HELP!! Should we slow down???

Question

Were both 20. Weve been dating for two months (I didnt know her before so Ive only known her for two months. I asked her after two weeks about a relationship, she said she wanted to move slow because she gets scared due to bad past relationships. For the next month and a half we have talked every single day and hung out nearly every day. We make out, hold hands, sleep over each others places, call each other babe, sweetie, etc., but we have not had sex or said "i love you." Should we slow down a little if we want the relationship to be healthy and last longer?

Answer 1

Go slow like a turtle.

Answer 2

well it seems like its going fine to me. i mean if you want to, but how slow is slow? you clearly doing it now. so just act how you are acting and i think that things will go smoothly. if you really love her then tell her. but maybe not now bc she wants to take things slowly. don't have sex just yet, wait until she becomes more comfortable with you and let that be her decision. it will blossom to a healthy realtionship if you both are enjoying it right now, and i don't see any problem or flaws. good luck

Answer 3

you should do whatever makes her comfortable. Is she is the one having the problems, you should make her feel as if u are there for her, because if you dont, she might be scared of ending up in a bad relationship and she might walk out on you. You shud COMPROMISE for now and make EACH OTHER comfortable..

Answer 4

slow or fast (and it does not sound all that fast) it does not matter to the health or longevity of a relationship ---- its about wanting to make it work and resolving problems as they arise without too much stress --- just let it develop and see what happens --- best wishes

Answer 5

well if you havent said i love or had sex then you realy respect her and thats great i give you props try talking to her again about it and ask her where she wants this reletionship to go ....

Answer 6

Wait a month. then see how things go.