I am thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend and he tells my I am beautiful. I am not the skinnest girl.. Will he still think I am beautiful after he sees me naked with all my stretch marks and everything?
2007-12-02 14:21:09 · 53 answers · asked by In<3w/myBOO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry about the strech marks. No one is perfect. And if he cares about you it wont matter. Be confident and comfortable. If you are neither, you probably arent ready to have sex with him. The human body is beautiful, dont stress about it
2007-12-02 14:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, thinness is not necessarily beautiful. Not all guys think skinny skinny women are attractive, in fact many prefer ladies who are a little bit plumper ... and this I am saying from experience.
As for your stretch marks - hon, everyone has stretch marks if they have lost a lot of weight in a short time. Your body needs time to even itself out. I'm sure you're a lot more attractive than you seem to think you are.
Just remember: the likes of those gorgeous models are not real, they too have bits that are less than perfect which are either covered in make-up or airbrushed off.
Your boyfriend will think you're lovely. Don't worry about it! A man who likes you only for the way you look is not worth bothering about - he has to like you for you.
2007-12-02 14:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hay don't do that! guys will tell u all u want to hear just get get in your pants.its any thing go when it comes to sex.even more so when we think we can't have something. you will think he's the man of your dream's and it will all change after u give it up.don't do it.if... however you do, make him were a condom no mater what. he may even tell u he can't feel any thing with it on.to bad u don't want a baby that way.think long and hard before u do any thing. I'm a dad of two little girls.one 8 and the other is 6mt. i give u this answer thinking"how would i answer if you were my little girl" good luck and ill be here if u need me. be careful
2007-12-02 15:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by bbbyrk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...How old are you? Secondly, I don't think your first time should be debated on yahoo answers beforehand. Chances are this is not the right time to do this.
If he has not even seen you naked, then you must not be getting intimate enough in the first place to even proceed with sex. That would be a lot of "firsts" all in one night. If you want to do this, you should probably take it slow. I really think it would be a bad experience for you if you just jump right into it (especially if you are self conscious about your body, you have a lot to lose from his reaction.)
My advice would be to more comfortable with yourself before you open up to someone else in that way.
2007-12-02 14:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by ~hustler~ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it right now. If you are doubting his loyalty and love for you, this is not the time. When you are totally trusting and comfortable with him, he will be totally trusting and comfortable with you and that is the right time. But I recommend waiting till commitment or marriage. If you are not sure that you guys will be together forever, why waste something so precious? Another option, if you are stubborn enough that you *have* to do this, is DARKNESS. If the room is moderately dark, you don't need to be conscious about stretch marks. Good luck! ~MarciQ
2007-12-02 14:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before I go any farther, I would not suggest losing your virginity right away. It is a special thing and once you lose it, you cannot get it back. Think wisely before you make this decision. I feel that if he loves you for who you are, he will not be worried about your stretch marks. Waiting for sex is very rewarding. How will you feel if you give yourself up to him and the relationship sours? Please, think before you act!
2007-12-02 14:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Wait until a guy gives you a long-term commitment - preferably marriage. This isn't about whether or not he says you are beautiful. It's whether or not he is commited to you and will still be after you've done the deed or even end up pregnant.
2007-12-02 14:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by RLW 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey , why are you thinking about doing that? Don't you care about yourself? How will you feel if he dumps you 3 months down the line? There are plenty of other things you can do without having intercourse. You will regret it so much if you do it. email me if you like and we can chat. You think you have questions and doubts about your body now Wait until you do it you will be in a constant state of self doubt and insecure you'll drive yourself crazy. I have nothing against sex but once you lose your virginity its lost FOREVER so think it over Please?
2007-12-02 14:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i watched a talk show once and they talked about this kind of stuff. i go through the same thing with my body. i think i look terrible naked and dread the day i will have to take my clothes off and have sex [well maybe that was a little overdramatic lol] but they said that it really helps if you walk around your house naked. make sure no one is home, all the windows are shut, and the door is locked and walk around naked. its supposed to help a lot.
and if he really cares about you, he won't care.
most guys don't worry about how they're gonna look once they're all hot and heavy. and a few strech marks arn't gonna stop them from taking their clothes off. and i'm sure once you're in the mood you won't worry about it either.
2007-12-02 14:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by thisaintascene_x 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What!? I don't think you should...
You can never get your virginity back, and there are so many STD's... think very hard before you make this decision...
Whoever you decide to give this gift to should be someone that you truly love and truly loves you... stretch marks are not going to matter.
2007-12-02 14:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋