Ok. Well I'm 15 and I have a lot of trouble going up to girls I like and talking to them. I know how to keep the conversation going I just really dont know how to go up and say hi? Do I use a pick up line, a funny but decent one or do I just introduce myself? I have a lot of trouble with this so please help me?
2007-12-02 18:59:16 · 35 answers · asked by eckojulian13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go for it. Walk up to her and say HI!
1. If you can muster it, try to display some "game", like...you and her just both happenned to be caught up in this same crap...so..you "got" that in common...then move in from there...
2. If you're more "real", just go with it and say..."Hey, I've been wanting to say HI and talk to you since school started. I think you're really cool." She'll probably treat you like a god for having the "nuts" to make the move when most guys are too timid...but she's really been hoping a guy would show her that he's interested.
2007-12-02 19:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by M O R P H E U S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a few things you could try. First would be introducing yourself. It's nice and genuine but it can be boring and can be a real cliffhanger if you dont know what to do next. The next thing you could do is find something in common with them, whether it has to do with their outfit or wherever they're shopping. You could always do the funny story approach....make up something like, omg did you see that guy bend over over there, he had crap stains all over his underwear. (just an example, dont go with that) The main thing you want to portray is that you're not really interested in them. Make sure they know that they are not that important to you even if you think they are. You could be real quick about it and say, I'm leaving with a friend here in a minute and I just wanted to stop and say hello. You never want them to feel pressure or smothered by you. If you play it off cool then you're good to go. Don't go in there with a bunch of questions.The main thing is keep it short and simple.
2007-12-02 19:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by James G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First--don't do anything until you check yourself--are you wearing appropriate clothes--clean and well fitting?? Is your hair trimmed and washed?? Are your hands and fingernails clean?? Brush your teeth and then stand tall and be proud of who you are--walk into a room confidently--smile and say HI to everyone--if a nice girl is there, walk over and say HI--plan on what the conversation will be-- talk like an educated young man. Always show the girls courtesy and respect. Plenty of pretty girls scare boys away--so the pretty girls do not get talked to as much as they would like to be talked to--so don't be afraid to confidently walk up and say HI. Good luck and Happy Holidays !!!
2007-12-02 19:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I know you must hear this all the time, but you really are so pretty! My name is Mike..."
The truth is, girls like to hear they are pretty, and they like you assuming they hear it all the time, which they probably don't because boys think it but don't say it. As long as you keep it clean, she'll be flattered, and not freaked out. Then hold out your hand, introduce yourself, ask her her name, and move on to small talk. If there's an awkward silence, tell her "It's been nice meeting you. I hope to see you around again sometime" and then leave, so she and her girlfriends can say "Oh my God!" and giggle about the guy who had the guts to just walk right up and say something...NICE!
2007-12-02 19:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Karsten S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and say hi. Listen, there are a lot of girls out there that give guys the cold shoulder, but it's because the are insecure. If you can make them feel secure with you then you're in business! And remember, if you don't swing the bat, you'll never get a hit.
2007-12-02 19:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by mental.note 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence my friend, that is the key. No, don't be all jokey just say hey "whatever her name is" and start talking. Just cause you like her doesn't mean you have to get nervous. You said you can keep the conversation going and that is more than most guys can do.
2007-12-02 19:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her something like "What time is it?". If she doesnt have a watch, simply say "Hi, I think you are familiar, have we met?" and the next story goes....
If she didn't return the "hello's" and ignored you instantly, that means she's unfriendly and doesnt like you..
time for you to back off and look for another girl...
There are more girls than boys in this planet, so you may have a lot of options big kid!
2007-12-02 19:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pink Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is just go up to her and say Hi and introduce yourself. You don't need any lines..
2007-12-02 19:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "hey, how's it going?" and ask her how her day is going. Talk about the obvious... the music, the town, the school...
And some of the best advice I've heard from really pretty women is to say "I think you're really beautiful, would you like to join me for _____ sometime?"
Avoid words like hot, sexy ect, those will make a girl feel like a cheep hooker.
YOU CAN DO IT!
2007-12-02 19:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if they are struggling with something, like their bag or trying to find something, and ask if they would like a hand. always a good start. Then see if they want it taken somewhere, and talk on the way. If not just say you're such and such (ie your name) and hope to chat sometime.
If anything just go up to them. They want to see confidence.
2007-12-02 19:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by Comet_Strike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋