If you had a boyfriend but didnt put any effort in the relatioship to keep you but then you meet a guy one night and text almost the whole night and he has a 3 year old son/daughter but you like him but you dont know what you would do about your boyfriend? how would you feel? what would you do?
2007-12-02 13:38:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To avoid being a 'ho,' you, and every other person considering a new bf or gf, should become single, at least for a month or two, if that's possible. THEN, you can think about new relationships.
2007-12-02 13:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by headcheese 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An on line relationship always feels special until you get to know the other person. I had several and the only one that worked was the one I met in less than a week of chatting. We knew off the bat that we would be compatible and skipped all the chat to meet in person. the others I chatted for months and cared for a lot but none never made it past 1 date as there was no chemistry when we met. If you cheat on your mate then no one will respect you in future relationships. work on him before you work on someone else.
2007-12-02 21:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by frozenbrew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the boyfriend doesn't really care, just end that relationship and try one on the other guy. Who cares if he has a child, if he's a sweet person. I would feel so confused, but sounds like the other guy will give you more than the other one. Especially if the other guy still is in touch with his child after a break up.
2007-12-02 21:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in a similar situation last week. i have a current boyfriend who doesn't try a lot and i saw my ex at the bar a few weeks ago who would talk to me all night on the phone and was very romantic, etc. honestly when i saw him all my feelings came rushing back to me... but for some reason i know i have to be faithful to my boyfriend now because we have been together for 3 years and i dont wanna think i wasted all this time, and he is still a good match for me regardless of my ex... but the choice is yours and is individual... are you ready to move on? could you see yourself with this new person, or are you just infatuated? would you miss a lot of things about your current boyfriend? i think i'd be asking myself a lot of questions about my current relationship and the happiness possibilities of being with my current boyfriend, or going for the other guy. I like being comfortable and don't like big life altering changes, so i choose to stay with my boyfriend.... but you may be totally different.
2007-12-02 21:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by *the dancing machine* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should sooo dump the old *** if u really like the other guy so much and sortov make ur move on him, or start out as friends because u never know, you might have a lot less in common than u think, and it might just be a crush thats blocking your vision, if u get what im saying, but dont do anything if he is married! hehe
2007-12-02 21:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend isn't putting any effort in to the relationship then whats the point? Its a two way street and if he doesn't care anymore then time to end things and think of yourself.
2007-12-03 00:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by kirstalina81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age, and if you are a good looking babe then most men would talk to you all night,just to get you into bed,and you have to realy deeply think about taking on a child,this is a life changing decision,and you must not enter it lightly.and also he may use u for a while and then dump you.and anyway no law says you have to stick with your boyfreind but you deserve a bit of life first,id forget this guy.sorry to put a downer on things,but you must think with your mind and not your hormones.good luck anyway though.
2007-12-03 01:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your boyfriend a heads up that you aren't happy and about to jump ship. It is not nice to dump somebody just when someone else that is better comes along. If he was such a bad boyfriend before, you should have cut him loose beforehand.
2007-12-02 21:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by deirdrezz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're current boyfriend isn't into you or the relationship it's time to let him go anyways. Why would you want to stay with someone like that? Here you are with this guy who is honestly into you and wants to get to know you. I'd say ditch the zero and zone in on the hero.
2007-12-02 21:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by ash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd get rid of the boyfriend and go with the man who I like, even if he had children. It sounds like the boyfriend is only barely lukewarm anyway, and not such a great loss.
2007-12-02 22:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋