OK I really like this guy his 24 and I'm 18 and we've been talking a lot on the phone lately and I really like him a lot but this summer when we start to get pretty close and we almost got together he had sex with one of my friends and he just had sex with her and after that he didn't want any thing to do with her when I asked him about he said he said he just really missed sex and he told her that before they did any thing and his cousin is my best friend and me and him were talking one day and I told him that I didn’t want to have sex with Eric and he said that him and Eric had talked about it and he said that Eric really liked me and my friend (his cousin) told me that he didn’t think that’s all he want me for but then me Eric stopped talk b/c I got mad about him for sleeping with my friend and that was a few moths ago and now we are getting close a gain but I don’t want to be with him if that’s all he wants
2007-12-02 16:18:25 · 6 answers · asked by cfhjufdrbko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK today we talked about relationships and he said that he wont mind being in one right now .. o and I'm not like agings sex so it not that i dont want to have sex with him i just dont want that to be it
2007-12-03 12:23:05 · update #1
take things slow and take the time to get to know him. If he starts pressuring you for sex or tells you if you don't have sex with him he'll find someone to have sex with, then you'll know that sex is all he's interested in.
A word of warning: this was a recent incident with your friend. If he'll do it to one, chances are he will to it to another. The incident isn't far enough into the past for him to claim he's changed and isn't like that anymore.
2007-12-02 16:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing, he's six years older than you, and even though that isn't a legal issue now that you're a legal adult, it poses a psychological issue. Because chances are he is much more experienced than you, not just as far as sex goes, but also as far as life experience, that puts him at an advantage over you. I would suggest waiting things out. If he really does care about you like his cousin says, he won't mind waiting untill you have more life experience before entering a dating relationship with you.
2007-12-03 00:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by HeartSIN 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just ask him well at least he told her that he just wanted sex but yeah just ask is my answer for you he will tell you if you to are close and if you to are close then he will want more then sex from you
2007-12-03 00:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by lexus_fenix 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he wants sex. Refuse to give it to him, in any form, and I promise you he won't hang around for long. He will say and do anything he can to convince you otherwise, but he's lying. Don't believe him.
2007-12-03 00:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Torchbug 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men like sex.
2007-12-03 00:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by Water 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I thought O.C. was cancelled??!
2007-12-03 00:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by aaron g 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋