All right, so I basically look like a guy.
I have a 30" waist, I'm 5'10", and wear a 36A bra
I basically have the body of a high school male, to the extent that someone thought this one male freshman and I were identical twins. I;m a high school female.
I hant to look more like a girl, but I hate being girly.
Makeup is out of the question, I won't wear it.
I HATE tight clothes.
I have giant feet (size 13), so there are no girls shoes (besides 3inch heels) that fit me.
I want something that subtly says I am a girl, but can't find it.
All my attempts just make me look like a girly guy or a guyish girl.
My boyfriend loves me for who I am, but I want to bee able to look like a girl without wearing a skirt.
So yeah, is there any advice out there for me?
ps - I'm usually "one of the guys" in groups, to the point that it takes like 15 minutes after the raunchy jokes start for someone to realise I'm there, which is fine by me cuz I like the jokes...
2007-12-02 15:55:59 · 22 answers · asked by lifelesswonder 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
... but I'm a junior in high school, and I hang out with freshman guys, and once in a while it would be nice to know that I can actually make a guy realise I'm a girl. I Love my boyfriend to death, and I wouldn't dream of leaving him, but I would like to know that there is someone else who would like me if I wasn't taken.
Any advice on this?
2007-12-02 15:58:04 · update #1
I'm NOT losing weight, I'm 140 pounds naturally (I eat like a pig, but have a crazy metabolism) You can count my ribs.
Thanks for the form tees comment, no heels for me, I tower over my friends already.
I will do some girlier things, but I'm not a girly girl.
I own some girl shoes, but I'm not a fan of them because they're uncomfortable.
I'll try changing my attitude around them a bit.
I just like being myself, but I wanted some little things I could do to change, without changing myself.
2007-12-03 11:14:02 · update #2
I don't want to be a girly girl, I know they fail. I just want to be a little less of a boy.
I just don't like makeup. I wear it to formal events, and people tell me I'm amazing with makeup, but I just don't want to wear it. Maybe I'll try a tiny bit some day to see how it works, but I really don't want to.
2007-12-03 11:16:37 · update #3
You don't like tight clothes, how about a baby doll shirt. It isn't real tight but it is girlie. And you can pair it with some jeans. I would suggest a pair of heals with it if your comfortable. Also you could just get a simple form fitting tee, (not tight) shirt and a great pair of jeans that is also sexy. Also it has to do with your personality, be just a little flirty nothing over the top. Carry yourself with confidence, sit up straighter. Things like this will help them realize, hey this is one sexy girl. Also wear your hair down, it doesn't matter how long or short its is if you usually wear it up having it down will change your look totally.
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2016-10-02 05:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear some pretty stud earrings with matching bracelet. they are pretty casual and go with jeans, you could also get a. ballerina flats (with a matching belt) are very comfy, they go with jeans and are casual and girly. Also wear cute lil jackets, they make ur waist look slimmer and they are very cute and always in style. Try some in denim, or khaki. Carry a purse and do something with ur hair. Dont ever wear t shirts that go straight down on the sides, They should curve in at your waist, even if only a lil bit
2007-12-02 16:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you is to develop your own unique style. This frees you up from trying to look overly feminine past your comfort level to accomplish your goal. The easiest example of someone I can think of who does this is Gwen Stefani.
A visual example:
http://www.joshhornik.com/images/GwenStefani.jpg
However you feel as a person, experiment with clothes, styles and looks that reflect who you are. We can all appreciate individuality, and you might even set trends. So the only point I'm trying to reiterate is to come up with your very own style. It takes the focus less off of your individual features, and gets you seen as a whole. I think in turn you wouldn't be judged for how feminine or unfeminine you appear.
2007-12-02 16:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by jengrenade 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda hard, you don't want to do so much. The only thing I can suggest is make your hair sexier, all it takes is spraying some hairspray in it, and crunching it a bit and teasing it a bit, it'll make it fuller, and curl it a little bit too. I know you don't like make-up but a simple tinted chapstick and a small swipe of blush on your cheeks will help A LOT. That wouldn't even take 30 seconds in the morning.
2007-12-02 16:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by gogirlanime0 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No make-up? No skirts? No fitted clothing? You've just stripped the entire female image down to nothing. You need to be proud of your sex and your body. Wear shirts with a lower neckline, and try at least a dab of mascara and blush to start with. Be proud of your feet and wear a flat ballet shoe in funky colors or with ribbon or sequins. You can order larger sizes online.
2007-12-02 16:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How can one give advise to you after all the things you stated your NOT willing to do. All those things your not willing to do, Hot girls usually do. I'm sure you check out the girls around. If you find a look that you think is hot in a girl way, but not the normal girl way, try that look. But I bet you go back to your normal way of dress...why?...because you are who you are!!
2007-12-02 16:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by david 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just fix your hair semi-nicely, doesnt have to be fancy, wear a cute pair of jeans (dont have to be extremely tight) and a nice top (again doesnt have to be tight) just not a huge t-shirt, something that shows you have boobs lol, maybe a cute polo or something.
2007-12-02 16:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by gatorgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you wear your hair? maybe you should get a new hairstyle. that changes your overall appearance, and so does well groomed eyebrows. i understand not wanting to wear dresses, but it really depends on what YOU like.
i really don't know what else to say, because I don't really know your personality well, and some pics would help as well.
2007-12-02 16:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
oh. mygosh. im 14.... i wear size 13 shoes too....
www.zappos.com
www.designershoes.com
www.womensshoesplus.com
theyre expensive... but theyre girl shoes.
2007-12-02 15:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋