I like this girl and I introduced myself to her, we got along fine. She was friendly and didn't look creeped out. I just keep assuming that she might think I'm a stalker because we always ran into each other in the past. I don't do it on purpose... its random. We even saw each other at the train station. AM I over thinking that she thinks I'm a creepy stalker even if she acts friendly?
I'm scared that he smile is fake. I'm also afraid that if I keep thinking this then I will lose a chance with her. What do I do? Am I over analyzing?
thanks for reading.
2007-12-02 14:28:02 · 7 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you are--it doesn't sound to me like she believes anything other than the happy coincidence of the 2 of you running into each other. However, if you keep focusing on your fears and how nervous you are about this whole situation, she will definitely pick up on that and begin to wonder what you are so jumpy about, and that could make her start to wonder. Just relax and be friendly. Maybe running into each other often is the universe's message to you that you should ask her out!
2007-12-02 14:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by besoseda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the longer you take to make a move, the more likely she will start to think you are. If you want to ask her out on a date, just do it. the only way you are going to lose your chance with her, is if you wait and wait. The longer you take the more likely she will think you are just a creepy stalker. Show her, you are not and just ask her out.
2007-12-02 22:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by TjHookr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm concerned about what you could be doing to make you wonder if she thinks you're stalking her. Deep down, are you really going overboard and you know it? If your meetings truly are random, make a joke about it to break the ice. And back off a little - let her be the first one to say hi to you.
2007-12-02 22:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are.. unless she develops the scared bunny look, everything is probably ok..
Ask her to do something simple and out in the open, like coffee....
2007-12-02 22:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are indeed over analyzing, she smiled didnt she?
2007-12-02 22:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are way over analizing, just be confident she doesnt think that.
2007-12-02 22:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Joel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't look like a stalker.
it's just coincidence. :D
2007-12-02 22:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋