My ex wife slept topless with panties almost every night. When she was mad at me in a rob or with a shirt on. She almost never slept completely naked for some reason. I always thought it would rather be a sort of treat to have her sleep totally nude but she never did. Any ways, how do you ladies do it for your husbands? Do you always sleep one way or another, or do you spice it up as a reward or on special occasions, etc? Also, when you are mad with them do you sleep clothed to punish them?
2007-12-02 14:25:54 · 20 answers · asked by Heart of Stone 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow I didn't expect to get flames for this one, but thank you for all of you who did answer without the hate. I was simply curious, it has nothing to do with fantasy or any of that, I had her for four years and that was more than enough. I'm moving on and involved with somebody else now, but just haven't slept with them over night yet, so it spured my question. Again, thanks for the real answers from those who gave them, and for those of you who are haters, why waste the time to even answer?
2007-12-02 14:35:49 · update #1
As god made me... both my husband and i do... and extra special i'll dress it up..
Hope you find another lovely lady to think about as your ex is clearly your ex now.. best of luck..
2007-12-02 14:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by goober 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, you will laugh but I think my situation is very common up here in the northeast where we have harsh winters, and I also have arthritis so cannot allow cold air on me. In the winter, my husband is still usually hot and will sleep in boxers and a t-shirt. I go to sleep with a sweatsuit, a zippered robe over that, and socks up to my knees even though the house is warm enough. I have just always been cold since I was a small child. Sex has nothing to do with it because I never have sex and just go to sleep like that...how can anyone sleep with semen running out...yuck. I do my business in lingerie or nothing at all and then put my nightclothes on to go to sleep. Since he's already been satisfied, he doesn't care. In the dead of summer I have skimpy nighties LOL.
2007-12-02 14:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When I was married, I slept with some sort of nightshirt on. It had nothing to do with my husband. It was just the way I felt comfortable.
Years later, I was involved with a man who made me feel comfortable with myself, my life and my love of him. I began sleeping in the nude with him when I felt comfortable or wanted to...other times, I slept in a t-shirt, or just underwear.
It was more about the temperature in the room than the person I was with....now days, I sleep with just undies on, with a robe close by....
2007-12-02 14:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
every once in a while i sleep naked but most of the time i just sleep in a shirt and sometimes i fall asleep knaked after alot of really great and long sex i did this before i got married we have a child he's the only guy that makes me feel sexy even though i have a great naked body
2007-12-02 14:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by kariweber_17 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a case of if she feels "pretty" or not. might just be cold.
i would ask her flat out what is the deal
if she dressed sexy you'll know why
otherwise leave her alone, you'll know when the time is right
at least she is in the same BED with you
my husband & i love each other but sleep separately because of his snoring & my getting up early or several times a night.
2007-12-02 14:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wear satin nightgowns that are very silky and shiny every night. which my husband loves seeing me wear (I do love how I feel in it) It works well because it is easy to pull it up when we want to have sex.
I feel it's my job to look sexy feminine for my husband. Or sometimes lingerie.
When I still wear Satin nightgowns. It's what I Pretty much wear to bed,
2016-07-31 15:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually just sleep with the panties on. Sometimes I wear a tank top. We dont go to bed mad at each other. It isnt healthy. Sometimes I put a corset on and a thong for him. He LOVES it!
2007-12-02 14:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by M 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
PJs
we have kids!
and its 0 degrees outside!
sometimes I might even put sweats on if i'm cold!
those fuzzy socks have been known to be put on my feet before bed too!
2007-12-03 02:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sleep in a nightgown and underwear, and on cold nights also with pajama bottoms. I don't ever have to "punish" my husband.
2007-12-02 14:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Dolyn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are asking a very personal question as a kind of survey from total strangers, when their personal habits have no bearing on the information you claim to be seeking. Why are you doing that? I suspect you want to get some kind of thrill out of the answers.
Your question is not appropriate, and more fool anyone who volunteers information that is not your business or anyone else's.
2007-12-02 14:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋