Brief hist: met a guy things were really great instant connection btwn us...things just got comfy too fast fell into a pattern of being together like we'd been together for years instead of a few months. We tried slowing things down but realized we never built a friendship just jumped into a relationship. He asked me if we could just start over as friends and get to know each other to see if it would progress....is that just a line or do guys really mean things like that?
oh yea a little more about him: he was divorced (married his high school sweetheart) his ex wife cheated on him and i'm technically his 2nd gf.
2007-12-02 14:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as for me, not that i don't trust him..just been told that before many times before and just ended up getting hurt
2007-12-02 14:28:02 · update #1
well the only way to find out if he means it .. is to give him a chance ... and go from there ... but keep your head strong and be prepared for things to get bad ... just incase ... dont be played for a fool. But if things arent working out now ... well they definetly wont work later .. unless you try to fix it now ... like trying the friendship thing now ... cuz youre partner for life ... has to first be you friend for anything to work ... hope it works for ya!
2007-12-02 14:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by X4gOTTEnX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look thats not always bad... I had the same thing happen to me and my girlfriend the thing is not that the relationship was going to good is that you didnt have as much communication and so all you'd to do was take a couple of days a week to talk and bring up future Questions or even things that are coming up in life. this will situate your relationship and create a good sense for your partner and you....and remember to ask your likes and dislikes that way ya know were bonduries are located.
2007-12-02 22:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Stylo_Versachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have to start over but, need to do things beside going to bed! Go to the movies or out to dinner, or see what u both enjoy doing u have the other down pat! But Do u know his wants and what he likes, food, tv shows, does he know u ?
2007-12-02 22:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by firefighter3240 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what he is saying and yes its best to be friends and stay friends --- but starting over again??? --- i dont think its possible maybe keep seeing each other and doing things together --- thats what dating is all about anyway --- trying to build a relationship that includes friendship ---- best wishes
2007-12-02 22:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't even trust him to the point where you believe that he's not just feeding you "lines", then you shouldn't be with him. He is probably sincere, though.
2007-12-02 22:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by E-Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋