 14:05:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that sounds crazy. My alter ego doesn't think so.

2007-12-02 14:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by eaglewoman57 1 in Family

i have no job and no money. the kids are realy excited about x-mass but i dont know what to do if i cant get a job.I am bilanual and got my GED but i havent got a a car to get to far. can anyone tell me where i can go to get help for my kids .He left us on December 1 and Im scared they wont have anything from santa.

2007-12-02 14:04:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so heres the deal, I would kill to go to Hawai'i I mean i would do anything but I can't convince my parents to go I want to look at a school down there and there are just so many other things that just draw me to it. I need help on convincing them, Money isn't really an issue don't get me wrong Hawai'i for the week is expensive but it isn't totally out of the price range we usually spend for big vacations. I have even offered to pay my way there. I have looked into all the special packages multiple times.Then my mom says how she is afraid to fly over water ect. ect. ect. when there is nothing to fear. And my dad is just like "yeah whatever" he could care less...I have tried telling them how important it is to me to go but they just laugh sarcastically and think "yeah right whatever" what do i do to help convince them??

2007-12-02 14:03:16 · 1 answers · asked by bbellsport 2 in Family

2007-12-02 14:03:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I cook and clean and they don't care about my feelings. They are 18, 17 and 15. They expect me to cook clean and buy everything for them which I do. I have also a problem with alcohol. I have drank heavily most of my adult life. I feel like I can't do it on my own. Alls my family can do is hurt me not help me. I feel like sometimes i just wanna die.

2007-12-02 14:02:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My dad married my stepmom last year, and I have come to really enjoy her company. She is the only mom that i have ever had, and up until she came along I had no females in my life, except for the occasional girlfriend of my dads. recenlty, tho, we have been arguing a bit. Not major stuff, but I feel like she is going to start hating me if I keep fighting with her. I dont do it on purpose, the fights just happen. Like the other day I didnt finsh my homework and we ended up fighting. then we got in a fight over supper one night when I didnt like what we having and wouldn't eat it. Today i got in trouble by her when we went to church. it was after church, and I was talking to some of my friends. my stepmom told me to come on, and before I could stop myself i snapped at her "i'll be there when i am through talking!" then she came over to me and grabbed my arm and pulled me to the car. she started yelling at me about respect and stuff. I know that i shouldnt have.....

2007-12-02 14:01:27 · 6 answers · asked by Addie 1 in Family

ok.
all today shes been yelling at for everything!!!
but just right now she told me she was going to put me in a hospital!!!! only because she read a copple of things ive writen like 2-3 weeks ago. and already in going to counceling weekly...but now...she wants me to go away to live there! :/ and she doesnt understand everything ive done was then i haven't anything now. and ive told her that im ok...and that everything was then and not now.
so idk what to do i need help before tomorrow morrning. or eles im out of here. :'[[

2007-12-02 14:00:53 · 8 answers · asked by bria<3 2 in Family